February 2023

Upcoming Worships
Make a Donation Here

Our Chili Cook off held after church on January 29 was a great success! 


We raised $900.00 for NUUC. In addition to great chili and many other yummy sides and desserts, it was a great place to be on a winter day for fellowship and conversation. Thank you to all who came to eat, vote, donate and set up and clean up. It was all so appreciated. We couldn't have done it without you. I look forward to many more gatherings in the near future. 

--Teri Cornell 

 


A New Adult Enrichment Offering


Life has a way of rushing by. Sometimes we feel the need to pause or to reflect more deeply. Join me for a virtual half hour of mindful contemplation that is inclusive, non-judgmental and expectation free. I’ll bring a mix of poetry, music, breathwork, silence, or meditation to create a space for you to relax. Participants are muted. Feel free to turn your video off. Please engage in whatever way feels most meaningful to you. A Space for Reflection is freely offered the third Wednesday of the month at 7:00pm on Zoom. Registration is required (link here).


As for me, Karen McGuire, the facilitator, I’m a lifelong Unitarian Universalist, a retired educator, and a trained Interspiritual Companion who finds it necessary to stop every once in a while, and pay attention.


Spirit of Life New Adult Enrichment Class Feb. 5-28, 2023


Join Intern minister Jacquie Zarley for a four-week adult education class (with weekly sessions online or in person) offering space, time, and community to explore Unitarian Universalist spirituality. Each session focuses on a different aspect of the spiritual life, framed by the lyrics of Carolyn McDade’s song “Spirit of Life.” Like the song, this class is designed to be welcoming to Unitarian Universalists of many spiritual and theological persuasions. Participants are invited to claim an inclusive definition of spirituality and recognize the spiritual aspects of their lives. Reflecting, speaking, and listening are core activities in each session.


Participants will:


  • Become familiar with a broad and inclusive definition of spirituality—one that includes those who do and do not affirm the existence of spirit or deity

  • Evaluate their experiences of the spiritual during turning points in their lives and during day-to-day living

  • Learn methods for being attentive to their spirituality

  • Consider the value of spiritual practice, in any variety of forms, as a means to deepen faith and enhance the quality of everyday living

  • Participate in the spiritual practices of speaking and listening with respect

  • Explore a vocabulary of reverence drawn from the Unitarian Universalist hymnbook Singing the

  • Living Tradition and its supplement, Singing the Journey

  • Articulate thoughts, feelings, and longings in authentic ways, and develop their understanding of the spiritually healing value of such authenticity

  • Explore possibilities for deepening experiences of spirituality for themselves and for others in the context of their Unitarian Universalist congregation


In person sessions weekly beginning Sunday Feb. 5 at 12:00 pm

Online sessions weekly beginning Tuesday Feb. 7 at 7:00 pm

Sessions last one hour


Please sign up in person on bulletin board in Fellowship Hall or online, using this link.  



A message from your Nominating and Leadership Development Committee




The Nominating Committee (Morgan Patten, Martha Filipic, and Roger Johnson) are continuing to seek out members of the congregation interested in serving on the NUUC Board of Trustees (two openings for three-year positions) and the Nominating Committee (one opening for a two-year position), all beginning in March after the congregational meeting. Anyone interested may contact Morgan at morgan.patten@gmail.com, Martha at marthafilipic@gmail.com, or Roger at jrogerj@aol.com. 


The Nominating Committee asked current member of the board, Leah McCoy, to address the congregation in January about her experience in serving in the congregation’s leadership. In case you missed her inspiring words, you can read them here: 


When I was nominated about a year and a half ago to fill a vacancy on the board, my first thought was, “do that many people even know who I am?” I’d been attending church for some time, but my circle of acquaintances was fairly small, and I’ll be honest: when I first started attending church on a regular basis it was during a very rocky period of my life, when a lot of things were changing or just simply falling apart—my own body included—and in that time of transition, healing, and deep reflection, my focus was inward. I was perfectly content to show up, sit through service, leave promptly and not have to talk to anyone.

You can see how that turned out. Because what I found is that this is a place where you are not only welcome; you are seen—even when you’re not really trying to be. And the more I engaged, the more I learned, the richer my life and my experience at the church became. So, when I was asked to serve on the board and had that initial reaction, my second thought was, “well, even if only a few people know who I am, those people think I’m right for the job, so I will try.”


And let me tell you, serving on a board—any board, but especially this one—is challenging and humbling . . . but it’s also gratifying. It’s gratifying because I get to work with a group of people who—even if we don’t completely agree on any given topic—are all committed to honoring and upholding the mission of the church, and making this a place where people are welcome and seen.


