Mentalization
Family Application of New BPD Treatment
8 Week Workshop
MONDAY July 26-Sept 20,2021 7-9 PM

A new evidence based
treatment for
Borderline Personality Disorder

Mentalization teaches you how people are thinking and feeling when they are relating to each other in the moment; what's going on in your mind and the mind of another, how one person's mind affects the other person, what motivates behavior, actions, feelings, ours & others.

What is the difference between
DBT & Mentalization?
By learning Mentalization family members will have a different perspective on how people with BPD think.
It will provide new tools for more effective methods of communication based on empathy, humility, compassion and a commitment to genuine, authentic communication.
DBT addresses how to change behavior. Mentalization focuses on changing how people think and appraise situations. It addresses relationship ruptures as they occur.
Family application of mentalization techniques teaches how to avoid or decrease the volatile reactions and behavioral cascades when the ability to think logically goes off line and emotions escalate.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN
What is Mentalization?
Differences between implicit & explicit communication?
Differences between DBT & mentalization.
How do people with BPD think?
Attachment & BPD
What is attachment
What happens when attachment relationships are triggered?
Shame and BPD
Lying vs Bullshitting. Reframing by considering alternate interpretations
Why is clarifying intentions of behavior so important?
Failure to Mentalize
How to know when someone has stopped mentalizing?
How can mentalizing go wrong.
What happens when a person with BPD fails to mentalize.
Mentalizing Techniques
What do you do when a person stops mentalizing: 
Stop & Stand,
Stop Rewind & Explore, Pause Stop & Stand
Mentalizing in Daily Life
Practicing how to incorporate mentalization techniques and philosophy into your daily life.
Learn to implement 
"The Columbo Technique"
BOOKS TO READ
Mentalization-Based Treatnment of BPD
Psychotherapy for BPD, MBT
  Bateman & Fonegy                  
Mentalizing in Clinical Practice \
Allen, Fonegy, & Bateman
Overcoming BPD
A Family Guide for Healing and Change Valerie Porr
Destructive Emotions  
Dahla Lama & D. Goleman
Healing Emotions  
Dalai Lama & Daniel Goleman