2019
APRIL
Tuesday, April 2: Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
Saturday, April 6: Greenville Big Book Step Study Meeting celebrates its 13th Anniversary, 9 a.m., Greenville Public Library, 573 Putnam Pike (Route 44), Greenville, RI.
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Saturday, April 6: Carry the Message Workshop, 9-11:30 A free workshop about spreading the good news of Overeaters Anonymous to clergy, doctors and health providers. Bring your Big Book and your OA 12 and 12 Unitarian Universalist Church Holden Street, Worcester, MA
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Saturday, April 13:
A Room With A View Meeting celebrates its 22nd Anniversary, 9:30 a.m. to 11 a.m. at Calvary United Methodist Church, 200 Turner Road, Middletown, RI. Guest speakers (male and female) and fellowship!
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Sunday, April 28th: Spirituality of the 12 Steps (a day-long retreat), 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., Carleton Hall, 1006 Old Bass River Road, Dennis, MA. Sponsored by Cape Cod Intergroup. Bev, 508-566-0137 or [email protected].
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MAY
Tuesday, May 7: Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
JUNE
Tuesday, June 4: Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
June 21-23: Tranquility - Living the Principles Retreat, Incarnation Conference, Center, Ivoryton, CT Sponsored by Southeastern CT Integroup
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Tuesday, July 2 Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
AUGUST
Tuesday, Aug. 6 Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
SEPTEMBER
Tuesday, Sept. 3 Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
OCTOBER
Tuesday, Oct. 1 Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
6 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
6:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
Oct. 18-20: Region 6 Convention, "Rooted in Recovery," Crowne Plaza, White Plains, NY
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PHONE SUPPORT AVAILABLE ON
MAJOR HOLIDAYS
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MARATHON PHONE MEETINGS ARE HELD ON
ALL MAJOR HOLIDAYS
EVERY HOUR ON THE HOUR BEGINNING AT 8 A.M. AROUND REGULARLY SCHEDULED MEETINGS. EACH MARATHON HAS A TOPIC FOR THE DAY.
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Seventh Tradition
The Seventh Tradition states OA is fully self-supporting, accepting contributions only from OA members. Groups may send either monthly or periodic donations (via mail or in person) to Intergroup. Thank you for your donation, which helps us to spread the word of recovery. Intergroup treasurer reports are always available -- just ask.
On average, six groups donate each month. Does your group donate on a regular basis?
To send donations (payable to Ocean & Bay Intergroup) via mail:
Ocean and Bay Intergroup
Attn: Treasurer
P.O. Box 41273
Providence, RI 02940
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LIFELINE MATERIAL WELCOME
Not all writing for Lifeline needs to be a specific topic for a specific month. Below is a list of ongoing material OA's magazine, Lifeline, accepts for publication. For examples, refer to any issue of Lifeline.
DEPARTMENTS (No Deadline)
- Bits and Bites: Add to our collection of short inspirational quotes and recovery wisdom.
- What Works for Me: How do you work your program, and what difference has it made?
- Step Study, Living Traditions, Service and Recovery, and The Spiritual Path: Share about the month's Step or Tradition or send a story about service or connecting with your HP
- Newcomers Corner: Newcomers, share your OA experiences and concerns.
- Share It (Letters to the Editor): Was a Lifeline issue or story special for you? Tell us!
OTHER MATERIALS (No Deadline)
Lifeline accepts artwork and photos (no faces, please) for publication. Credit lines and rights to submitted work apply equally to articles, artwork, and photos. The WSO does not return submitted materials. Lifeline may edit articles and crop photos.
Send to: Lifeline, World Service Office, PO Box 44727,
Rio Rancho, NM 87174-4727 or
email to
[email protected]
with subject "Lifeline."
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Intergroup Board
CONTACT US
Other Service Positions:
Public Information/ Professional Outreach: Holly
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Mission & Vision
Ocean & Bay Intergroup is dedicated to supporting individuals in need of recovery from compulsive eating (e.g.: overeating, bulimia, anorexia) through carrying the OA message and empowering all meetings within the Intergroup.
1. Help members strengthen their personal recovery
2. Increase the number of sponsors
3. Increase the number of newcomers
4. Increase the retention of newcomers
5. Help those in relapse
6. Inspire people to give more service
7. Increase outreach activities, including outreach to members and healthcare professionals
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Local Meeting List
IMPORTANT!
GROUP CONTACT INFORMATION: Please check your group contact name and phone number on the local Ocean and Bay Meeting List. Send changes to
Also, check your meeting listing and contact info on the Overeaters Anonymous website meeting list at
oa.org. The oa.org website listing is different than the local meeting list and must be updated by your meeting contact person.
