The Weekly Vine
March 12, 2015
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For emergencies that occur after hours or on weekends please call:
   Fr. Kyle's Cell:  239.784.2023

If no immediate answer, please leave a message.

If you are going into the hospital please contact the church office at 239.394.7242 so we can provide prayer support and pastoral care. 



Stephen Ministry
Stephen Minister
is always available to you as a St. Mark's family member for confidential, one-on-one care during any life challenge.  If you are seeking information about how this ministry works please contact: 

 

Elaine Cole

Referral Coordinator - ecole117@gmail.com

or cell phone:      207.233.4439       

 

or

 

Fr. Kyle at kyle@stmarksmarco.org or cell phone:  239.784.2023.

Jubilee Parish
Did You Know?

St. Mark's has been designated as a Jubilee Center by the Episcopal Church.

Jubilee Centers are recognized for their existing Community Leadership and Outreach programs in response to the Jubilee Mandate of the Episcopal Church, which is:

To be a ministry of joint discipleship in Christ with poor and oppressed people, wherever they are found, to meet basic human needs and to build a just society.

St. Mark's Choir
All are welcome to join our Music Ministry program!  Rehearsals continue as follows:
 
St. Mark's Choir - Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00   (High School/College Age and Adults)
 
St. Mark's Children's Choir  - Tuesdays, 5:30-6:00 pm  
  
St. Mark's Handbell Choir - Tuesday , 4:00-5:00 pm (High School/College Age and Adults of any age!)
 
Attention All Youth and Adults:  If you play an instrument, please contact Dr. Doiron at the church office (239) 394-7242, extension 94.  Your talents are always welcome and we can schedule you to play whenever you are ready to do so!  Instrumentalists welcome to participate in the Family Service.
Outreach at 
St. Mark's

Check out the Outreach bulletin board in the back, right corner of the Parish Hall.  There are many ways to participate.

 

The green wagon is always in the Parish Hall to accept non-perishable food items for St. Matthew's House and those that are hungry.  

 

Prayer Shawl contact is Lorraine Corr (239-793-6744), or see Nanette in the Church Office for any questions or details.  

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YOU ARE INVITED ... If you are "new" to St. Mark's or have not attended a New Member Welcome event in the past, this is your chance to join us.. 

 

  

NEED HELP?

 

Shelly Haueter will take your picture THIS SUNDAY, MARCH 15 BETWEEN THE 8 AND 9:15 SERVICES, AND AFTER THE 10:30AM SERVICE IN THE PARISH HALL.

 

Shelly will also be available at St. Mark's PreSchool after 1PM THIS THURSDAY, MARCH 19.  Please make an appointment by emailing Shelly if you are coming on Thursday, March 19.  Michelle_haueter@yahoo.com.

 

Questions:  Contact Katie Goetzmann 389-6765 or goetzkd@aol.com

 

Here's looking at you!  It'll be wonderful to put faces with names and get to know each other better. God bless us all.

 

PREPARING FOR MARCH 15, 2015 - 4 LENT - SPECIAL REQUIEM SERVICE at 10:30 SERVICE

 

SATURDAY, March 14 AT 5:30PM with Father Alden Burhoe

  

SUNDAY, March 15 AT 8AM, 9:15AM, AND 10:30AM    

5:30 PM Saturday  Those Ministering

 

Celebrant: The Rev Alden Burhoe

Altar Server:  Candy Morgan

  

8:00 AM  Those Ministering
 

Crucifer/Reader/Server/Chalice: Cathy Weis

Book/Prayers/Plates/Gates/Chalice: Kevin M. Fitzgerald

 

Greeters: Barb and Ed Nicholson

Ushers: Liz and Ron Bryan

 

9:15 AM Those Ministering: 

 

HostsCallie Bennett and Olivia Feeney

Greeters:  Doug and Donna Eichten

Ushers:  Gary and Diana Dewel

Chalices: Wendy Happney and Judy Kenney

 

10:30 AM Those Ministering:

 

