Jewish Community Center of    JCC the Place to Be
 Long Beach Island  E-Letter

 April 14, 2020
 20  Nisan 5780





ZOOM INVITATIONS THIS WEEK

Maariv EreV Passover VII - Tuesday at 7:30 PM Click on MAARIV

Passover VII Services - Wednesday at 10:00 AM Click on PASSOVER

Maariv EreV Passover VIII - Wednesday at 7:30 PM Click on MAARIV

Passover VIII Services YISKOR - Thursday at 10:00 AM Click on PASSOVER

Kabbalat Shabbat - Friday at 6:00 PM 
Click on  KABBALAT

Shabbat Services - Saturday at 10:00 AM
Click on SHABBAT

Havdallah - Saturday at 8:30 PM 
Click on: HAVDALLAH

Contents
Zoom Invitations
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was...
This Week's Events
Service Schedule
Yahrzeits for Next Week
Happy Birthday
Need Help?
Congregation News
Documents & Links
 A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Though we currently find ourselves in a world of uncertainty, one thing is clear... This has been a DIFFERENT Passover. In the murkiness, one thing has become apparent to me: The JCC of LBI has an extraordinary array of congregants. In addition to the mitzvahs that so many of us are doing, what has amazed me the most, is that in the middle of this chaotic environment so many of our congregants have kept a very positive view. I have been making calls to check in with you, expecting varying degrees sadness and anxiety. In truth, however, most of you have exhibited such strength, resolve, and humor, that you have actually lifted my spirits. Kol Hakavod! To each of you goes the honor! (if you have not heard from me, in all likelihood you will!)
 
The other part that has amazed me is how "connected" we have become. We are a people for whom numbers make a difference. Every Hebrew letter is given a numerical value. The Seder is full of numerical symbols; Three, Four, Ten, Fifteen, Fifty, Two hundred, Two hundred-fifty. (If you want an explanation of these numbers, just call or email me!)
 
While our preference would have been to be together, let me show you what the numbers tell us about the JCC's Passover. At the first Zoom Zeder we were 55 households. (Most households had at least 2 people present. The simple math is that there were 110 people on for that Zeder). At the second Zeder we were 37 households. We had 20 households for each of the morning Passover services and Shabbat. 30 households joined us for Kabbalat Shabbat, and 27 households sang with us for Havdallah. Evening Minyans have averaged 13 households. In short, by the numbers, we are connected and connecting.
 
All of this said, please keep coming! Count, and be counted. Next week I will continue with our classes. Torah study, Torah Deep Dives, Psalm Day, Ask the Rabbi. If there is anything that you want, or can suggest that I do, just let me know.
 
At the end of the Exodus story our ancestors find themselves wandering in the desert. A desert wilderness can be scary. People can feel isolated, alone, powerless, and without connection.   Sound familiar? Our ancestors received two remarkable gifts at the end of the their wandering. The first gift, was the Torah. It provided a universe-changing new way to live our lives. The second gift came after many more years of wandering. It was the gift of a homeland; a place where the people and the Torah could work together to make a better world.
 
As we get ready for the last two days of Passover, my wish and prayer for each of us is that we quickly make our way out of the current desert wilderness and that we find, and recognize, the gift that is waiting for each of us.


 A PRAYER:
Dear G-D, full of strength and compassion, give us the ability to use the divine that is within each of us: To wander this wilderness wisely, To help others along the way, To astutely use the new lessons we have learned, To show gratitude to those who are risking their lives so the rest of us can isolate safely, and To give thanks for the blessings that we receive everyday. And finally, G-D of love, even as we remain separated, help us to be present for those who are suffering, may they feel the comfort of our warm embrace through our virtual connections. Amen.

 
Chag Pesach Sameach - Rabbi Michael S. Jay

KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

During this pandemic our Rabbi has been busier than ever organizing services and seders and keeping in touch with our congregants who need his guidance and support.  

