Dougy Center's new resource, Supporting Children & Teens with Autism Who are Grieving, is a collaboration with Jennifer Wiles, Director of HEARTplay, and rooted in a Grief Out Loud podcast interview.
This Tip Sheet provides parents, caregivers, and other community members with ideas for concrete, compassionate, and creative support for children and teens with autism who are grieving.
People might assume that if someone doesn’t express grief in a “typical” way that they aren’t grieving, but for children and teens with autism grief may look different. Rather than crying or verbal expression, they may demonstrate increased stimming, meltdowns, shutdowns, or agitation. Additionally, sensitivity to routine changes may be misinterpreted as a lack of caring about the death, when it’s often both grief and distress about disruption.
According to Jennifer, families might use a visual support to talk concretely about what death means. It helps children start to understand and be able to ask questions. It’s also important to let children and teens know what to expect, how routines may change, and what other people's reactions might look and sound like.
For more, download the Tip Sheet here.
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