Clergy Cross/Reader/Server/Chalice: Chris Christensen

Crucifer/Prayers/Plates/Gates/Chalice: Cathy Weis

     

Greeters:  Terri Kunze and Maggie Patrick

Ushers:  Dick and Joyce Brown

  

ALL SERVICES:

  

Preacher and Guest Celebrant:  The Reverend Patrick "Crawfish" Sanders

Requiem Celebrant: Fr. John Ineson

 

Altar Guild:  Lorraine Corr w/ Myrna Diaz, Kathy Faria,

    Annette Fedor, Norma McGuire

Counters:  Al Diaz and Gwyn Goodman

WORSHIP2 Fellowship Host:  Vestry

Vestry of the Day: Open-John Fedor // Close-Wade

     Mundinger

 

Readings: 

 

Hebrew Testament:  Numbers 21:4-9

Psalm 107:1-3, 17-22

New Testament:  Ephesians 2:1-10

Gospel:  John 3:14-21

Fr. John's Branch - We remember them . . .

 

            St. Paul said that the last enemy to be overcome is death. He was not referring to physical death but rather, that of all the things that bedevil us in life, that bend us out of shape, that consume inordinate amounts of brain time, that cause worry and anxiety, our concern about the change called death is the last to be overcome. Paul knew that death is the topic most likely to roil the waters of inner peace.

            The genius of Christianity is that death, this universally experienced "last enemy to be overcome," is the very foundation of our faith. Our symbol is the instrument of death used in many cultures and especially in the Roman culture of the first century when roads were lined with the crucified. Had Jesus lived in another era our symbol might be a headsman's axe, a guillotine, a hangman's noose, a cluster of rifles, an electric chair or a syringe emblazoned with skull and crossbones. We're all about death, because we're all about resurrection and the hope it brings.

             We believe that death has been overcome. As the preface to the Sanctus at requiems proclaims, we believe that in death "life is changed, not ended." This is not to say that believers do not experience heart-rending grief. We grieve, feel lost and confused, ask "Who am I now?" We become angry at reality, and all of these sentiments of grief are sure indicators that we are human, as human as the one who cried at the death of his friend, Lazarus. But as Paul exhorts us, we "Do not grieve as those without hope." We have been shown that death is not the end. Every seven days we gather in celebration on the day of the week when our spiritual forebears were first shown that in death life is changed, not ended.

             This Sunday, at 10:30, we will gather with the specific intention of remembering those whose lives have been changed, not ended. Re-membering means re-joining, re-connecting with the "great cloud of witnesses" bound by love to us and us to them. It is our yearly celebration of the reality of the communion of saints - so many names and faces who sometimes press in so close we can feel their presence.

             Join us for yet another "only at St. Mark's!" occurrence . . . an Easter liturgy in celebration of life and its many changes . . . on a Sunday right in the middle of Lent . . . as we remember them.

 

Rev. Sue's Tendril: "Ailments of the Curia"

 

Last week I listed the first eight of the fifteen "Ailments of the Curia" discussed by Pope Francis during his annual Christmas greetings to the clergy who run the central administration of the Roman Catholic Church.   They are applicable to all of us, all year-round, particularly during Lent when we are charged to undergo self-reflection. Provided below are the remaining seven. Please consider contemplating one of them each day of the week.

 

Day 1: Committing the "Terrorism of Gossip" - It's the sickness of cowardly people who, not having the courage to speak directly, talk behind people's back.

Day 2: Glorifying One's Bosses - It's the sickness of those who court their superiors, hoping for their benevolence. They are victims of careerism and opportunism, they honor people who aren't God.

Day 3: Being Indifferent to Others - When, out of jealousy or cunning, one finds joy in seeing another fall rather than helping him up and encouraging him.

Day 4: Having a "Funeral Face" - In reality, theatrical severity and sterile pessimism are often symptoms of fear and insecurity. The apostle must be polite, serene, enthusiastic, and happy and transmit joy wherever he goes.

Day 5: Wanting More - When the apostle tries to fill an existential emptiness in his heart by accumulating material goods, not because he needs them but because he'll feel more secure.


