"I don't understand"
There are many things I don't understand a few are:
*War -*Children in pain - and *"Me" before family with revenge over the ability to forgive. War not just between nations or factions but also war like attitudes between family members. The children in pain, are sometimes the ones who have been so restricted and protected by their parents that they are not ready for the lessons life will teach. As adults they may end up in mental, and sometimes physical, pain.