NEW EDITORIAL

WHY I CAPITALIZE NATURE

BY GORDON NEUFELD

I keep waiting for someone to ask me this. Not even when writing Hold On To Your Kids, over 20 years ago now, did anyone ask me – not my editors or even my most articulate co-writer, Gabor Maté. Perhaps it is obvious and doesn't require further explanation. On the other hand, the capitalization was a deliberate choice on my part, not just a stylistic preference, and I'd love to have the chance to explain. When looking for other writers in the field of science who also used this convention, I found only a few. I know it is not conventional practice, but still….


Before I indulge myself with giving an explanation that no one is asking for, some clarification is in order about the various meanings of the word 'nature,' as only one of the meanings applies here. I am not speaking to the 'nature' that refers to the natural world – the plants, animals, weather, and geography that is relatively unspoiled or unaltered by people. When we use 'nature' in this way, we are usually referring to that which is neither cultivated or domesticated: forests, meadows, oceans, streams, lakes, wildlife, wind, storms, and so on.  Nor am I referring to the word we use when referring to an inherent property or character trait, that is, when it is in someone's nature to act in a certain way. 


READ THE REST OF GORDON'S EDITORIAL HERE >

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AN ADDITIONAL NOTE FROM GORDON REGARDING THE UPCOMING RE-RELEASE OF HOLD ON TO YOUR KIDS: Another chapter has been added to Hold On to Your Kids, just in time for the 20th anniversary of its publication. This new edition is set for release on March 19th in the USA and April 9th in Canada. The newly added chapter is on the timely topic of well-being and how it is deeply rooted in dynamics of attachment. Just as the social media phenomenon could not be explained without a comprehensive model of attachment in general and peer orientation specifically (thus requiring the addition of two additional chapters for the 10th anniversary release of the book), so too is the case with the current crisis of well-being in our kids. Without the knowledge of how children are meant to be embedded in cascading care, today's experts are jumping to the wrong conclusions and advocating policies and programs that are likely to fail, if not make matters worse.


Parents have never needed to matter more and so need to know more than ever how to truly hold on to their children. This topic of our children's well-being is so important, we also chose it to be the theme of our upcoming annual conference on April 20th.

Hold On To Your Kids book

20th anniversary edition of Hold On To Your Kids with an extra chapter is set to be released:


March 19th in the USA

April 9th in Canada

Our annual conference is now open for registration and early bird pricing is in effect for individuals and groups!


Conference highlights include:


  • Online conference using Zoom webinar platform
  • Presentations by Gordon Neufeld, Deborah MacNamara, and Tamara Strijack & Genevieve Schreier, each followed by a curated Q&A
  • Final session will include a presentation by Gordon Neufeld, followed by a panel discussion with Neufeld faculty
  • Suitable for parents, educators, and helping professionals
  • Includes post-conference access to all recordings until May 31, 2024
  • Easy-to-remember schedule, with sessions beginning at 9 & 11 am, 1 & 3 pm PDT


This conference is the annual fundraiser for the Neufeld Institute. We are a non-profit, registered charitable organization whose mission is to use developmental science to make sense of children to the adults responsible for them. Thank you for your support!

What's included with a Scheduled Online Class registration?

In addition to a weekly live class with a Neufeld faculty member, you receive a 4-month study pass (or 8 months for Intensive courses) to our Virtual Campus featuring Dr. Neufeld's video material, discussion forums, study guides, supplementary resources, and much more. Participants view Dr. Neufeld's recorded presentations prior to the scheduled support session with a faculty member. Visit More On Online Campus Courses for further details.


Class recordings

Not able to attend the live class due to a scheduling conflict? No problem! Classes are recorded so you can catch up later in the week when it works best for you.

Mar 5 -

Mar 26

Alpha Children


Offered by Lisa Weiner

Tuesdays from 10:00 - 11:00 am Pacific

March 5 to March 26, 2024

$150 | Runs for 4 weeks


Begins next week!

Register

Mar 20 -

Apr 10

Adolescence Part II:

Adolescence & Sexuality


Offered by Robin Brooks-Sherriff & Lisa Weiner

Wednesdays from 1:00 - 2:00 pm Pacific

March 20 to April 10, 2024

$150 | Runs for 4 weeks

Prerequisite: Making Sense of Adolescence Part I


Save 10% until

Mar 13, 2024

Register

Apr 20

NEUFELD 2024 CONFERENCE

The Current Crisis of Wellbeing:

what's happening to our kids?


Theme | "The Current Crisis of Well-Being"

Offered by Gordon Neufeld, Tamara Strijack, Deborah MacNamara, and Genevieve Schreier

Saturday, April 20th, 2024


Early bird pricing 

on now!

Register

AUSTRALIA & NEW ZEALAND SEMINARS 

WITH DEBORAH MACNAMARA

Details & Registration

Making Sense of Discipline


Students and young people are increasingly angrier, lonelier, more anxious and less able to self-regulate. These one day presentations speak to the question of what to do when feelings get big and the behaviour gets bigger!


Neufeld Institute Faculty member Deborah MacNamara will be touring Australia this March to present Making Sense of Discipline. Sign up for one of six full day presentations offered on March 11th, 14th, 15th, 18th, 19th, and 21st in various locations across Australia.


Receive a special discount using the word ATTACHED when registering.

Details & Registration

Making Sense of Attention and Anxiety in Kids


Restlessness and anxiety can pose challenges for learning and behaviour at home and at school leaving adults overwhelmed from trying to make headway with their child or teen. This presentation speaks to the question of what can be done to help bring a child to rest by understanding the common roots of attention and anxiety problems.


Neufeld Institute Faculty member Deborah MacNamara will be in New Zealand this March to present Making Sense of Attention and Anxiety in Kids. Sign up for one of 2 presentations offered:


March 7th | Christchurch | NZ

March 9th | Auckland | NZ

Details & Registration

Eating, Alarm and Attachment


International speaker and author Deborah MacNamara gives us the keys to transform the everyday act of feeding our children into the fulfilling and nourishing dance of attachment.


This full day event offers a morning keynote with Deborah and an afternoon of workshops with the Neufeld Aotearoa team focussing on addressing attachment and the separation complex from a Neufeld perspective.


March 9th | Auckland | NZ

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