"...No, I’m not going to accept being called “Oriental”; I don’t care that your grandma used that word and it’s what you grew up with to describe people like me. No, actually I’m not
good at math and yes, you should not be surprised that I speak English without an accent – why do you think I chose to go law school? No, it’s not appropriate to hearken back to your glory days belittling former Chinese clients speaking English as a second language, doing your best Ching-Chong accent in front of current clients and your clearly Chinese junior. And no, I’m not a liberal snowflake who took his ball and ran off to his safe space. I just deserve better from a boss and a mentor, and I deserve better from myself, so for this and other reasons, I bounced and haven’t looked back....”