News and Updates for August 2022
Welcome to the August edition of the Community Care newsletter! In this issue we announce the launch of our new video series, hear about a new program from the Kawartha Lakes Ontario Health Team, and much more!

We Are Community Care Video Series

We are delighted to announce the release of our new video series, We Are Community Care. These videos highlight our roster of our 40+ programs that help people live healthy, independent lives, no matter where they are in life. We will be sharing these on our social media pages in the coming weeks, so be sure you’re following us! You can check out the first video in the series here.
We live in a community of people who look out for each other; neighbours and friends who help, care and want the best for one another. At Community Care City of Kawartha Lakes, we aim to build healthy communities through care and support. How can we help you? Give us a call at 705-324-7323 or email us at AskUs@ccckl.ca. To learn more about our programs and services, visit www.ccckl.ca.
August 31 is International Overdose Awareness Day

International Overdose Awareness Day is a global event held on August 31st each year and aims to raise awareness of overdose and reduce the stigma of a drug-related death. Please join CCCKL Hospice Services as we gather with our local partners at Victoria Park on Wednesday, August 31 from 10am – 3pm to recognize a healing day in which to remember our loved ones who have died by overdose.

Community Care's Hospice Services are here to offer support, direction and comfort and if you are going through a difficult time, you do not have to make this journey alone. Visit our website to learn more about the grief support programs we provide.
Core Training for New Hospice Volunteers

Hospice Services is holding our next Core Training starting in October. Our training program consists of six sessions for approximately 6 hours per week, for three weeks. This program gives participants the skills and confidence to support people at some of the most difficult times in their lives. Upon completion, volunteers will have a better understanding of the Hospice Palliative Care philosophy and attitudes towards death and dying; will learn communication skills, and much more. If you are interested in looking for a meaningful way to make a difference in our community, please join us!

Please contact Malaura Lucas at mlucas@ccckl.ca or call Hospice Services at 705-879-4123 for more information or to get registered for Core Training.
SAGES is Back!

We are happy to announce that our SAGES program is resuming across the City of Kawartha Lakes in September. The Sage Advice and Gentle Exercises for Seniors (SAGES) program focuses on improving cardiovascular endurance, balance, muscle strength and flexibility. This can help older adults complete daily activities such as climbing stairs, getting out of a chair, bending down, and much more!

Visit our website to learn more about SAGES and see a full list of dates and locations. You can also email us at wellness@ccckl.ca or give us a call at 705-879-4100 ext. 186 for more information.
Wellness Connections Program

CCCKL is a proud member of the Kawartha Lakes Ontario Health Team (KL-OHT), which is a group of healthcare providers that are committed to improving the coordination of care for the Kawartha Lakes community. We are working together as a team to ensure patients, families, and caregivers experience a seamless and supported journey through our healthcare system. We want to create care journeys for our community members that are supported by local health and community programs and digitally enhanced services.

The KL-OHT is excited to announce the launch of their upgraded Wellness Connections program, which is designed for people aged 65+ to learn about health changes and choices to age well and to connect to local service providers offering supportive programs. The program can be accessed virtually through the KL-OHT website or with in-person support.

If you would like to refer yourself or someone else with their consent for the program, you can complete the referral form on the KL-OHT website, email info@kawarthalakesoht.ca or call 705-934-1439.
Elder Abuse Awareness and Education

At Community Care, education, advocacy and assistance in accessing available community services and resources dedicated to elder abuse prevention are provided through our Elder Abuse Awareness & Education program. The unfortunate reality is that there are many occurrences of elder abuse in our community, and our Elder Abuse Prevention Coordinator, Tammy Brydon, is often the first point of contact for those seeking support and advocacy.

Elder abuse can happen in many forms, whether through physical, emotional, financial or neglect, and unfortunately cases are on the rise in our community. According to Elder Abuse Prevention Ontario, approximately 8% – 10% of seniors experience some form of elder abuse each year in Canada.

