Dennis Wade, MS, FACHE
Chief Executive Officer
20 years at Sant é Center for Healing

Humility Helps

It has been etched in most of our brains that being successful means being strong, independent individuals who are profoundly self-reliant. This type of thinking generates shame or guilt when asking for help with even the most complex of problems, much less the simple. Unintended consequence? A barrier for self-growth. How can we overcome? Humility.
 
Step 7 inserts humility into the recovery process. We must be humble within ourselves and know when to seek help, in our recovery, responsibilities and relationships. When asking a Higher Power to remove our shortcomings, we begin to let go and accept the flaws as small facts but not the fingerprint of our total identity. It is important to stay humble and recognize our shortcomings to continue transitioning into the best individuals we can be. When selfishness or pride get in the way, personal growth suffers. Humility is equal opportunity, one we can all practice, in and out of recovery. Truth be told, the help we ask for and the help we receive could be a breakthrough for all involved.