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September 3, 2026 - vol. 18, #18

Learn as Much as You Can - And Adopt a Growth Mindset

It’s back-to-school season. Students of all ages are heading into classrooms and college students are beginning a new semester. But this time of year is also a good reminder for the rest of us: learning shouldn’t end when formal schooling does.

 

One of the most important skills you can develop in your career isn’t technical - it’s your ability to learn.


The mindset you adopt about learning profoundly shapes the way you lead your life and build your career. If you believe you can grow, adapt and figure things out, you expand your possibilities. If you believe your abilities are fixed, you quietly narrow them.


Pay Attention to the Voice in Your Head

When something feels hard, many of us hear a familiar internal voice:

·      I’m stupid.

·      This is too hard for me.

·      I’m just not good at math.

·      I’m not creative.


Many of the limits we accept about ourselves come from outdated messages: one bad class, one critical comment, one comparison to someone else. Over time, those moments turn into labels and labels quietly shrink our opportunities. Struggle is not a sign of stupidity; it’s a sign that you’re learning.

 

Replace Labels with Curiosity

A growth mindset asks us to be more careful with the language we use especially with ourselves. Instead of saying “I’m bad at this,” try asking:

·      What don’t I understand yet?

·      What could I learn here?

·      Who could help me think this through?


This shift matters because growth-minded people don’t avoid difficulty. They expect it. They embrace challenges, persist through setbacks, and seek mastery rather than approval. They understand that intelligence and ability are not fixed traits but they can be developed through effort, feedback and experience.


Here’s the truth: most career-defining abilities are skills, not talents. Writing, analysis, communication, creativity, leadership and technical skills can all be learned. You may not love every challenge, but don’t opt out simply because something is uncomfortable or unfamiliar.


Learn Everywhere, All the Time

Learning doesn’t only happen in classrooms. In fact, some of the most meaningful learning happens outside formal settings, through experience, observation and experimentation. 


To learn as much as you can:

·      Get out of your comfort zone

·      Learn through formal and informal programs

·      Learn on the job and on your own

·      Ask questions, read widely, listen carefully and observe

·      Be curious and creative

·      Ask for help

·      And replace self-limiting labels with the belief, “I can figure this out.”


That belief, more than any credential, will shape your career. And that mindset will serve you long after any single role or title has changed.


Client Insight








"Gilda Bonanno was an exceptional EmCee for our inaugural Hispanic Innovator event. Her warmth, professionalism, and genuine ability to connect with both our honorees and the audience elevated the evening.

 

Gilda created an atmosphere that was both engaging and timely. Her ability to introduce our 19 honorees, each with their unique story, was exceptional. She effortlessly set the perfect stage for them to share their profound 'Beyond the Bio' insights, ensuring that the thought-provoking questions we posed landed with maximum impact, all while keeping us right on schedule.

 

The overall feedback of Hispanic Innovators has been overwhelmingly positive, with Gilda’s involvement contributing to the event's success, making the experience more engaging for everyone. Gilda is a fantastic choice for an EmCee who can expertly manage and connect with an audience.

-Natalie Holland, Event Director, Westfair Business Journal

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Warm regards,

Gilda


About Gilda

Gilda Bonanno is a sought-after speaker, executive coach, consultant and facilitator who serves as a trusted advisor to senior leaders, entrepreneurs and elected officials. She works with clients to refine their communication, strengthen leadership presence and navigate high-stakes conversations with clarity and authority. She has partnered with organizations across four continents, supporting leaders as they step into greater visibility, influence, and responsibility.


Contact Gilda to speak at your event (virtual or live), provide executive or facilitate strategic communication workshops for your team.



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