Rossmoor End of Life Concerns Club

Eastern View from the Fire Road near High Eagle Ct.

Jim Greenberg, President EOLCC

President’s Musings


I write this on June 1, the day each year when I become aware that the heavens are about to deliver a subtle but significant change. In just three weeks, our experience of daylight reaches a turning point. Since the Winter Solstice in December, each day has grown a little longer than the one before. Soon, however, that trend will reverse. Despite the warmth of summer, rounds of golf, tennis matches, beach outings, and road trips, the days will begin to shorten. By September, we will notice the earlier sunsets and the approach of autumn.


There is something bittersweet about this transition. In June, I feel a twinge of sadness knowing that daylight has reached its peak and is beginning its slow retreat. Yet I experience the opposite feeling during the dark days of December, when the promise of lengthening days lies just ahead. The cycle brings both loss and renewal, depending on where we stand within it.

Renewal is one of nature’s most enduring themes. I am often struck by the many ways our own bodies are able to heal; our bodies' cells are constantly dying and being replaced. Even the heart renews itself, generating new muscle cells that help sustain life. Many of us have experienced fractures that seemed devastating at first, only to watch our bodies methodically repair them. Specialized cells called osteoblasts create new bone, restoring strength and shape with remarkable precision.


Wherever we look, we find examples of renewal—in nature, in our bodies, and in our communities. Seasons change, wounds heal, and life continually recreates itself. Whenever we need a source of optimism, we need only pay attention to what is happening around us. Renewal is endless, and it quietly carries us forward into the future.



Jim Greenberg, President EOLCC

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CLUB PRESIDENT JIM GREENBERG AND BESS CHOSAK, DEATH CAFE CO-FACILiTATORS

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The Rossmoor Death Café will meet on June 12, 3:30-5:00 PM in the Vista Room at the Hillside Clubhouse.


Though not a grief support or therapy group, our Death Café offers a safe place for participants to bring up such end-of-life issues as Advanced Healthcare Directives, how to talk about final plans and wishes with your family, and other late life concerns.


Richard offered this at our May Death Café meeting:


Galaxy Song
Whenever life gets you down…
And things seem hard or tough
And people [especially politicians, seem] stupid, obnoxious or daft
And you feel that you've had quite enough
Just remember that you're standing on a planet that's evolving
And revolving at nine hundred miles an hour
It's orbiting at nineteen miles a second, so it's reckoned
A sun that is the source of all our power
The sun and you and me and all the stars that we can see
Are moving at a million miles a day
In an outer spiral arm at forty thousand miles an hour
Of the galaxy we call the Milky Way
Our galaxy itself contains a hundred billion stars
It's a hundred thousand light years side to side
It bulges in the middle sixteen thousand light years thick
But out by us, it's just three thousand light years wide
We're thirty thousand light years from galactic central point
We go round every two hundred million years
And our galaxy is only one of millions of billions
In this amazing and expanding universe
The universe itself keeps on expanding and expanding
In all of the directions it can whizz
As fast as it can go – the speed of light, you know
Twelve million miles a minute and that's the fastest speed there is
So remember when you're feeling very small and insecure
How amazingly unlikely is your birth
And pray that there's intelligent life somewhere up in space
'Cause there's [precious little] down here on earth.
…Monty Python

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Understanding Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD): Review and Update


The End of Life Concerns Club (EOLCC) will present a program on Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD) on Monday, June 15, 1-3 p.m. in the Club Room at Creekside. Jim Greenberg, EOLCC president, will talk about the history of MAiD in California and elsewhere, the reasons people choose it, and the qualifications necessary to participate. 


David Birnbach, MSW, will share his experience of being the life partner of someone who chose MAiD shortly before her 90th birthday. 


Thalia DeWolf, RN, will share her real-life clinical experiences assisting terminally ill patients. She is on the board of the Academy of Aid-in-Dying Medicine (aadm.org). 


Rossmoor resident Lindsay Ralphs will present the variety of supportive services End of Life Choices CA (endoflifechoicesca.org) offers.


Q&A and discussion will follow. All Rossmoor residents and their guests are welcome. For more information contact Jim Greenberg at 1-412-763-2317 or endoflifeconcerns@gmail.com. Please visit our website at RossmoorEOLCC.org.

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Club Website, Please Visit!


http://www.rossmooreolcc.org/


Our lending library is open to currently paid-up members. We have more than 20 titles available.


Library: Go to: RossmoorEOLCC.org>Resources>Bibliography


For information, or to borrow a book, please contact Jim Greenberg, EOLCC President, endoflifeconcerns@gmail.com

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Marley Middlebrook, Membership Chair

MEMBERSHIP


Upcoming Events:


Thursday, June 4, 10 AM-2 PM: Please stop by the EOLCC table at the Rossmoor Club Fair


Friday, June 19: Please look for our table at the Farmer's Market


"You only live once. But, if you do it right, once is enough."

Mae West


Your membership renewals support our expenses which include offering you free of charge informative publications about death and dying, presentations by knowledgeable speakers, feature films, room rentals, and maintaining our website.


Please make check payable to EOLCC. Options for renewal include dropping off your renewal at our mailbox across from the Member's Desk, next Death Cafe, program or film. If you prefer postal mail, send to the Membership Chair at the following address:


EOLCC

Marley Middlebrook

5954 Autumnwood Dr 2A

Walnut Creek, CA 94595


Thank you,


Marley Middlebrook

marleypsyd@me.com or (925) 385-0336


Jim Greenberg, President

endoflifeconcerns@gmail.com

(412) 736-2317