"There is an Irish saying that I love: ar scáth a chéile a mhaireas na daoine. It translates as 'it is in the shelter of each other that the people live.'
[It] reminds me of the intentionality we must incarnate when working with our lives to create avenues out of violent conflict. We must nurture unpredictable relationships. We must share shelter with people whose shelter we would rather not share. We must share stories with people whose stories we would rather not share. This may not be popular, but it may just save us...
I am thinking now of Anaïs Nin who said: 'We do not tell stories as they are. We tell them as we are.' And who are we?
We are people who all know stories of hurt, pain, division, separation, fury, and prejudice. We are people who have loved the land we live on. We are people who have done and spoken and created and given beautiful things and terrible things to each other... And, we must tell different stories. Not necessarily new ones, but deeper ones — stories of remembering, belonging, safety, and shelter."
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