Issue No. 160

June 2024

I Believe In Fairness, Fun, And Sharing What I’ve Learned

With The People Who Make This Planet A Great Place To Live

Pretty Soon Summer!

The merry month of May kicked off with touching and abundant feedback on my last e-zine. Thank you for your comments, questions, and support. I am always happy when I can deliver what you need to hear when you need it, whether it's a tip to make your board better, a laugh, or a beer recommendation.


I spent a few days in Victoria again helping my sister-in-law with my brother Joe's estate and "stuff." It wasn't easy -- I know first hand that grief doesn't always let you accept the help when it's offered. I did a couple of things for her, but not as much as I'd hoped. I will try again in the fall. I also purchased one of my brother's cars and had it shipped to Edmonton. Two weeks, strong friends, and a line of credit were all it took to make it road-worthy. I registered it with Brian's vanity plates (which arrived a couple of days after he died in 2021). I hope to really enjoy the car this summer and then I will reassess. For now, I just keep saying, "When else am I going to have a Cadillac convertible?" The 1987 Cadillac Allante is a rare beast indeed.


I am soon to be a Canadian without a family doctor. As I prepare for my doctor's retirement there have been many (hopefully) routine procedures and tests. I honestly don't know what to do as I head into the years where I may need a doctor's advice more than I've needed to this point. Ideas/leads are welcome.


The best part of May is the start of CFL training camps across the country. Friends who haven't seen each other since Grey Cup in November are back together, in person or virtually, sharing camp stories. It is a time of great optimism for every team -- even mine! We laugh, we are in the fresh air again, and we make our travel plans the season. It really is like Christmas for people like me. Preseason games are taken for what they are -- tryouts. We don't get too stressed out when one team's rookies beats another team's rookies. But next week, that all changes and football becomes serious business!


The Edmonton Fringe chose its 2024 theme as "Find Your Fringe", which really demonstrates how the Fringe experience is different for each person. I like it, and I'm glad I have a play in this year. We've been working hard to get "I, Diana" ready for August 15-25. Performance dates and venue to follow, but we're already excited.


A friend recently told me, "You know so many different people and you do so many different things." That is absolutely true -- I am blessed beyond measure. Non-typical blessings this month include: the Consular Ball (friend/colleague Lori Schmidt is the Honorary Consul to Belgium -- cool, right?) (and my friend Sherrill ironed my ball gown for me -- cool, right?), a Barbie 65th Anniversary fashion show, an 80th birthday party, a visit to the Nathan Fillion Civilian Pavillion, an hour in the Cat Cafe visiting and drinking matcha latte, three different Vietnamese restaurants, various beer tastings, local flower subscription launch, photo and video shoots, new collaborations, modelling business principles with Tinker Toys, twice-baked and stuffed potatoes, eggs benedict on spaghetti, and Ambrosia Salad (tiny marshmallows!). I call that a winning month. Of course, there was board stuff, AGM stuff, stress stuff, tears stuff, and gratitude that I am still alive stuff.


I hope in June you find more gratitude stuff than the other stuff. Have the best month!


/lmwe

A Voice For The Organization


Over my years in association life I have dealt with many Founders. I have also dealt with some failures when organizations transition from the Founder to the Successor. A timely article hit my inbox from Philanthropy Daily -- "Finding Your Organization's Voice" by Carter Skeel. It's a quick read that is packed with good advice that, honestly, isn't all that easy to take but is so necessary!


Skeel says, "The departure of a founder—even if it’s planned and amicable—can trigger an identity, if not existential, crisis." This is absolutely true, even when the organization has tried-and-true succession planning policies in place. In my experience, very few boards have the skills to do a proper CEO recruitment and very few have the resources to hire a 3rd party professional to take the reins. (NOTE: Here is a business opportunity!). That's a problem, and so is a new leader who isn't clear on the organization's message.


In finding its "go-forward voice" the organization needs to honour what got them to this point, set a good tone for the future, and set expectations for those who are meant to come on the journey. To that end, the following recommendations are offered (along with my own narrative).


  1. Survey the broadest possible swath of stakeholders about what they think your organization’s voice is. (We know what we've told them, but are they really hearing what we're saying? Let's confirm. Do those perspectives align with our values, vision, and mission? This process not only gives us good information, it probably helps our engagement goals, too. PS When surveying, please make it REALLY easy for stakeholders to respond. Ask only a few questions, and make sure they are the right ones).
  2. Retrieve and compile as many documents as possible — board meeting minutes, emails, memos, fundraising letters, etc. — from your organizational history to understand the thought and development process behind the mission and vision statements, as well as how staff have talked about the organization across various media over the years. (Constating documents and surviving Founders are a great source of "Oh, right!" info. Have things changed since then? How? Why? Hopefully our path now is the same or better. Also, some of this "literature review" is good board work. Resist the temptation to assign the review to clerical staff).
  3. Compare this document to the stakeholder survey you prepared. (This will tell you what stakeholders actually think you are communicating. Have we been successful? If not, is it an easy fix or have we lost our way entirely?).
  4. Equipped with all of the above, collaborate with staff (and perhaps select other stakeholders) to draft a new core messaging document. (The result of this process should be the centre of the organization's communications going forward. If your organization has slid into trying to be "all things to all people," now is the time to pull it back and focus. Keep the message as clear and simple as possible and make sure it aligns with the values, vision, and mission).
  5. Invite team members who will be communicating externally on behalf of your organization to develop their own distinctive voices within the parameters of your organizational voice. (We hear all about storytelling these days. The message will have more impact if delivered in the speaker's own voice -- think of a rote land acknowledgement compared to a personal one and you'll see what I mean. Ensure the message deliverers are authentic as to how the story/message plays out in their own lives).


