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January 4, 2023 | #1

 

Join Us in a January 5 Discussion

A few decades ago, Diane Rosenfeld wrote her master’s thesis at Harvard Law School titled “Why Doesn’t HE Leave?” She wondered why sending women and their children to shelters became the acceptable approach to domestic violence. 


Since then, she has discovered solutions, and written about it in "The Bonobo Sisterhood."


We will talk together about highlights from the book and how we can build a Bonobo Sisterhood Alliance in Minnesota. This will be the first of several discussions in the formation of a statewide network.


“Bonobos show us that uniting with other females and allies, coming to one another’s defense in numbers, will shut down aggression.”

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"The U.S. has specialized court rooms filled with terrorized and terrified women desperately pleading for protection from their intimate partner. Rather than provide them with meaningful help, our system is set up to make it their own responsibility to keep themselves safe."


“We have to understand that the problem isn’t that of an individual woman in individually bad circumstances.”

 
 

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You will receive the Zoom link by 3pm CST Thursday, January 5

 

We will have a few readings to open up an hour-long discussion. Please come prepared by reading:



Identifying the Needs

The National Network to End Domestic Violence conducts an annual survey to offer a snapshot of domestic violence in the U.S.


In Minnesota, on that one day, 779 adult and child victims of domestic violence found refuge in emergency shelters, transitional housing, hotels, motels, or other housing provided by local domestic violence programs.


Domestic violence hotlines in Minnesota received 859 contacts, averaging nearly 36 contacts per hour.


Victims on one day made 328 requests for services that programs could not provide because they lacked the resources — including emergency shelter, housing, childcare, transportation, legal representation, and other support needs.


Approximately 63% of these unmet requests were for housing and emergency shelter.

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Related Reading


Why self-defense training is an important strategy (The Globe and Mail)


How Cleveland has become a leader in response to sexual assault victims (Christian Science Monitor)


A deep dive into the life, and new research, of sex trafficking survivors (Elle)

 

A Conversation with the Author

 

"In 1994 I said this kind of violence is so predictable as to be preventable. And 25 years later, I’m still saying the same thing."

We talked with Diane Rosenfeld as we began to prepare for being a media partner in the development of her international Bonobo Sisterhood Alliance movement.

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