Teaching Children the Value of Work
by Cathy Faulcon Bowen, Ph.D. Work is not a four-letter word to be avoided or whispered in secrecy, especially during a child's developing years. In fact, work during childhood to early teens can lay the foundation for a secure financial future. In proper balance, work, can teach children and teens the relationship between work and leading productive lives, having choices in life, and financial security. In addition, work can shape positive attitudes and behaviors that ultimately lead to successful lives and financial security. What is the basis for these broad statements? In part, they are based on experience and observation but they are also backed by empirical data from research. Using measures of individual success, Marty Rossmann, emeritus associate professor of family education at the University of Minnesota determined that the best predictor of young adults' success in their mid-20s was that they participated in household tasks when they were three or four years old. The measures of individual success included: a) completion of education, b) getting started on a career path, c) IQ, d) relationships with family and friends, e) not using drugs, and f) examining a child's involvement in household tasks of three age groups (3-4 year olds, 9-10 year olds, and 15-16 year olds). However, it is important to note that if children did not begin participating in household work until they were age 15 or 16, the participation backfired and these participants were less "successful." The assumption is that responsibility learned via household tasks is best when learned young. Work can also teach you how to: 1) be on a schedule when you would rather do something else; 2) stick with undesirable jobs until they are completed; 3) eliminate jobs you know you don't want to do for life; and 4) motivate you to learn as much as you can, whether it is academic or skills-based knowledge in an area of interest. Work is not a four-letter word. Work is the doorway to financial stability and financial success. When we teach children and youth how to work, we set the stage for future financial security and financial stability. Reference: http://www.cehd.umn.edu/research/highlights/Rossmann/ |