Defined
by Generosity:
"How are you Living the
Dash?
"
... sermon four
of a four part series ...
Scriptures for reading and
reflection:
Genesis 28:18-22![bread](https://ih.constantcontact.com/fs030/1101736933999/img/326.jpg?a=1103856674304)
Psalm 112
2 Corinthians 9:6-15
Mark 12:41-44
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Below
is final sermon in the "Enough" stewardship sermon series for
October that was given October 31st on our Commitment Sunday. If
you were unable to be with us in worship, please make sure to fill
out your Pledge Card and
bring it to worship over the next two Sundays. I also strongly
encourage you to fill
out this personal commitment
sheet for you own use as
you reflect on other ways you can commit yourself to following
Christ in the coming year.
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Death
is often experienced as a sobering and intensely personal wake-up
call - intellectually, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Everyone here this morning that has experienced the death of a
family member, friend, or loved one knows the truth about which I
speak. Over a month ago, at the death of my sister-in-law, I was
reminded of how unexpected life can end, without warning or
notice.
These
past two weeks have again been difficult. On October
16th, Methodist Pastor Todd Krueger died at the young
age of 45, after a brief, but courageous battle with Leukemia. And
then Monday morning of this past week brought more sorrow. As many
of you know, David Jasper, godson of Larry and Bernice, died very
unexpectedly in his sleep on Sunday night at the age of 52. On the
same day, Mack McMillan, district superintendent of the Rocky Mount
District, also died suddenly and unexpectedly from a blood clot
that formed in his leg after knee-replacement surgery. Please
continue to keep these families in your prayers.
Larry
and I attended Mack's funeral on Thursday of this past week. It was
again one of those sobering and intensely personal wake-up calls.
At one point in the service, Rev. John Strother looked out over a
sea of grieving faces with an uncharacteristic smile for
such occasions
and said: "Brother and sisters ...
I am here to remind you that
Mack knew how to live the
dash ... everyone knew h im
as a loving father, a strong
leader, a loving husband, and a generous spirit with everything -
his time, his talents, and his very life." As he said the words, I
looked down at the front of my bulletin which read: "The Reverend
Samuel "Mack" McMillan, III, November 12, 1959 [dash] October 25,
2010 - and I just stared at the dash.
It
is enough to make a person think, right? We are not so much defined
by our birth date, the only thing it proclaims is how old we are.
We are not so much defined by our date of death; for when it is
placed beside the other date, it can only proclaim how long we
lived. But that dash - the mysterious little line between the two -
that is something to consider. When we have departed this earth,
what will your dash say about you? About me? How do you want to be
remembered? What characteristics, what habits, what virtues or
vices will define the way you lived life between the day of your
birth and the day of your death? What will people say about you,
how you lived, what you did, where you went, and what you left
behind?
Just
this week, the NY Times had a front page story
about the newest, 27-Story residential tower in downtown Mumbai.
Some estimate the building's value around 1 billion. The parking
garage fills six levels. There are three helipads on the roof.
There are terraces upon terraces, airborne swimming pools and
hanging gardens. There are nine elevators, a 50-seat
theater and a grand ballroom. Hundreds of servants and staff are
expected to work inside. And now, finally, after several years of
planning and construction, the residents are about to move in. All
five of them. The tower will be home to India's richest person,
Mukesh Ambani, his wife, and their three children. The home in
Mumbai (former Bombay), is built in the same city where an
estimated 62 percent of the population live in slums. You know the
old expression "money talks?" Well, one thing is for sure, the
people of Mumbai are talking. Some think the tower is a monument to
mammon. Some think it is screaming "I'm rich and I don't care what
people think." Others just look at the tower in awe and hope that
one day they might get to work there.
Now
that is obviously an extreme - but have you ever wondered how your
use of money talks? In what ways do you live before the watching
world? What do other people see? What does the way we use our
resources, our time, our energy and our money say about us? About
our values? About our interests? About what we love and what we
hate? About our passions? Our hopes? Our dreams? Our longings
and desires?
Now
contrast that story from the NY Times with this one:
"He
sat down opposite the treasury, and watched the crowd putting money
into the treasury. Many rich people put in large sums. A poor
widow came and put in two small copper coins, which are worth a
penny. Then he called his disciples and said to them, "Truly I
tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are
contributing to the treasury. For all of them have contributed out
of their abundance; but she out of her poverty has put in
everything she had, all she had to live on."[1]
It
is perhaps Jesus' first finance committee meeting - and the first
order of business is to change the agenda. Up until now, the focus
was on the big donors,
the big gifts. After all, think of all the good those gifts could
do? - Fund the Temple construction, assist the poor, feed the
hungry, generate new programs for outreach and witness - the list
is endless. Jesus doesn't notice them - but he does notice a poor
widow. It would be hard not to notice her, because this was before
the days when you could write a discreet check and place it in the
offering anonymously. The Mishnah tells us that there were
thirteen trumpet-shaped receptacles against the wall of the Court
of Women. Most donors came forward and announced the sum to the
priest before placing it in the coffers with an air of
accomplishment.