There are many factors at play when transitioning from a Founder to a Successor. By taking the recommendations above, the organization's message shouldn't be one of the problems. Rather, it will provide the common theme that stakeholders can coalesce around. This is critical, so spend the time and effort to improve your chances of success. Good luck!

Here is the article.


/lmwe

Are you interested in attending an upcoming Powwow and want to learn how to be a respectful visitor and guest? Here is just one of many invitations from several different organizations for you to learn how to do it well. Google Powwow info and you'll be amazed what is on offer.

For this one, there is no registration required (Zoom login in the poster).


All are welcome to attend this virtual workshop to learn, listen, and appreciate the elements of your first Powwow. Michelle Fournie will facilitate this upcoming virtual workshop with educators and cultural consultants, Cindy & Theron Black, in a non-judgemental and open forum designed for those new on their Reconciliation journeys. Topics covered include:

- Powwow history and cultural connection

- What to wear

- Photo and social media etiquette

- The Grand Entry explained

- Powwow Ways of Life and lived experiences

On Liking People and Things

Some People Who Made My Life Better in May

MaryJane Alanko, Leslie Arnott, Chantelle Chevrier Painter, Patricia Darbasie, Janis Dow Durnin, Glyn Eales, Bruce Findley, Liz Garratt, Carrie Habinski, Vicki Hackl, Wanda Hackney, Graham Henderson, Marilyn Hooper, Andrew Hoskins, Sue Huff/Kevin Tokarsky, Katherine Koller, Julia Kopala, Kerrie Light, Pat Macdonald, Karen MacKenzie, Moira MacKinnon, Alli Marshall, Kelly McClung, Sherrill McGilvray, Robyn Mott, Erin O'Neill, Mary Paul, Paul Rechner, Nancy Saha, Lori Schmidt, Mike Smith-Knutsen, Wanda Stephens, Clare Stewart, Yvette Swan, Roger Thomson, Axel Torres, Theresa Tsoukalas, Lindy Tuppen, Elana/Jason West, Gerry West, Gord West, Lil West, Ray Wilkinson, Rita Wood


"The reason life works at all, is because not everyone in your tribe

is nuts on the same day."

-- Anne Lamott

Some Links

I Like

Leadership Lessons from Rugby (I see!)

Leading with Kindness (not Niceness, by James Rhee)

Wild Time for Corporate Boards (Boards need to be a resource for management)

Shareholder Protection of Employee Rights (It's a thing!)

Juries are Like Boards (Find the influencers)

The Rise of Stupid (p.14 Local editorial that resonated)

Mary Dawson RIP (Globe article on key legislative drafter)

Keep Writing By Hand (Cursive is good for you)

Ladybird Classics (New museum)

Bottle Cap Artist (Pieces heading to auction)

"Kindness is an exchange."

-- James Rhee

Some Quotes I Like

"I know that things don't grow unless you bless them with your patience."

-- "Emmylou" by First Aid Kit


"Kindness is not niceness...Kindness is intentional. Kindness is both forceful and

malleable. Kindness is relentless and steady like flowing water. It requires a person

(or an organization) to operate and act in a certain way, beyond mere good intentions.

By calling on us to behave in ways that might, on the surface at least, run counter

to our self-interest, kindness also requires courage—and a leap of faith."

-- James Rhee


"Diplomacy is listening to what the other guy needs. Preserving your own position,

but listening to the other guy. You have to develop relationships with other people

so when the tough times come, you can work together."

-- Colin Powell


"The trouble is, you think you have time."

-- Buddha


"If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun."

-- Katharine Hepburn


"We aren't just forgiving mass stupidity in our world, we're nurturing it." ... "We live in

an era where being uninformed is celebrated." ... "Now, people who spend their lives dedicated to research, art, and community service are forced to defend their practices

from social media hordes who actually brag about the fact that they're not educated."

-- Steven Sandor, EDify (Dare Not To Be Stupid, May 2024)

# Some Things I Like (by-the-numbers) #

9 Parts to a Balance Wheel

While pondering my "joy" I recalled that a balance wheel is a good tool to assess my life today.


3 categories with 3 items in each. Draw a circle; inside draw and label 9 lines:

HEALTH (Body, Mind, Soul)

WORK (Mission, Money, Growth)

RELATIONSHIPS (Family, Romance, Friends)


Plot on each one where you are TODAY. Is where you are now aligned with your values and goals? Gaps will be obvious.


No apps, no hardware, not even much time needed. You know what to do!

----->

1 Thing That Could Make Me Happy

1 Thing To Make You Happy

5 Beers I Enjoyed in May

Dinosour Stone Fruit Sour, Phillips Brewing, Vancouver BC 4.2% ABV (World Beer Award)


Madri Excepcional Euro Lager, La Sagra/Molson Coors 4.6% ABV (I was surprised too)


Boris 2019 Russian Imperial Stout, Strange Fellows Brewing, Vancouver BC 10.3% ABV (Also had 2020, 2021, 2022)


Riff Raff IPA, Ale Architect, Edmonton AB 6.9% ABV


Purple Rice Lager, Evil Twin Brewing, New York US 5% ABV

"There's something wonderful about drinking in the afternoon. A not-too-cold pint absolutely alone at the bar..."

-- Anthony Bourdain

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