Below is a breakdown of the number of cases investigated through Community Care in Kawartha Lakes over the past three years, with some examples of the types of elder abuse we see: 
2019

40 total cases including:
  • 21 cases of financial abuse
  • 2 cases of physical abuse
  • Total loss of $1,485,000 + 2 homes
2020

56 total cases including:
  • 20 financial abuse
  • 6 emotional abuse
  • 1 physical charge laid
  • Total loss of $2,176,000.00 + 4 homes
2021

63 total cases including:
  • 30 cases of financial abuse
  • 9 physical charges laid
  • 4 cases of financial scams
  • 4 cases of intimidation
  • 5 cases of neglect
  • Total loss of $4,244,000.00 + 4 homes
So far in 2022, we have already investigated 50 cases. These numbers are sobering and eye-opening, as we have seen a clear rise in cases each year, particularly with physical abuse cases. Addressing each of the situations requires a number of different interventions, safeguards, and community supports. Some cases are more straightforward to investigate, while others are complex and can remain active for more than a year. “I am a strong advocate for elder abuse prevention and awareness. It is important that the public is aware that these type of things happen in our community”, says Tammy.

In addition to investigating cases of elder abuse in our community and supporting victims, Tammy also organizes outreach and training presentations in the community. She also partners with local community agencies, such as Ross Memorial Hospital, Women’s Resources, Victim Services, Home and Community Care, Housing, Kawartha Lakes Police and OPP services, local banks and more. These partnerships help ensure that victims of elder abuse have support and advocacy from all angles. “These community partnerships are critical to ensure seniors are not taken advantage of and that they have support with whatever they may need”.

For more information and resources on elder abuse prevention and awareness, please visit our website.

If you are concerned about yourself, a friend or loved one, please contact Elder Abuse Prevention Coordinator Tammy Brydon at tbrydon@ccckl.ca or call 705-879-6151.
When Someone You Know and Love is Grieving

Clients of a CCCKL Grief Group recently created guidance to help support a friend or loved one when they are grieving. These guidelines are for those who are concerned and want to help. They are intended to reduce the risk that inappropriate or insensitive comments will be inadvertently said to people who are grieving. We extend thanks to the group for putting together this guidance and for allowing us to share this with our readers. 

  1. Each person's grief journey is unique. All the members of a family who have lost a beloved relative will grieve differently and on a different timeline. Each grief journey is determined by the nature and age of the griever, the nature and length of the relationship, and the circumstances of the deceased's death. Even when the death was expected, the grief can be deep and traumatic.
  2. There is no time limit to grief, even if society thinks there should be. Time does not fill the hole left by the deceased. What time does do is help to make the pain of the loss soften, but it never totally eliminates the pain. There is no such thing as “closure”. Saying, “You should be over it by now!” is insensitive. If you feel a person is stuck in prolonged complicated grief, gently suggest a grief support group or grief counselling therapy.
  3. As much as you would like to see the griever move on with his or her life, do not make suggestions for the future. Grievers first need time to absorb the loss of their loved one. That can take a long time. Suggestions for moving out of the house that was shared with their loved one or trying to have another baby after a pregnancy or infancy loss are not helpful. Future planning on top of the loss can be stressful and anxiety producing. Space and time are needed following the death of a loved one before planning to change their lives even more. It is suggested by professionals that grievers should not make major decisions for two years after their loss. But people are different and some may choose to make changes sooner than that. The key is to leave it up to the griever. Wait until they asks for advice on changes they may be thinking of making. The griever needs to lead the way.
  4. At the funeral, saying, “I'm so sorry for your loss” is much more welcome than, “He/she lived a good life”, “The death was a blessing”, or “At least he/she didn't suffer”. In other words, make your words about the griever, not the deceased with the exception being to tell happy memories and how the deceased influenced your life in a positive way. And please, never ask to buy or take something that belonged to the deceased. The griever cannot think about material items so soon after a loss of this magnitude.
  5. After the funeral, be sure to check in on the griever. Your concern shows that you care and it is always welcome. Be aware that they could tear up when you ask how they're doing, but that's okay. Grievers need to let their tears flow so that their grief does not become blocked. Try not to feel uncomfortable by tears. Instead, just wait before saying anything else. Hugs are usually welcome, but always ask. There are some people who do not appreciate hugs and others who crave them. Living alone after the death of a spouse can be extremely lonely. Sending notes in the mail, flowers and texts are always welcome. If you think the grievers should be crying and they're not, don't ask why. Some people save their tears for when they are alone.
  6. On the anniversary of the death or the day before, make a connection. Feel free to call and just say you're thinking about him or her.
  7. Finally, grievers go through a type of brain fog. Do not be too concerned if the griever forgets things they should know, asks the same questions or repeats a story. It is all a part of the grief journey.
 
