By the time you are reading this, someone has appeared in my house, Sven…our Elf on the Shelf. Perhaps you have one too, but if you don’t, the Elf on the Shelf is pretty much a daily game for kids to find where their elf has hidden themselves or what kind of antics they have gotten into during the night. The whole purpose though, is that the elf flies back to the north pole to inform Santa if the kids have been naughty or nice. Yes, it is a daily reminder that kids better watch out, better not cry, better not pout…you get the idea.

Yet I have heard so many people in the church bemoan this newer tradition for families because it further removes Jesus from Christmas as well as reinforces the idea that you have to be good in order to be loved. I’d like to push back though, and argue that the Elf on the Shelf may help kids experience the seasons of Advent and Christmas more deeply than we might first think.

Advent literally means “arrival” and it is a season that counts down the four Sundays prior to Christmas Day. It is a season that is about waiting, watching, and anticipating not just the birth of baby Jesus in a manger, but waiting, watching, and anticipating the radical way of love and grace that Jesus brings to this world.

So what if we utilized the excitement and joy that the Elf on the Shelf brings as a way to talk about the joy that the birth of baby Jesus brings? Each day your child could search for the elf as well as searching for how they saw special moments of God’s presence. It could be when they shared a toy, when they had family time, when they read their favorite book, etc. Let’s get creative this Advent season to not only lean into our cultural traditions, but to use them to talk about who we are waiting and watching for!

Feel free to reach out if you’d like to chat!
Pastor Tom Westcott
(Watch for more information in the Friday News about an informal parent chat with Pastor Tom on 12/17)