Each year February rolls around and many folks that are in relationships begin making romantic plans for Valentines Day. This is when I love my pragmatic husband the most... because over the last 27 years we have been together he has sometimes given me something small for Valentines, but followed it with, "I love you everyday. It's only celebrated on this specific day to sell Hallmark cards.' I smile, because it's kinda true. It's nice to remember etching out time for each other regularly can be far more romantic than a once a year splurge. (Join myself and my pragmatic husband, Andrew, for our annual Couples Yoga Class Feb 15.) When it comes to a possible modern look at Valentines Day we could visualize a day or time carved out not for love or be mine notions, or even to sell greeting cards, but for gratitude of our relationships/friendships. Yes, a special day does remind us of our loved ones, but everyday has the potential for an act of connection. In that spirit, Holy Cow Yoga Center is dedicating the whole month of February as Friendship month! We invite you to bring a friend for free (Feb 1 - 15 ONLY) and share your practice of yoga. (See the coupon below). Also, read Steven's take on friendship in his article below, bring a friend and volunteer in our Karma Crew Feb 16, share a healthy meal with Amor Healing Kitchen recipe of the month or bring a friend to our book group Saturday, Feb 1st. See ya on the mat.

Big Namaste,
Trace Sahaja Bonner
untethered soul
Untethered Soul
Book Discussion Group
Saturday, February 1
6:30pm - 7:30pm
We are excited to continue an exploration and study into the international bestseller, The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. His phenomenal book, which has been highlighted on Oprah, gives an insightful look into how to live a life of awareness and purpose.
This book study is open to all and free.
Our suggestion is to read chapters
5 - 7 for our second meeting. A few more books will be available at the studio.
There are songs written about them. Most tv shows are about them. Some people have many, some a few. As you get older friendships become more about quality than quantity. At least for me that is. I’ve spent the better part of the last year working the idea of acceptance and expectations. Most spiritual paths will teach us that our unhappiness, stress, etc stem from our resistance to reality. 
For me this includes meeting people (especially my friends) where they are in that moment. 

An observation I’ve made is that we’ve developed a superstore mentality about relationships. When I was a kid, you went to the grocery store for food, another store for socks, another for a bike, another for a cup of coffee. Then the superstore was born, and we could get all these needs met under one roof! We can even get an oil change! 

We then have this expectation that our friends should check all the boxes: party partner, shoulder to cry on, moral compass, Uber...you get it. Accepting your peeps as they are is one of the most loving things you can do. I have friends that I can cut up, drink with, breakdown “Drag Race”. These are rarely the friends that call me on my shit or talk me off the ledge. I have the friends that I solve the problems of the world with, discuss meditation, reincarnation, healing trauma. These are not the people I discuss what happened on Bravo the night before. 

Then I have that small group that do ALL of those things and then some. These relationships have taught me the most about acceptance, that there’s an ebb and flow, that you have to listen, be invested...when to hug, when to give space. 

These are the friendships that have taught me the most, about the world, people and myself. When we were kids the most important thing was how close did they live or where was there locker located. Today it’s empathy, compassion, and connection. “Friends are the relatives we make for ourselves.” It’s taken me years to learn that true friendship means challenging each other, holding accountability. Going out and getting hammered in my 20s was great, but the friends that bring me soup when I’m sick, let me vent and cry when I’m upset, these people have made me better. There’s an episode of Sex &the City, where the women are talking about relationships and soulmates. Charlotte, the romantic optimist, drops the mic with, “maybe our (girl)friends are our soulmates and guys (or girls) are just people to have fun with.”

Steven teaches Tuesday & Thursday evening 7:00pm, Wednesday & Thursday 12pm, Friday 9:30am and Sunday 5:00pm & 6:30pm. He guides meditation on Thursday 1:08pm (20mins)
COUPLES YOGA
with Trace Sahaja Bonner &
Andrew Anastassiou
Saturday, February 15 4pm - 6pm
Trace Sahaja and her husband, Andrew, share how working collaboratively with the varying poses (asanas) can build communication and fun "together" to achieve the impossible. No yoga experience is necessary. Only an open heart and a willingness to play.
FULL ASHTANGA PRIMARY SERIES
with Maria Kelly
Sunday, February 16 8am - 10am
We are happy to offer either half led, inspired or mysore Ashtanga Yoga at Holy Cow Yoga Center 6 times a week. However, we don't offer a full primary series on the schedule. Join Maria Kelly for a morning full primary practice as a fundraiser for Amor Kitchen , a non-profit organization that cooks healthy, planted based meals for those undergoing cancer treatment. All proceeds are donated.
karma crew
KARMA CREW
Sunday, February 16 2pm - 4pm
Bring a friend or three and your donation to our packing party! We need individually wrapped tampons, pads, liners and wipes and gallon sized ziplock bags! The Homeless Period Project donates to over 100 facilities in SC and the Lowcountry chapter donates to all six area school districts and over 60 local charities and organizations! Our group will gather at Holy Cow Yoga Center to put together as many packs as we can! 
Amor Healing Kitchen Recipe to Share
food is best when its shared...enjoy this wonderful recipe from Amor Healing Kitchen.
Winter Lentil Soup
4 servings

