This year, Lent begins on Valentine’s Day.
In many ways this seems a strange conjunction of the sacred and the secular; will we see people with roses and chocolates, and ashy crosses on their foreheads? Or is there a way in which the two very different meanings of the day can inform each other?
Lent commemorates the time that Jesus spent in the wilderness after his baptism, at the end of which he was tempted to use his power for its own sake, rather than for the sake of God. So, traditionally, Christians fast during this time to acknowledge the practices or things that distract us from the ways God is working in our lives. We cut out the things that we prioritize over God and over the creation of the just and loving world that God hopes for us. Lent calls us to remember our mortality, to ground ourselves in the finite human existence that we all share, as a way to sharpen our focus on God.
But how do we stand in relationship to God, if not by loving one another, and all of this Creation?
Traditionally, Valentine’s Day has been about romantic love, which is interesting because that sort of love isn’t really part of St. Valentine’s story. Rather, Valentine was an early evangelist, who called the people into relationship with God… who called people to a love that isn’t about romance, but about how we care for one another, how we use what we have for the sake of the Gospel.
So perhaps the questions that this February 14th raises for us are about how we use this one brief life that we’re given to build the world that God desires for us? And what distracts us from this love? Where are we tempted to use what we have for our own sake, rather than for the sake of loving all that God has made, being in relationship with all who bear God’s image? How does the awareness of our own mortality call us to deeper love and grace; how does the awareness of our belovedness call us to more profound relationships with one another and with God?
May this Lent be a blessing to us, that we might live our lives in a way that pours love out into this world, not just for a day or a season, but always.
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