Day 6: Forming "Closed Circles" that Seek to be Stronger than the Whole - This sickness always starts with good intentions but as time goes by, it enslaves its members by becoming a cancer that threatens the harmony of the body and causes so much bad - scandals - especially to our younger brothers.

 

Day 7: Seeking Worldly Profit and Showing Off - It's the sickness of those who insatiably try to multiply their powers and to do so are capable of calumny, defamation, and discrediting others, even in newspapers and magazines, naturally to show themselves as being more capable than others.

 

Again, thank you, Pope Francis for being so direct! May each of us take your words to heart.

 

 

Fr. Alden's Leaf - Love Sermons For Lent

 

To quote from evangelist Ravi Zacharais, "If it bleeds, it leads." That's the news today on television, and in print.

 

And yet: How many husbands come home faithfully to their wives every evening?; their names are not printed in the newspaper; how many salesmen deliver a quality product in the honesty of a competitive market?; how many players perform fully with no thought of HGH?; how many wives at work, or at home, day in and day out, support their families in every possible way?.

 

In reality the far greater number of people are like ourselves. They do not voluntarily hurt another; steal from one; or kill in anger; most of them live their lives, without having to deal with the police, the courts of law,or defense lawyers.

 

We pray at Rite1 Post Communion "...O heavenly Father,

so to assist us with thy grace that we .... do all such works as thou hast prepared for us to walk in."

 

I pray that my sermons for Lent are demonstrations of how this can be done. "Go in Peace to Love and Serve the Lord." And as Jesus commanded, "Your neighbor as yourself."      

 

Children and Youth

Callie Bennett & Olivia Feeney, Directors of Christian Formation For Children

Shane Totten, Youth Minister

 

Christian Formation for Children

Callie and Olivia's Vine:

 

Hey Ya'll!

Our Christian Formation classes are going great and we love our time together! This upcoming Sunday we will be getting a little messy with our lesson and we will be painting with non-washable paint. So please send your kiddos with a change of messy clothes to switch into. We have been so lucky to have our 'snowbird' Olivia and unfortunately we only have her for two more Sundays. We know spring break is upon us, but if you are here please come to class on Sunday so we can show her all of our love. 
 
 
We NEED YOU to volunteer for St. Mark's Christian Formation for Children Ministry for next school year!!!  Olivia is ending her stay at St. Mark's by the end of March and Callie is moving on by the end of the summer complete her advanced degree and plan her wedding.  The plan is for Parents and Adult Volunteers to meet with Callie and Father Kyle on YOUTH SUNDAY, MAY 3 after WORSHIP2 to plan and implement the Children's "Sunday School" Program that will coincide with the 9:15 Family Service to begin again in October 2015.  There will be a bounce house/water slide and refreshments for the children while we meet.  PLEASE PRAY FOR ST. MARK'S CHILDREN'S CHRISTIAN FORMATION PROGRAM AND SEARCH YOUR HEART IF YOU ARE CALLED TO SERVE.  

 

Friend Fact: Olivia and Callie have very similar TV show interests and get way too invested in certain shows and characters.

 


 

Youth

 

Sundays March 15th and 22nd --- Father John and Carl will be leading the next two Family Services while the Tottens are dancing in Ireland. Youth are encouraged to join their families in the pews for the next couple of weeks and/or assist with passing out the bulletins, carrying up the cross, etc... Please see Callie and Olivia upon arrival if you are interested in helping.

 

There will not be a Tuesday Night Youth Group meeting during the week of Spring Break, but rather will resume at the normal time the following week. As well, the Sunday Morning Youth Class will resume after Spring Break.

 

So, to all the Youth out there --- enjoy your break and spend as much time with your families as possible!

 

Sincerely,

 

The Totten Family

 

VINE OF SONG

 

WINTER AND SPRING

MUSIC MINISTRY SEASON BEGINS!

 

Now is the time to join our Music Ministry Family - all are welcome without audition!

Seasonal singers welcome even if only for a few weeks!

