MESSAGE FROM THE DIRECTOR
As Christmas approaches, many of us long for family. For some, this is a joyful time when generations gather together. For others, it is a reminder of family that is no longer present, Often for the families of the 55 million people living with dementia it is both, as they have loved ones who are physically present, but mentally far away. Our hearts are drawn to help those who are lonely and isolated, but it is not always clear how. A single visit or a meal provides connection and comfort, assurance that they are not alone or forgotten, but the impact is fleeting. How can we give that comfort and encouragement on a consistent basis? That’s where Hope Haven comes in. Beginning in February, this new ministry at St. John’s Church will provide a place where those living with dementia can be surrounded by caring individuals whose only goal is to be present to them and engaged with them sharing games and meals, making music and art. It will allow caregivers, who have so many responsibilities on their shoulders, a moment to breathe and time to take care of themselves. A recent Stanford study found that 40% of dementia caregivers die before their loved one, and caregiver stress is a major factor in this sad statistic. We can provide these stressed
caregivers with time, support and a loving place to which their loved one will want to go. As the holidays come and you ask how you can bring hope to those that are suffering and isolated, please consider making a commitment to volunteer at Hope Haven once a month, or once a week. Not only will it bring joy into the lives of families dealing with dementia, but into yours as well. When we give of ourselves, we too find a much-needed connection and end up benefiting the most of all.
- Cathy Baxter
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