There’s nothing like a tough decision to stop you in your tracks, especially if it would bring a major change into your life. As the new year rolls around and you examine your current circumstances, you may find yourself dealing with an important decision. Instead of the usual list of resolutions, you might need to focus on that one choice that will have the biggest impact for you and your family. Here are some tips to help you through the process.

Determine your priorities

At the core of every decision is knowing what’s important. Choices aren’t always between a “good” and a “bad”. All your options may have benefits. In fact, the more benefits they have, the harder the decision. Do some deep thinking and soul searching if needed to determine your priorities. The closer an option aligns with your highest priority, the more likely you are to be satisfied with that choice. 

Consider making temporary changes

Some decisions are daunting because we think they mean big, permanent change. While that is true in some cases, there’s a chance you may be able to “try out” an option temporarily before making a commitment. For example, instead of going all in on a new project, you can scale it down and give it a timeline. 

Regroup and review

Depending on the type of decision, you may be able to tweak as you go and learn from your experience. You’re not necessarily stuck with your initial decision. If possible, part of the process should be to reassess your position and make any changes necessary. 

Ensure that you’re not in a place of desolation

As far as possible, avoid making major decisions when depressed, anxious or desperate. If you’re feeling as if you “have no choice”, you’re more likely to make a poor decision. As far as possible, set aside time when you’re in a good mood and energetic so you can think clearly and assess properly. 

Seek guidance

Chances are, there’s someone in your social circle who may have been faced with a similar situation and who can provide guidance or at least give important feedback. An external perspective might be just the thing to give you the clarity you need to make that important decision. Exercise caution with this step as the wrong person can derail your efforts. Ultimately, remember that you are the one making the choice and will have to live with the consequences.

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This is by no means an exhaustive list but hopefully, with these tips, you will be able to make hard decisions with greater confidence.