קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

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25 December 2024 ~ 24 Kislev 5785 ~ Erev Hanukkah

Parashat Miketz

Chaverim y'karim - dear friends,


Jews & Christmas


Hanukkah is here tonight! You will find a host of resources below (including a Spotify playlist). Given today being Christmas as well, I cannot tell you how much I enjoyed two podcasts on the story of Jews and Christmas music: "Why Jews wrote your favorite Christmas Songs. While an often-told tale and one that has great significance, in this Honestly episode Eli Lake of The Free Press does a fabulous job framing the meaning, context, and depth of what it means that Jews essentially wrote the American Christmas tunes. Yehuda Kurtzer from the Shalom Hartman Institute covers the same topic with music expert, Rob Kapilow, for his show Identity Crisis in this week's episode, "Christmastime for the Jews." And lest you think there is not an accompanying article ... you might enjoy David Mikics' similarly-themed writing in Tablet Magazine, "Christmas: The Greatest American Jewish Holiday." You might also appreciate Bari Weiss' Conversation on Honestly with Tom Holland on "How Christianity Remade the World."


It's Hanukkah tonight!!


Given tonight's arrival of Hanukkah in the closing hours of Christianity's holiday to celebrate its birth-story or at least the birth-story of its central savior, who certainly would have celebrated Hanukkah (albeit without dreidls and latkes since those are Ashkenazi and post-Jesus), we have to be very careful of the false title that Hanukkah is the “Jewish Christmas.” 


For your listening pleasure on Hanukkah, check out Yehuda Kurtzer, from last year, on Identity Crisis with "Unpacking the Meaning of Hanukkah."


For so many reasons, Hanukkah and Christmas are nothing alike and to try and compare the two does a disservice to both.


By way of quick review: Hanukkah celebrates the triumph of religious freedom and fundamentalism over external totalitarianism and assimilation. The holiday emphasizes God's performing miracles and the strength of character exhibited by those who stand up to defend the Jewish people. This holiday reflects the historic Jewish insistence on not assimilating into the culture around us. Recall that the Jews of Judea & Samaria (commonly known today as the West Bank) and elsewhere in the land of Israel were divided between Hellenized Jews (assimilationists) and Hasmoneans (Jews who were strict adherents to Jewish ritual and observance).


Hanukkah commemorates the undeniable strength of will held by our ancestors who fought to sustain, preserve, and practice our religious rites despite a dominant, Hellenized society where a new king - Antiochus Epiphanes - sought to impose Greek culture and prohibit the Judaean culture and Jewish religious expression. These “freedom fighters” recognized the limits of passivity and the danger of assimilating. Although a battle of 2200 years ago - there are similar wars waging today within the Jewish world and externally against enemies who seek the downfall of the Modern State. I realize that there is nothing pleasant about a civil war and the fighting of Jews on Jews is among the worst of what we can experience. That being said, while Hanukkah tells a story about Jews, it symbolizes a universal value of freedom from oppression — religious oppression in particular — for all people.  


Hanukkah in America 


Hanukkah has become a visible and significant part of the American landscape. It even brought inspiration into among parts of African-American communities through the candelabra of Kwanzaa. Whether it is the Hanukkah-themed clothes, or the decorations for your home, or a Hallmark movie about Hanukkah — Hanukkah stands as a very public-facing marker in the Jewish year as it brings attention to the Jewish story. Historically and liturgically, this holiday is "minor" - but in post-WW2 America, it becomes far more "major." How much has changed from the dangers for Jews in the "old world" when Christian neighbors would terrorize Jews as they celebrated their savior's birth. America proved to be so remarkable because we could live openly - let alone even play a role in universalizing the very holiday that had once been a time to hide indoors (see above).


That Flame Within


Lastly, I want to share with you one of my favorite teachings about Hanukkah written by the late Lubavitcher Rebbe Menachem Mendel Schneerson. The Rebbe spent his childhood in pogrom-ridden czarist Russia. In the 1930s, he studied secular and religious topics in Berlin and Paris. In 1941, he escaped the Nazi-occupied Europe and settled in New York, where for the next half-century he developed a worldwide movement of outreach to Jewish communities. In this teaching, Schneersohn uses light as a metaphor for the human soul. He suggests that Hanukkah captures a hidden meaning for our purpose on earth, inspiring and increasing light in the world through mitzvot and menschlikheit. 