  INGREDIENTS
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
1 medium yellow chopped
2 carrots, peeled and chopped
4 garlic cloves, minced
2 teaspoons ground cumin
1 teaspoon curry powder
1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
1 large can (28 ounces) diced tomatoes, lightly drained
1 cup brown or green lentils, picked over and rinsed (lentils are packed with protein, fiber, and folate)
4 cups vegetable broth (or water if no broth handy - just add more spices!)
2 cups water
1 teaspoon salt, more to taste
Pinch of red pepper flakes
Freshly ground black pepper, to taste
1-2 cups chopped fresh collard greens or kale, tough ribs removed
1 to 2 tablespoons lemon juice (1/2 to 1 medium lemon), to taste
1/2 cup chopped fresh parsley (high in vitamin C - perfect for winter!)
1 cup pepitas (roasted pumpkin seeds) - top each bowl with 1/4 cup - each serving of pepitas brings you 7 grams of protein - and packed with magnesium, zinc, and iron!!

INSTRUCTIONS
Warm the olive oil in a large Dutch oven or pot over medium heat. One-fourth cup olive oil may seem like a lot, but it adds a richness and heartiness to this nutritious soup.
Once the oil is shimmering, add the chopped onion and carrot and cook, stirring often, until the onion has softened and is turning translucent, about 5 minutes.
Add the garlic, cumin, curry powder and thyme. Cook until fragrant while stirring constantly, about 30 seconds. Pour in the drained diced tomatoes and cook for a few more minutes, stirring often, in order to enhance their flavor.
Pour in the lentils, broth and the water. Add 1 teaspoon salt and a pinch of red pepper flakes. Season generously with freshly ground black pepper. Raise heat and bring the mixture to a boil, then partially cover the pot and reduce the heat to maintain a gentle simmer. Cook for 25 to 30 minutes, or until the lentils are tender but still hold their shape.
Transfer 2 cups of the soup to a blender. and purée the soup until smooth. Pour the puréed soup back into the pot. (Or, use an immersion blender to blend a portion of the soup.)
Add the chopped greens and cook for 5 more minutes, or until the greens have softened to your liking. Remove the pot from the heat and stir in 1 tablespoon of lemon juice. Taste and season with more salt, pepper and/or lemon juice until the flavors really sing. For spicier soup, add another pinch or two of red pepper flakes.
kristen
Saturday, February 29 2pm - 4pm

Find your center and feel grounded, softening back into yourself in a sometimes hard world. Together we'll explore simple and supportive practices to help cope with chronic stress or anxiety. We'll calm the mind and relax the body! Learn to identify and honor your feelings, easy breathing exercises, slow and mindful movement to release bodily tensions, long-held, restful poses to encourage relaxation, and guided meditation. Walk away with tools that you can use to stay easeful and peaceful. Calming herbal tea will be available as well as a safe, non-judgemental, and supportive environment. Please dress comfortably and bring a yoga mat, journal, and writing utensil. 
yoga nidra
Saturday, February 29
5:15pm -6:00pm

Yoga Nidra—known as yogic sleep—is a conscious relaxation practice that is intended to induce total physical, mental, and emotional relaxation, and a healing journey for body, mind, & spirit. Enjoy this 45 minute guided experience with Kristen King for a total sense of well-being.

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doug
International Guest Teacher
Doug Keller
Yoga and Marma: Inspirations for the Path Inward
take your practice or teaching to new heights with deeper understanding
March 13 - 15, 2020
Registration is open
Limited Space
Holy Cow Yoga Center
10 Windermere Blvd
Charleston, SC 29407
843-769-2269