Just be present for one of our weekly rehearsals:

Tuesdays  -  4:00-5:00 pm pm Handbell Choir and 5:30-6:00 pm Children's Choir

Wednesdays - 7:00-9:00 pm St. Mark's Choir.

Contact Dr. Doiron at the church office for more information.

 

Jubilee Children's Choir Continues!

 

The Jubilee Children's Choir continues with rehearsals on Tuesdays, 5:30-6:00 pm.

All youth ages 5 to 12 are welcome to join us for a singing experience.

Youth singing in choirs benefit greatly by learning how to work creatively in a group environment.

Scientific studies have shown that youth who participate in music enhance their creative

thinking skills and perform better in school!

All are invited to join us this coming Tuesday at 5:30 pm in the Chapel!
 

  

 
  

An Open House to support the Philippines Project

 

Open House will be held at John and Hannah Ineson's home Holy Saturday, April 4, from 1 to 5. All are invited for refreshments and fellowship. There will be a raffle with several chances to win Hannah's artwork. RSVP 207-380-4334 or hannahi@tidewater.net. Hope to see you there!

  

HABITAT FOR HUMANITY SUNDAY 

Many Hands, One Very Big Heart

 

Habitat Sunday was a joy filled event with so many prayers offered and good wishes inscribed on the boards that will strengthen a Habitat home.  Mike Mueller will pound the wood into place this week, while Stan North tallies the wonderful outpouring of love and generosity that you so graciously offer to help provide a safe, decent and affordable home for a hardworking family.  Many thanks to all who worked so hard and all who gave from their hearts.  As soon as the total donation to Habitat for Humanity of Collier County is available, you'll find it right here.  And if you have any questions about St. Mark's ministry with Habitat, please call me.  

 

Lauri Shafer

  
Pictures from Lauri and Carl Kelly





Dear St. Mark's Family:

 

Thank you so much for all your prayers during Aubrey's surgery and hospital stays. We appreciate it so much and are so very grateful. She is doing very well, getting around just fine, running actually, and pretty much back to her old self! T hank you again.

 

The Popoff Family

 

Cecelia Popoff

 


  
VINE CALENDAR
ST. MARK'S SPECIAL MARCH EVENTS:

Please see the front of your weekly bulletin or check the website calendar for daily and weekly recurring events and changes!

 

EACH TUESDAY AND THURSDAY 3-5PM BIWEEKLY STARS ON THE WATER AFTERSCHOOL PROGRAM in the Parish Hallthrough April

 

EACH TUESDAY 5:30-6PM CHILDREN'S CHOIR REHEARSAL in the Chapel with Dr. D.

 

EACH TUESDAY 5:30-7PM YOUTH GROUP EYC in the Youth Room with Shane Totten

 

EACH WEDNESDAY 8-8:45AM BROTHERHOOD BIBLE STUDY with Kyle in the Library

 

EACH WEDNESDAY 1-3PM HANNAH'S ART CLASS in the Parish Hall through April 1.

 

EACH WEDNESDAY 3:30PM - Women's WEEKLY BIBLE STUDY in the Library

 

EACH WEDNESDAY 5:30PM - Rev. Sue's WEEKLY HEALING AND HOLY EUCHARIST (through April 2015) in the Chapel

 

EACH THURSDAY 1-2:30PM FATHER JOHN'S ANNUAL CLASS in Willis Ministry Center through 3/26

 

EACH SATURDAY WEEKLY 5:30PM SATURDAY SERVICE with Father Alden Burhoe through March 28. 

