What better time of year to talk about snowflakes than in January? Simply put, a snowflake is a single ice crystal that falls through the atmosphere as snow. However, snowflakes are much more complicated than that. They are made up of many small crystal facets that scatter sunlight, making snow appear white. Each one is distinctly unique and different, and its shape and size depends on the temperature and water vapor in the atmosphere. A snowflake is one of the most beautiful acts in nature. Again- what seems simple on the surface is often more complex.
What we do at a community mental health center may seem simple to some- we treat people with mental health and substance use disorders. The complexity of our work lies in the fact that all of us are as unique and complicated as a snowflake. What works for one person may not work for the next, and the understanding of behavioral health diagnoses, symptoms, and treatments is not widely understood or appreciated.
There’s been a tidal wave of messaging that everyone is special, and to make it the norm. Every team gets a trophy, and every player wins a prize, recognizing the contribution of all. As a parent, I often struggled to explain to my children how they were special, but maybe that isn’t what makes a difference. Not being the best every time (i.e. failure), can be a powerful lesson and is how people develop, learn, grow, and change.
I hope we can stop and think about a snowflake, and accept and appreciate that being unique and complex is a gift we are all given. At our community mental health center, we will remember the lesson of the snowflake, offering grace and care to all those who walk through our doors, celebrating uniqueness every day.
- Maggie
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