Tiny Tech Tip!
Take a moment to check in on your child’s device use! Whether they have a phone, tablet, or computer, now is a great time to sit down and ask about their activities. Have them show you their favorite games, how they chat with friends, and what they do when they’re bored.
This helps you understand their screen time and builds trust, making it easier for them to come to you with concerns. Remind them that their device is a privilege, and you’re there to keep them safe. Encourage open conversations about handling inappropriate or upsetting content, reinforcing that you are their safe place.
Some great conversation starters:
Casual Curiosity Approach:
"Hey, I feel like I haven’t seen what you’ve been into on your phone/tablet/computer lately. Show me what games you’ve been playing! What’s your favorite part?"
Why it works: This approach makes the conversation feel fun and invites the child to share something they enjoy.
Engaging in Their Interests:
"I know a lot of kids are into (Minecraft/Roblox/Fortnite/TikTok). Can you show me how it works? I’d love to see what you like about it!"
Why it works: It shows interest in their world rather than making them feel like they’re being monitored.
Checking in on Social Interactions:
"Who do you chat with the most on your device? What do you guys talk about?"
OR
"Have you ever gotten a weird or uncomfortable message from someone? What do you think you’d do if that happened?"
Why it works: It normalizes talking about online interactions and gives them an opening to bring up concerns.
Setting Expectations in a Supportive Way:
"I just want to make sure your device is a safe place for you. Let’s take a look at how things are going with your apps and messages together."
Why it works: It reminds them that parental checks are about safety, not punishment.
Use these conversation starters to help your child feel like you are a safe, approachable place for them. Remind them about the dangers of social media and how to navigate that world appropriately for their age (or not at all! Wait as long as possible for Social Media!)
For more tech tips or more information about how to start the conversation, check out my blog and website:
http://ssekelsky.blogspot.com
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