The Hanukkah candles are lit for eight days. This does not mean that the same mitzvah is repeated eight times in succession. Just as in a physical sense new candles are lit each night, so it is in a spiritual sense, every night a new mitzvah is fulfilled with new fire. Also, each night we add another candle, indicating how we must constantly increase our efforts to spread light. The Hanukkah lights reflect the fire within the Jewish soul, as it is written, “The lamp of God is the soul of man" (Prov. 20:27). Each person possesses this light within his body. Hanukkah teaches how this light must be ignited and shine forth and how it must be renewed and increased each day.


The kindling of each person’s individual menorah, the fire of his or her soul, leads also to the kindling of the the Jewish people’s collective menorah. The light we each produce is not self-contained but rather shines "outside" and illuminates the world at large, spreading light in the totality of the darkness of exile.


Projecting light to the world at large is the underlying intent of all the mitzvot, as it is written, "A mitzvah is a lamp and the Torah is light" (Prov. 6:23). However, to a greater degree than in other mitzvot, this intent is reflected in the Hanukkah candles, for they produce visible light and they spread that light throughout their surroundings.


May these days that are short of external light find you inspired by the increase of light we bring with our hanukkiyot and with the deeds of our hearts, hands, and souls. May there be music to fill your homes, recollection of the heroism of our people throughout the generations - including our own as Israel fights an existential battle, and opportunities to bring about blessing through acts of tzedakah!


L'shalom,


Rabbi Mark Cohn


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HANUKKAH

Resources for Home



Blessings & Songs - A Guide for Temple Sholom

Hanukkah Spotify Playlist

(Rabbi Mark Cohn)


A Beautiful Hanukkah song - Tih'yeh Or - Be a Light

(Rabbi Neal Katz)


Hanukkah at Home

(My Jewish Learning)


Hanukkah, Hellenization, and Hasmoneans

(Unpacked for Educators)


Six 13 - A Wicked Hanukkah

(Six13)

ARTICLES / BLOGS


"How to (actually) cook with your kids for Hanukkah" (16 Dec 2024) by Jamie Betesh Carter in the Tablet Magazine.


"This year's Hanukkah-Christmas convergence renews dilemmas for interfaith families" (21 Dec 2024) by Jacob Gurvis in Times of Israel.


"Winston Spencer Maccabee" (February 2018) by Meir Soloveitchik in the Commentary.

A Solidarity Mission to Israel

May 6 - 14, 2025


Led by Rabbi Amy Wallk &

Rabbi Mark Cohn

Why Israel Now? And what to expect?



So what will this trip be like?


This is a solidarity mission. The itinerary has not been finalized because we have no idea what the situation will be like in May. At a minimum, our trip goals are to create an uplifting and inspirational journey of resilience. The trip will be an opportunity to visit with Israelis and understand how their lives have changed since October 7, 2023. We will find meaningful and important volunteer opportunities and stand in solidarity with Israelis who really are on the front of this existential war. The trip will be led by outstanding tour educator, Haim Aronovitz.


When Amy and I led a similar trip last Spring, we had great feedback. Whether you have never been to Israel before, or have been there many times, this trip will be a chance to see how Israel is overcoming its many challenges and grapple with current realities.


For the first 20 people who register, the cost of the trip is $3,618 with double occupancy; there is a single supplement of $1,278. For those who miss the early bird discount, the cost is $3,999.


If you are interested in joining us or are simply curious, please reach out and if you want to watch our Zoom meeting from last Thursday, click here for the link.


If you have any questions, please feel free to email me - Rabbi Mark Cohn, rabbicohn@tsholom.org.


How do I register for the trip? Click here to register.

SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM

JANUARY 3, 17, 31



SATURDAYS AT 10:30 AM


JANUARY 4, FEBRUARY 8

SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

Led by CJ Kelly

Simchat Torah Challenge - Miketz


SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM



DECEMBER 28

JANUARY 4*, 11, 18, 25


*Led by Rabbi Cohn

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