What I’ve learned is that leadership is really an act of care—one that holds space for a community and empowers individuals to grow further into themselves and, yes, become leaders in their own right. Even when the decisions we make as a board seem more administrative than spiritual—budgeting, fundraising, scheduling, policy, and so on—the growth and sustainability of the spiritual home we share is our ultimate goal.

So, in this time of growth and development, as we welcome new faces, edge closer to breaking ground on our building expansion, and learn to live within a new reality brought on by the effects of a global pandemic, as challenging as it can be, I am honored to help care for the community that saw and cared for me when I needed it most. And I hope that over the next year and a half, as I continue to serve on the board, I will get to know even more of you . . .  and you will get to know me. Thank you very much.


Leah McCoy

Volunteers Wanted to Host Coffee!


Coffee hour hosts arrive at 10:15 AM to begin the preliminary coffee set up and leave at some point after noon when folks have drifted away.  Specific details for how to prepare, set up, and clean up from coffee are posted on the cabinets in the kitchen.  All coffee and coffee related supplies are stocked an on hand in the kitchen. The coffee host has the option of supplementing the coffee service with snacks as desired. Click here to sign up.




Ways to Connect


Brown Bag Books 


Dear Readers, 


The next meeting will be on Tuesday, February21, at noon at church. Upcoming books will be as follows:

February On the March: A Novel of the Women's March on Washington by Trudy Krisher

March   There is Nothing for You Here: Finding Opportunity in the 21st Century by Fiona Hill

April     Dark and Stormy: Unitarian Theology in Gothic and Ghostly Literature 1789-1912 by Susan J. Ritchie


Happy Reading! Hope to see you soon!

Ruth


Mindful Writing: Mindful Writing, February 20, 7:00 pm via Zoom. The sharing continues! Read (or listen to) original prose and poetry. Everyone is welcome. Please contact Marty Keith if you're interested, and she'll send you the Zoom link. (martykeith@zoho.com)


Wednesday Noon Check In

Join us using the regular NUUC zoom connection at noon everyday Wednesday for informal check- ins and chat with your fellow members. Write revritchie@aol.com for a direct link.


Soul Matters Small Group

We currently have a Soul Matters Small Groups virtually meeting, for regular in depth check ins, and for exploring together different spiritual themes. New members are welcome at any time, write to revritchie@aol.com



Please Join Us

End of Life Workshop

Sunday March 26, at noon

 

Be kind to your family. When your time to exit this life arrives, will they calmly fulfill your wishes or scramble to make arrangements? Do you know….

           How to evaluate the General Price List that funeral homes must give to all customers

           Where you should store your will?

           Which advance directives every adult person should have?

           Who the state of Ohio designates as your legal next of kin?

                       (Maybe your eldest son is not a good fit for handling legal affairs)

           What are the hazards of prepaid funerals?

           Embalming is rarely required and can be refused?

           

These and other topics will be covered workshop will be led by Cathy Elkins and Alice Faryna from the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Central Ohio.


Register for this event at: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/NMWC2SL


February Religious Exploration for Children


We have a weekly Exploration class for kids 3 – 12 every Sunday

We begin in the sanctuary for the first part of the service. Then the congregation “sings us out” and we head over to the Nielson house for our class session.


Children are free to explore art, sensory boxes, and fun, unstructured activities as adults interreact and engage them in conversation


The Theme for the month of February is, of course LOVE


Feb. 5th Love for Self

For this lesson, we explore the ways that we must love ourselves in order to

be able to love others.

We’ll be doing self portraits


Feb. 12th Love for Family and Friends…Valentines

For this lesson, we explore the love we feel for family members and friends 

We’ll be making “Things I love about you” Valentine’s for friends and family


Feb. 19th Love of Community

In this lesson we explore the circle of love in the congregation and in their neighborhood. We give and receive.

We’ll be building our own “neighborhood” 


Feb. 26th What do YOU Really Love?

In this lesson we take a more playful approach and celebrate the world of children. Children will often tell their friends or grownups about stuff that they LOOOOVE! A butterfly collection, a special song or book, a game, a favorite food, etc.  ***Bring your very favorite thing (or a picture or drawing of it) to share***


Valentine’s Day party for kids and night out for parents.

Tuesday Feb. 14th 6:00pm-8:00

Parents can enjoy a kid-free valentine’s dinner out while kids enjoy fun activities and yummy snacks.

Sign up on the RE bulletin board in the fellowship hall or contact


Jacquie Zarley @ Jacquie@nuuc.org