 

EACH SUNDAY:  3 SERVICE SCHEDULE through April 19:

8AM Holy Eucharist

9:15AM Family Holy Eucharist with music by Father John, Shane Totten&'No Exceptions' Youth Band

10AM Children and Youth Christian Formation (Godly Play in the PreSchool with Callie&Olivia)(Youth in the Youth Room with Shane Totten)

10:30AM - Holy Eucharist with Choral Music

Worship2 Fellowship follows each Sunday service in the Parish Hall 

 

TUESDAY, 3/10 4-6PM - 2nd Tuesday of the month STEPHEN MINISTRY SUPERVISION GROUP MEETING in the Library

 

THURSDAY, 3/12 AND FRIDAY, 3/13 10AM-4PM Seasonal Monthly ARTS & CRAFTS SHOW on St. Mark's Campus sponsored by The BROTHERHOOD

 

THURSDAY, 3/12 6PM 2nd Thursday of each month GAME NITE in the Parish Hall - CANCELLED THIS MONTH!!!  NO VOLUNTEER TO HOST DINNER  ... PLEASE CONSIDER HOSTING - call June Bridges if you will host April or beyond 389-2590

 

SATURDAY, 3/14 9AM TO NOON:  SPRING CAMPUS WORKDAY!  Come join us clean up around Campus to get ready for Easter

 

SUNDAY, 3/15 REQUIEM SUNDAY:  Annual Requiem Mass performed at the 10:30AM service as we remember Parish Family who have died

 

Monday, 3/16 to Friday, 3/20:  Spring Break for all Schools (St. Mark's hosting National Clergy Gathering-Guests on Campus! from the Cana Initiative)

 

TUESDAY, 3//17 530-7PM MARCH ALL PARISH SOUL NIGHT with POT LUCK DINNER, NEW MEMBER WELCOME AND ST. MARK'S ST. PATTY'S DAY PARTY! In the Parish Hall   

 

MONDAY, 3/23 10:30-NOON - MONTHLY (4th Monday of each month) ALZHEIMER'S ASSOCIATION MEMORY LOSS/CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP MEETING in Willis Ministry Center

 

THURSDAY, 3/26 4:30PM - MONTHLY (4th Thursday of each month) BROTHERHOOD GOLF AT THE LINKS

 

SATURDAY, MARCH 28 9-11AM:  LENTEN BREAKFAST served by The Brotherhood, MUSIC AND MEDITATION with Father John, make PALM CROSSES with the Altar Guild for Palm Sunday.  ALL WELCOME TO JOIN US!

 

3/28 5:30PM - LAST!  SATURDAY EVENING HOLY EUCHARIST WITH FATHER ALDEN BURHOE

 

PALM SUNDAY, MARCH 29:  3 services at 8AM, 9:15AM, 10:30AM with Palm Procession and Celebrate The Arts in the Parish Hall during WORSHIP2 Fellowship

 

HOLY WEEK AT ST. MARK'S:  Wednesday, 4/1 5:30PM-Weekly Healing & Holy Eucharist in the Chapel with Rev. Sue

Maundy Thursday, 4/2 5:30PM-Simple Soup Supper in the Parish Hall; 6:30PM-Footwashing, Holy Eucharist, Stripping of the Altar Service

Good Friday, 4/3 NOON-Solemn Good Friday Liturgy

Holy Saturday, 9AM-Altar Guild decorates St. Mark's Campus for Easter

 

EASTER SUNDAY, April 5: 

7AM - 1ST SERVICE OF EASTER VIGIL OF LIGHT

7:45-9AM - Breakfast provided by Parish Life Commission

9:15AM - ISLAND STYLE EASTER HOLY EUCHARIST ON THE LABYRINTH

10-10:30AM - Easter Egg Hunt sponsored by The Youth and Family Fellowship provided by Parish Life

10:30AM - FESTIVAL HOLY EUCHARIST WITH CHORAL MUSIC AND ORCHESTRA.  Incense will be used at this service

 

Easter Monday, 4/6 - Church Office Closed

 

ST. MARK'S SPECIAL APRIL EVENTS:

Please see the front of your weekly bulletin or check the website calendar for daily and weekly recurring events and changes!

 

SATURDAY, 4/4 1-5PM - PHILIPPINES BENEFIT OPEN HOUSE AT THE INESONS.  See details in attached article

 

THURSDAY, 4/9 AND FRIDAY, 4/10 10AM-4PM Seasonal Monthly ARTS & CRAFTS SHOW on St. Mark's Campus sponsored by The BROTHERHOOD

 

SUNDAY, 4/12 after the 9:15 service:  LAST!  CHRISTIAN FORMATION CLASS for Children and Youth for this school year (YOUTH SUNDAY IS MAY 3!)

