To Force is to Break
by Executive Director Claire Louge
When I was about 10 years old, my neighbors hired me to feed their cats while they were on vacation. One day, when I went to unlock the door to their house, the key wouldn’t turn. So I tried to force it. I turned the key so hard it broke in the lock.
My father, who is French, had an expression he used in my childhood moments of impatience: “Forcer, c’est casser.” It translates to “To force is to break.”
To force is to break. Forcing may be something you feel compelled to do, but it rarely gets you the outcome you want. It’s a notion that holds true for so much more than keys and doors…
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