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM  KOL HAKAVOD

THE WEEK THAT WAS...

We have never experienced a Passover like this one.  Thanks to Zoom many have had family seders with lots of family and friends around the virtual table without having to make a Passover meal for the whole gang.



Yasher koach to Rabbi Jay for organizing our Zoom Seders for both nights.  

On the first night we zoomed with over 50 families and on the second night almost 40 zoom families.  





We enjoyed going through the two different and interesting Hagaddahs.

It was wonderful to see LBI friends and family together to tell the Passover story.




Some folks have sent in pictures of their Seder tables.  If you have pictures, please send them to [email protected] for publication in next week's email.

Lynn & Stan Berman move Seder to Computer

Melanie & Mike Piscetelli Seder table

Valentine Table with family pictures

COMMUNITY YOM HASHOAH


 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

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Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  

OFFICE HOURS
Monday, Wednesday and Friday 9 AM to 1:30 PM 

THE OFFICE IS TEMPORARILY CLOSED.
PLEASE USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.


  
 
Office Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
   Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member



   Mary Beth and Leslie



Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff



Kitchen Manager
Susan Berube


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS   
TORAH STUDY 
with Rabbi Jay will begin again on Thursday, April 23 @ 11:00 AM

CHAG 
SOMEACH
&
SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)

Passover
Pesach VII
Tuesday
April 14, 2020
7:17 PM

 Passover
Pesach VIII
Thursday
April 15, 2020
8:26 PM

Friday evening,
April 17, 2020
7:20 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

JOIN US FOR INTERNET
SERVICES

Maariv
Erev Passover VII
Tuesday
April 14, 2020
7:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

Passover VII
Wednesday
April 15, 2020
10:00 AM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:
PASSOVER VII

Maariv
Erev Passover VIII
Wednesday
April 15, 2020
7:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

REMEMBER TO LIGHT YOUR YAHRZEIT CANDLES
WEDNESDAY NIGHT



Passover VIII
Thursday
April 16, ,2020
10:00 AM
YISKOR
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:


Kabbalat Shabbat
Service
Friday,
April 17, 2020
6:00 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

Saturday Morning
Service
Saturday, 
April 18, 2020
10:00 AM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

Saturday evening
Havdallah Service
April 18. 2020
8:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:



YAHRZEITS FOR NEXT WEEK

Geraldine Isanuk
Barbara Sher*
Marian Selsky*
Ben Weisberger
Raleigh Liebenberg
Bill Sisenwine
Kurt Albu
Dora Haber
Raphael Haber
Anna Schwartz
David Weinstein
Mae Hirschorn Cohen*
Morris Ross
Calvert I. Waranch*
George Foosaner
Alfred David Frumkin
Ruth Goldman*
Matilda Tubis
Izzy Ungar
Marvin Einhorn
Larry Holt
Audrey Konwiser
Evelyn Miller*
Jennie Shapiro

Rabbi will read at Kabbalat Service

PLEASE LET THE OFFICE KNOW WHEN YOU WILL NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADDISH.  

 
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue 
memorial boards.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Cake

This Week's
Birthdays 

Martin Weinberg
April 18
Michael Babst
April 20
Naomi Koller Fishman
April 20
Marvin Fitts
April 21
Ellen Oxfeld
April 21
Susan L. Beekman
April 22
Debra Falek
April 23
Jennifer Millner
April 23
Ruth Miller
April 24
 
 

If you have not given the office your birthday information and would like to receive birthday wishes, please notify the office of your date of birth.

And if you would like to have the Rabbi give you or a family member a special blessing on the Shabbat of your/their birthday, please let him know: RABBI

NEED HELP WITH GROCERIES OR MEDICATION ?



Please let the Rabbi or office know if you need help with groceries or medication pick up.
CONGREGATION
NEWS

CONDOLENCES TO

The Family of
Patricia Axilbund Mayro

See obituary here:


"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory." 



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Caring 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
     

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