 

WEDNESDAY, 4/15 NOON - ECW ANNUAL MEETING AND END OF YEAR LUNCHEON AT Island Country Club - watch for your invite in the mail and The Vine!
 

SUNDAY, 4/19 LAST! 9:15AM FAMILY SERVICE UNTIL OCTOBER

 

TUESDAY, 4/21 5PM - Monthly Vestry Business Meeting - Library

 

SUNDAY, 4/26 LAST! 8AM SERVICE UNTIL NOVEMBER

 

SUNDAY, 4/26 10:30AM ANNUAL BLUE GRASS MASS AND Y'ALL FEST in the Parish Hall

 

MONDAY, 4/27 10:30-NOON - MONTHLY (4th Monday of each month) ALZHEIMER'S ASSOCIATION MEMORY LOSS/CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP MEETING in Willis Ministry Center

 

THURSDAY, 4/30 4:30PM - MONTHLY (4th Thursday of each month) BROTHERHOOD GOLF AT THE LINKS

 

BROTHERHOOD GOLF  




Please note St. Mark's Church Office Hours are:  

Mondays through Thursdays 9:30AM - 4:30PM  

Closed Fridays. 

Repeating Announcements
Worship2....    Gather in the Parish Hall for coffee or juice

 

A "Welcome" time after each worship service with an emphasis on welcoming new members, guests, and old friends to St. Mark's and letting them feel at home.  

 

 

Camp Jeffery Volunteers Needed!

 

Camp Jeffrey was created for people with developmental differences.  For two hours (3-5PM) each Monday during the school year, we provide an encouraging sensory friendly environment that allows for a fun exploration of real life experiences.  We build relationships with each person by gaining his or her interest and attention.  We participate in games and activities that facilitate discovery of self and others.  Through play and socialization we make available opportunities for insight and allow for creative expression.  Volunteers are needed for this intimately holy ministry.  Please contact Cheryl Mueller (272-8826) or Kyle if you are interested in profound joy and sharing your gifts

 

Vine Articles

 

Please E-mail your articles to Jim Kunze at jim@kunzefamily.com and copy Nanette at office@stmarksmarco.org.  The deadline for the Vine is now each Wednesday at 9:00 AM. 

Jim can be reached at 239-300-4299

 

Need Help?

 

Learning Spanish and Cleaning!: 

 

Justo Herrera, Spanish professor at Marco Island Academy (Marco's Charter High School) is willing to help adults with their Spanish language skills on Saturday mornings.  Also he and wife, Ida, provide cleaning services for homes, offices, etc.  Give them a call if they can help you out in these areas of interest.  314-795-8181.  Now incorporated, bonded and insured!

  
Liz Doyle, "Granny Nanny":  

 

Our own Liz Doyle, the "Granny Nanny" would love to sit for your little ones....night or day!  She has been a member of our parish family for years and has helped as a volunteer with our young families and their children.  Ask most any of them for references.  

 

Liz was a former teacher, and has a master's degree in childhood psychology. According to her though, her best "training" has been her hands on experience with her own 13 grandchildren who range in age from 16 to 1.  As she says, she's seen it all!   Call her for loving, experienced care for your children or grandchildren.  Liz would also appreciate anyone telling their friends and neighbors about her if they need any child care help .  You can reach Liz at home (239-389-1833) or on her cell (239-293-3144).

  
I am a St. Mark's parishioner seeking employment. 

 

My interests  and abilities are in the following areas:

 

As a cat lover, I offer pet sitting.  I have an extensive bookkeeping background and can help with checking account or bill paying assistance. 

 

Also interested in or available for companionship or transportation to doctor appointments, shopping, etc.and/or light housekeeping or meal preparation

 

Norma McGuire

793-3728

  

St. Mark's Episcopal Church

 

1101 North Collier Boulevard

 

Marco Island, FL  34145

 

Phone:  239.394.7242