May 2025

Newsletter Special Edition: Celebrating Safely

Highlighting Youth Voices: A Negligent Watch is a Consequential One


This month, we are excited to hear directly from SAPCA Board member Calvin O'Brien, an Alexandria City High School sophomore, as he shines a spotlight on Virginia's Social Host Law:


During this season full of prom and graduation celebrations, it is important for youth, adults, schools, and communities to raise awareness about alcohol abuse and misuse. The risks of underage drinking range from impaired judgement, coordination, and memory to poor decision-making, and even alcohol-related injuries, accidents, and deaths. While sharing information about these risks is an effective deterrent to underage drinking for some, we must come together as a community to address another factor impacting underage drinking: youth access to alcohol.

 

Parents, older siblings, family members, and any other adults age 21 or older are legally liable when they knowingly give alcohol to anyone under age 21. Besides harming and endangering youth, adults face legal consequences upon conviction when they provide alcohol to minors. For example, if a parent provided alcohol for a post-prom party, that parent could face up to 12 months in jail, loss of the driver’s license for up to 12 months, and a fine of $2,500 per young person given alcohol at the party

 

But the consequences in the legal system aren’t the worst outcomes-- it's the social implications that follow. But these consequences do not compare to the potential long-term outcomes. According to the 2023 National Survey on Drug Use and Health, youth who begin drinking alcohol before age 15 are four times more likely to experience alcohol addiction compared to youth who wait until age 21 or later to start drinking. I have seen how alcohol use can cause irreparable damage to others; even just one slip-up can snowball into an avalanche that crushes one person at first and eventually an entire community. The good news is there is hope for a better future.

 

So, what can you do? You can start with educating yourself and your child about the consequences of youth alcohol use. You can also explore free resources from SAPCA, including tips about communicating with teens and supporting healthy decision-making. Additionally, you can get involved with SAPCA’s prevention efforts as a volunteer by visiting alexandriava.gov/SAPCA. Simply reaching out to learn more is a powerful and important step you can take to raise awareness about the dangers of youth alcohol use this month and year-round.


Please join us in thanking Calvin for sharing this important message with our community!


Calvin was born in San Antonio, TX and has lived places as far away as Germany and as close as North Carolina as a military brat. Through this, he has gained insight into many different people and their behaviors, as well as an irrefutable ability to adapt. He has two sisters and spends his free time organizing fundraising events for his school, volunteering, and writing poetry. He was recently elected as the Vice President of his school’s poetry club. He is very interested in prevention and has many coping mechanisms and outlets he hopes to share with others.  

Celebrate Safely: Supporting Youth to Make Healthy Choices


With the school year coming to a close, many students are ready to celebrate the end of school and the start of summer -- and for some, the beginning of the next chapter. While there is certainly cause to celebrate the academic achievement of graduating seniors, there are serious legal consequences for adults that provide alcohol to minors for any kind of party. Please choose to celebrate safely and encourage friends and family members to do the same by ensuring youth celebrations are substance free. 

Make your values clear and talk to your children early and often about the consequences of underage drinking. Remember, small conversations can make a big difference.


Unsure how to start the conversation? Check out these five tips for talking to teens about alcohol:


  1. Show you disapprove of underage drinking.
  2. Show you care about your child's happiness and well-being.
  3. Show you're a good source of information about alcohol.
  4. Show you're paying attention and you'll notice if your child drinks.
  5. Build your child's skills and strategies for avoiding underage drinking.


Learn more facts about underage drinking here.

Is Your Teen Hosting or Attending a Party?


There's a lot to celebrate towards the end of the school year! Review these tips from Informed Families to support your teen in celebrating safely.


Tips for when your teen is attending a party


Contact the adult who is hosting the party

  • Ask for the address, occasion, and time of the party.
  • Let the host know that your teen is not allowed to drink alcohol, use marijuana, or use tobacco products.
  • Ask if there will be parental supervision throughout the event.
  • Offer your phone number to the party host.


Discuss these issues with your teen before the party

  • Discuss expectations and consequences.
  • Agree on a curfew.
  • Discuss how your teen will get to and from the party.
  • Discuss what your teen should do if there is alcohol or other drugs present at the party.
  • Offer to be your teen's ride home and agree on a "code word" should your teen want to discreetly let you know they want to be picked up.

Tips for when your teen is hosting


Plan with your teen:

  • Know who your guests will be and avoid an "open party" situation.
  • Agree on party rules beforehand. This should include making it clear that alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, and other drugs are not allowed.
  • Welcome calls from other parents to discuss party arrangements.


Know your responsibilities: It is illegal to serve alcohol to anyone under 21 years of age. Penalties upon conviction include: 

  • A $2,500 fine per young person provided any alcoholic beverage
  • Loss of the adult’s driver’s license for up to one year and/or one year in jail



Explore more tips for celebrating safely this homecoming and year-round at PreventItAlexandria.org

Safety Tips for Avoiding Impaired Driving


Whether you're traveling near or far, or not at all, this summer, follow and share these simple guidelines from the Virginia Department of Motor Vehicles for avoiding impaired driving.


Preventing Drunk & Drugged Driving

  • Plan for a sober ride home (taxi, Uber, Lyft or a sober friend) before a night out.
  • Remember, Virginia law prohibits anyone under the age of 21 from purchasing, possessing, or consuming alcohol. Additionally, Virginia's zero tolerance law prohibits anyone under the age of 21 from operating a motor vehicle if they have been drinking alcohol.
  • Be a responsible host by making sure all guests leave with a sober ride. If providing alcohol, only serve individuals age 21 or older.
  • If you are taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, find out the potential effects the drugs could have on your driving before getting behind the wheel.


Preventing Distracted Driving

  • Before you go, plan ahead. Set up the directions to your destination and select your music before you drive.
  • Park before you eat.
  • Set your phone on silent or put it on "do not disturb."
  • Don't become a distracting passenger. Help the driver by being an extra pair of eyes on the road.


Preventing Drowsy Driving

  • Get enough sleep before driving.
  • Always check your prescription and over-the-counter medication labels to see if drowsiness could result from their use.
  • Before starting a long car trip, get a good night's sleep and plan stops along the way.


Learn more about preventing impaired driving, supporting teens to drive safely, and state laws here.

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