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February is typically a month where people talk about love and relationships with Valentine's Day on the calendar. But it's also a great time to talk about the Feng Shui bedroom. Where we love, sleep, rest, rejuvenate and recover from the day is incredibly important.

Kim Julen asks, "Why is the bedroom important? Your bedroom is where you spend a significant amount of time – 1/3 of your life in fact! It’s the space that rejuvenates you and where you rest. This is also the room that is closest to your body and the most intimate. It is closely connected to your health and also to your Partnerships, no matter where it is located within the home. The bedroom is intended for two things only…Rest and Romance! Anything not related to these two things should be placed elsewhere in your home." (Source: Six Feng Shui Bedroom Tips) 

Now...bedroom Feng Shui is beneficial for all family members - but for this newsletter, we are focusing on bedrooms with regard to love relationships. [Find resources about kids and bedrooms in other articles here on our blog.]

Whether you are looking for love, have a love that you want to deepen, or are moving through loss, we hope you will find something here. And besides, everyone deserves a great night's sleep.

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That Thing Called Love

by Wendy Yawching of Healing Spaces Caribbean

"We all seek love. It’s one of my clients most frequent requests (along with money and health). So over the years, I got to thinking: How can I use Feng Shui to really, really help all of these people who come to me expecting that a few adjustments in their bedroom, or in the relationship corner of their homes, will bring about a miraculous change in their romantic fortune?

"So I went within and asked the question, and the answer was waiting there. A Lightbulb moment! And now whenever I talk about love and relationships, whether it be to an individual client or within a workshop session, this is my message…."

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Check out Wendy's book, The Courage to Fly, about her inspirational journey of listening to your heart, following your dreams, and reaching for the sky...no matter what the world tells you.

Feng Shui for the Way You Love

by Samantha Shields of Samantha Shields LLC

"Bedroom Feng Shui design pays special attention to our natural need for rest, rejuvenation and deep sleep. Sleep is a basic physical requirement necessary for self-preservation, giving us the strength and clarity we need to survive, thrive and flourish each day.

"Feng Shui takes into account the complex nature of our human needs – fulfilling our most basic requirements and supporting our aspirations for future achievements. In the bedroom, feng shui design helps us gently disengage from our daily activities and stresses. It allows you to peacefully slip into the sanctuary of your bedroom to bring back balance to your body and mind. Bedroom Feng Shui also encourages you to create habits of self-care to nourish your body and soul. When you feel well rested and refreshed, you are more able to share yourself enthusiastically with your partner and the world."

See the full article to read more about rekindling, designing, and healing

Feng Shui Tip: Call Love with a Wind Chime. "The partnership gua is the upper right corner of the bagua and it is used to call forth love, a romantic partner, enhance a current relationship or bolster self confidence. Recommendation/cure/advice: Place an indoor-appropriate wind chime in the Partnership area of the bedroom to “call in” a partner.

"Back in 1992 when I was first studying Feng Shui with Professor Thomas Lin Yun, I hung a wind chime in the Partnership area of my condo. I wasn’t calling in a partner as much as counteracting a bathroom and laundry room that was located in that area. I rang it occasionally as it was a sweet, small bell that had a beautiful sound to it. In the meantime, I offered this suggestion to several of my clients as well and, ended up attending 3 weddings as a result.

"It wasn’t until I was moving out of my condo a couple years later, with the man who was to be my husband, that I realized he and I had met 90 days after I had hung my own wind chime. Even though it wasn’t my main focus, it worked anyway. I still have the bell and the man is still the love of my life. Now when I ring it, I ring it with gratitude."

Carole Hyder of Wind and Water School of Feng Shui

Couple and Family Chart Reading: Strengthening Bonds Through Feng Shui

by Marilyn Jones of Eat Pray Feng Shui

"Every person carries a unique energy that influences their interactions with others. When two people come together, such as in a romantic relationship or family unit, their combined energies create a dynamic that can either harmonize or clash. Couples and family chart readings use ancient Feng Shui principles to analyze these energies, offering a blueprint for understanding relationship dynamics.

For couples, chart readings go beyond mere compatibility. It provides a detailed analysis of each partner’s characteristics, desires, and potential areas of conflict. By identifying the strengths and challenges within the relationship, Feng Shui experts can offer guidance on how to nurture mutual understanding and growth. For instance, if one partner has a dominant fire element while the other is dominant with water, the reading can suggest ways to balance these elements to create harmonious communication. Couples can work together to enhance their relationship by understanding each other’s elemental energies. This might include adjusting their living space to reflect a more balanced Feng Shui layout or adopting practices that align with their shared energies. These personalized insights serve as a roadmap for fostering a deeper emotional connection and promoting a supportive partnership."

Find out more about chart readings for couples

Final Thoughts...How to Feng Shui your Way Through Divorce

by Joan Law of Feng Shui Joan's Way

"When you transition from marriage through divorce, there’s a whole lot of stress, upheaval and negative energy in your life and in your space."

Feng Shui can support you through divorce in multiple ways - before, during and after. In this article, Joan shares tips for making physical changes to your space as well as ideas for helpful people to support you along the way.

"Divorce, like any transition is exhausting and life changing. Using practical Feng Shui for clearing and readdressing space physically helps to address mental drain and pave a smoother path beyond divorce to your next chapter."

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Love, Loss and Letting Go: Feng Shui Wisdom on Wedding Albums from the delightful Patricia Lohan of PowerHouse Feng Shui

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