Community Care's Hospice Services are here to offer support, direction and comfort and if you are going through a difficult time, you do not have to make this journey alone. Visit our website or give us a call at 705-879-4123 to learn more about the grief support programs we provide.
CEO Column
CCCKL: At Work in Our Communities
By: CEO Barb Mildon
The title of this column reflects the content of this issue of the CCCKL newsletter—from sharing the recent videos made to highlight the range of our services, to providing information about some of our programs and the contribution they make to the health and wellbeing of residents of the City of Kawartha Lakes. Our efforts are strengthened through the partnerships with other organizations referenced in this month’s items including the Kawartha Lakes Ontario Health Team and those involved in the August 31st Overdose Awareness Event and I extend sincere thanks to all of our partners.

Healthcare has definitely been in the news this summer, with widely reported shortages of health care workers, long wait times and/or temporary closures in Emergency Rooms, and alarming levels of burn-out, especially amongst nurses and physicians. Solutions to these problems are complex and sometimes controversial as we are seeing with Ontario’s Bill 7: More Beds, Better Care Act (2022). The concern about Bill 7 is that patients in hospitals awaiting long-term care placement may be required to either accept a bed in a location not of their choosing or to pay very steep daily fees for remaining in a hospital bed—a ‘forced choice’ that could have very negative consequences for vulnerable individuals and their loved ones.   

Less controversial initiatives include new mechanisms to assist Internationally Educated Nurses to become registered in Ontario. These include government funding for registration and exam fees and a faster registration process. Given the well publicized issues in healthcare, it is timely that both the Ontario Government and the Federal Government have recently announced the appointment of a Chief Nursing Officer. In Ontario, Karima Velji, RN, PhD, has taken office as the Chief of Nursing and Professional Practice and Assistant Deputy Minister of Health. At the federal level, Leigh Chapman, RN, PhD, has been named Federal Chief Nursing Officer. Each of these nurses brings extensive experience and understanding of the health care system and it is good news that their advocacy and insights will inform strategies to strengthen the healthcare workforce and system.

It seems to me that the media’s emphasis on hospitals serves to reinforce the importance of the contribution community-based services make to the healthcare system. By supporting individuals and families in staying healthy and connected at home, we can positively influence quality of life, delay or prevent hospitalization and reduce the demand for hospital beds. That is the work CCCKL is privileged to do throughout the City of Kawartha Lakes.

I wish all a wonderful Labour Day Weekend and extend special thanks to CCCKL team members who will be on duty to serve clients!

Warmly,
Barb Mildon
Community Care Foundation Update

Welcome to this update from the Community Care Foundation. Our Mission is to help to build healthy communities across Kawartha Lakes by raising funds to support Community Care's range of services.
It's Time to Raffle!

Kawartha Lakes, it’s time to RAFFLE!! The Community Care Foundation is excited to announce the launch of our first ever CASH PRIZE RAFFLE in support of the new Community Health Centre! You can now purchase a ticket for $10.00 for your chance to win our JACKPOT prize of $5,000! Everyone is a winner when you participate! Not only do you have a chance to win one of three cash prizes, but you are also supporting the building and development of the new Health Centre!

Community Care has outgrown our clinical facilities and must expand in order to provide quality health, dental and wellness services. This new modern facility has been years in the making and will accommodate our clients and staff, and moves us into the future with a top notch holistic health centre. 

Help us deliver clinical care, dental services and health promotional programs to many in our community.

Looking to purchase a ticket or for more information? Visit https://www.rafflebox.ca/raffle/communitycarefoundation
Thank You to the Foster Hewitt Foundation

The Community Care Foundation would like to extend our sincerest thank you to the Foster Hewitt Foundation for their incredible generosity and support of Community Care’s programs.
With a gift of $16,000 to support our general programs and our Hospice Support Groups “Healing after Suicide Loss” and “Healing after Overdose”, The Foster Hewitt Foundation has truly made a difference in the lives of those who rely on these supports to live happy and healthy lives. On behalf of all of us at the Community Care Foundation, and Community Care City of the Kawartha Lakes, we sincerely thank the Foster Hewitt Foundation for their continued generosity and support. 
Contact the Foundation
705-324-7323
152 Angeline Street N.
Lindsay, ON K9V 4X2
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