These comments are just a few observations and reflections about my past experience helping out as a volunteer, at the weekly Java Music Group.
The small dinning room on the main floor is the perfect place to offer a private environment, where the residents gather. Volunteers circulate and offer a hot or cold beverage and to serve the individual portions of fresh fruits or cookies etc.
A guest of honour is usually chosen. It may be because it is their birthday or to welcome a resident who has recently moved in to help them feel special in their new environment.
As time goes on we see how quiet residents start feeling more and more comfortable to speak up and express an opinion about the chosen theme for the day.
It is an excellent opportunity for residents to make new friends, and to learn from each other. Those who have been there longer can explain how it felt when they first arrived and how things have improved with the passing of time.
The music that goes with the theme helps to keep things happy and positive as much as possible.
I love how deep and personal the conversations can get at times. The memories from the past come flooding out, whether happy or sad.
The facilitators gently remind the guests that everything shared is confidential and must remain in that room and not be shared with others.
All in all, the Java Music Club is a success in my opinion. It gets the residents out of their rooms and provides a safe place for them to share their deepest thoughts and receive encouragement, congratulations or whatever is appropriate in the various circumstances.
- Volunteer at Saint-Louis Residence (Bruyère) in Ottawa, ON