Help is available for survivors of abuse, but it isn’t always easy (or even possible) to reach out when they need it the most. For example, calling a hotline or even the police aren’t options if a survivor is being closely monitored by an abuser.
This hand signal was developed for survivors to be able to use in person or on video calls to communicate that they feel threatened and need help at home. The signal is performed by covertly raising the palm of your hand to face the camera, tucking in your thumb, then lowering your fingers to cover it. It was intentionally designed as a single continuous hand movement, rather than a sign held in one position, that could be made easily visible. The signal has been recognized by over 40 organizations across Canada and the United States as a useful tool to help combat domestic violence.
What do you do next?
Start with the survivor’s safety in mind and don’t respond during the video chat. Instead, reach out in other ways that will be more difficult for the abuser to monitor, such as text, social media, WhatsApp, or email. Ask general “yes” or “no” questions to help reduce risk and make it easier for them to respond.
The Women’s Advocate is available to any Refinery Employee needing assistance with a Domestic Violence situation.
Lisa Taman (womens.advocate@unifor594.com)
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