I spent last weekend at St. Francis Springs Prayer Center (near the NC-VA border) with thirteen others from Binkley. This annual Quiet Weekend is a favorite retreat for those who frequently attend and I observed some of the reasons for this 

The setting invites rest and reflection. The wooded landscape and well-kept grounds offer opportunities for long walks along trails, a Labyrinth experience, a meaningfully social-justice themed Stations of the Cross, and outdoor chapel for meditation. The indoor accommodations provided us with both tranquility and comfort; think "homey." It is a well-done conference/prayer center. The priests (Father Louie!) and staff are hospitable, welcoming, gracious and good cooks to boot.

Groups can and do bond in mysterious and mystical ways. I marvel at how events bring folks together who don't always share the same traffic patterns. You look around the room and see people you may have some vague knowledge of, folks you believe you know well, and some completely unknown to you. Then, over time; shared space, dialogue on the daily and the divine, laughter, tears, prayer, and meals together (most of ours were in silence, yes it can be done!) sisters and brothers forge an identity. This is true for Sunday school classes, Kerygma bible study groups, choirs, and ministry teams. However there is something powerfully beneficial in getting away from familiar settings and into new spaces.

Next year when various retreats are scheduled, sign-up, pay-up, and go! We learn, see, feel, and experience the Holy differently when away from home and church building. Take some of the money you might spend on a Christmas gift and gift yourself with a down payment for either one of our church-sponsored retreats or another type you've found. You'll be glad (and rested, slowed down, befriended, calmer, less anxious...) you did. In the quietness you may be asked to ponder: How do I want to be different?

I return to the Binkley pulpit this third week of Advent and will preach a sermon on Mary's song of the magnificent mercy of God. It is Gaudete (Gow-day-tay) Sunday, meaning we light the lone pink/rose candle on the advent wreath. The Latin word means "rejoice!" Our children and youth will portray the Nativity Scene narrative in the service. And don't forget the Moravian Love-Feast Sunday night in the sanctuary at 7pm.

With joy, deep abiding joy for you,

Your Pastor,

Marcus