NEW EDITORIAL
BY GORDON NEUFELD, PHD


There's a hole in my bucket …

I can't say the words without hearing Harry Belafonte's smooth mellow voice singing the words to this 400-year-old nursery rhyme – a most humorous depiction of futility: going round and round in circles without getting anywhere. A 'hole in the bucket' is, in fact, more than just a great analogy for futility; the word 'futility' originated from the Latin word 'futilis' meaning 'leaky'. A hole in the bucket is undoubtedly the most concrete visualization of its meaning. 

I'll never forget my literal hole-in-the-bucket experience – about a decade ago in our much-loved vacation spot in Maui. Joy and I were there alone and she had gone off to get some groceries when a rare and angry tropical storm arrived. Even though we were on the fourth floor of the building, gravity-defying sheets of rain came in laterally from the sea it seemed, pouring in through the venting that was meant to serve the air conditioning. I looked desperately around for something to fight the elements as the flood rose over the hardwood floor before my eyes. 

I was much relieved to find a bucket in a closet and immediately re-commissioned our beach towels for the job. I proceeded to squeeze the water out of each drenched towel into the bucket in rapid and exhausting succession. After what seemed like an eternity trying to fill the bucket up, I finally peeked in to see it as empty as when I began. My bucket had a hole in it. The hilarity of the experience was immediately obvious to Joy when she returned. I must admit it took a while for the comedy aspect of the experience to catch up to me.  ...TO READ THE REST OF THIS EDITORIAL, CLICK HERE →
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