It
is not unlike much of church giving today. Professional fund
raisers are quick to point out that the key to development is
"donor recognition." We don't carry obnoxiously large bags of
money into the Temple for all to see - but we do want a gold plaque
on the wall, a name listed in the special friend section of the
campaign booklet, and a window with a stain glassed acknowledgment
of our generosity. But Jesus recognizes a widow. Imperceptible to
most Temple worshipers, she slips between the long robed scribes
and rich rulers, no doubt a distraction to some and an annoyance to
others. What is she doing here? What possible good can she do to
advance the work of the temple? ...but Jesus notices her.
He goes even further, making her an example of faithfulness and
obedience.
Suddenly,
Jesus' finance committee meeting is not just about money, it is
about obedience and trust. It is not just about fund raising, it is
about giving. We think the
difference between the rich donors and the poor widow is one of
class, economics, and assets. Jesus tells us the difference is
larger, grander, and more unsettling. This widow has a different
orientation toward God and the world. She is not just giving a
little off the top. She is not tithing ten percent - 20 percent.
One coin would have been an even 50%. She goes further - in fact,
the troubling thing for us is that she went all the way. She gave
everything.
In
a sense, I believe that this widow turns Jesus' finance committee
into a trustee committee. Think about it. This is not about what
we own, what we have, what we give, and what we do with what is
left. It is about what we have received. Part of the problem with
so much of the church's talk about money is that we focus on giving
before we focus on receiving. The truth of the Gospel is that we
own nothing. We are trustees - entrusted with gifts, talents,
life, time, and ideas. The real question we need to be asking
today is not "how much should I give to God out of my abundance."
But how much should I keep of what God has given me?
It
is an unfortunate truth that most people lose more change each year
($100) than they give to the church annually. Even those who tithe
tip God less than waiters expect, even at a chain restaurants.
What if we reversed the way we do offerings - what if, instead
of taking some off the top, we put all our income in the offering
baskets and then came forward to "take from God" only what we
needed? It is not very practical, but it at least makes one
wonder if we still have yet to hear the message of the poor
widow.
Let
me share a story in conclusion:
Erma Bombeck [popular columnist and writer
known for her humor and wit] was constantly asked if she saves
up her best ideas for the next column, or how she parcels out and
dribbles out her best ideas. Before Bombeck died she answered these
queries in a column, "What's Saved is Often Lost." "I don't save
anything. My pockets are empty at the end of a week. So is my gas
tank. So is my file of ideas. I trot out the best I've got, and
come the next week, I bargain, whimper, make promises, cower and
throw myself on the mercy of the Almighty for just three more
columns in exchange for cleaning my oven.
"I
didn't get to this point overnight. I came from a family of savers
who were sired by poverty and . . . worshiped at the altar of
self-denial. "Throughout the years, I've seen a fair number of my
family who have died leaving candles that have never been lit,
appliances that never got out of the box . . "It gets to be a
habit.
"I
have learned that silver tarnishes when it isn't used, perfume
turns to alcohol, candles melt in the attic over the summer, and
ideas that are saved for a dry week often become
dated.
"I
always had a dream that when I am asked to give an accounting of my
life to a higher court, it will be like this: 'So, empty your
pockets. What is left of your life? Any dreams that were unfilled?
Any unused talent that we gave you when you were born that you
still have left? Any unsaid compliments or bits of love that you
haven't spread around?' "And, I will answer, 'I've nothing to
return. I spent everything you gave me. I'm as naked as the day I
was born."[2]
Sound
familiar? We we were reminded by John Wesley last
week: earn all you can, save all you can so you
can give all you can. So let me ask you today: In what ways
do you live before the watching world and what do other people see?
What does the way you use your resources, your time, your energy
and your money say about you? How are you living your
dash?
Wesleyan
Covenant Prayer:
I
am no longer my own, but thine. Put me to what thou wilt, rank me
with whom thou wilt. Put me to doing, put me to suffering. Let me
be employed by thee or laid aside for thee, exalted for thee or
brought low for thee. Let me be full, let me be empty. Let me
have all things, let me have nothing. I freely and heartily yield
all things to thy pleasure and disposal. And now, O glorious and
blessed God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, thou art mine, and I am
thine. So be it. And the covenant which I have made on earth, let
it be ratified in heaven. Amen.
[2]
As quoted by Leonard Sweet in his book, "SoulTsounami: Sink or Swim
in the new Millennium Culture," p. 275.
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