* Please call ahead to verify meetings are taking place, especially during holidays.
FIND A MEETING ACROSS THE U.S. AND BEYOND -- FACE-TO-FACE, ONLINE, AND TELEPHONE!
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Ocean & Bay Website!
oceanandbay.org
includes events, meeting list, info for newcomers, and more!
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LINKS
New England Intergroups
Ocean and Bay Intergoup
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Please note that every effort has been made to adhere to OA's policy for newsletter publications.
Opinions and experiences expressed within are those of the individual writer and not OA as a whole.
REMINDER: This is your newsletter, so please feel free to submit your writing contributions to: [email protected].
You are also invited to be one of the members who provides answers for a Q&A. Again, just send us a note to: [email protected].
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It's time to Pass the Baton
Dear Fellow OA Member:
It's time to pass on the opportunity to do service to a new editor of our Ocean and Bay Intergroup newsletter, "Waves of Hope." I thought I would be able to finish out four full years doing this service, however, o
ther challenges are requiring more of my time and energy at this time -- you know, life is like that. God's time being what it is,
someone has stepped up to take over in May, which makes this fortieth issue my last as your newsletter editor.
To you, loyal readers near and far, thank you for being there. To the many of you who contributed articles and answers to questions sharing your experience, strength, and hope, thank you for providing a personal touch. To our OBI officers and reps, thank you for all that you have done to support getting the word out to our membership.
I have cherished doing this service and am fairly certain I received much more than I ever gave -- OA service is like that. And yet, there comes a time to pass the service baton (in this case the max is two two-year terms). Our traditions encourage the rotation of service, which is healthy for change and growth in both groups and individuals. Thank you for helping me to grow and allowing me to be perfectly imperfect in this position, typos and all! It's been an honor to be just one among many who serve our local membership.
Now, please join me in welcoming Erin as she accepts the baton of service as our new editor next month. May she be equally blessed.
My hand in yours,
Leslie
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Ocean & Bay Intergroup News
All OA members are welcome to attend Ocean & Bay Intergroup (OBI) meetings are held the first Tuesday of the month.
THE NEXT MEETING IS
TUESDAY, APRIL 2nd at 6:30 p.m. at:
Arnold Conference Center in the Regan Building
3 Regan Court (off 111 Howard Avenue)
Cranston, RI 02920
SPECIAL APPEAL LETTER
Check to see if your meeting has received a special appeal letter to help fund sending our World Service Delegate to represent Ocean and Bay Intergoup at the World Service Business Conference, May 6-11!
ARE YOU INTERESTED IN LEARNING ABOUT INTERGROUP? Come to a meeting! Everyone is welcome. Your level of involvement is up to you -- NO PRESSURE.
ALL OA MEMBERS are WELCOME to any and all Intergroup meetings!
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FROM UNITY DAY 2019
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REGION 6 CONVENTION
Rooted in Recovery
October 18-20, 2019
Crowne Plaza
White Plains, New York
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"I couldn't run as fast as I could eat" - Charles
IT TOOK TWO
My therapist suggested Overeaters Anonymous during an appointment. I responded with a rough equivalent of "thank you for sharing." I figured I was okay now that I had lost a lot of weight, but really it was just the low end of a yo-yo loss and gain.
After several months of compulsive overeating leading up to a terrifying gain of one pound (.5 kg) per day during the holidays, I was convinced finally to heed her suggestion.
My very first meeting was in a local church basement. About twenty-five women and one other guy and I were seated in a circle. I did not know what to say so I listened. I heard enough to feel comfortable introducing myself and say this was my first meeting. The members were very welcoming and encouraged me to return. It turned out to be the gateway to my recovery. I listened to the call to keep coming back.
It was at my second meeting at another location where my mind was opened. What I heard amazed me. Members discussed what they used to do with food. I thought I was the only one who did such crazy things. They gave me hope as they talked about the weight they lost and the joy they found when working the OA recovery program. What sealed the deal was when a gentleman introduced himself and said he would be my sponsor. He not only introduced me to abstinence and a healthful food plan but also led me on my first journey of the Twelve Steps. His willingness to reach out to a stranger and give of himself not only saved my life but launched a recovery that has given me a good life beyond what I could comprehend at the time.
I am forever grateful to the people in my first two meetings who introduced me to the possibility of freedom from the pain of compulsive overeating. Newcomers are encouraged to try six meetings to decide if OA is for them, but it took just two meetings for me to know. Many years and a couple thousand meetings later, OA is still for me.
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FROM OA.ORG
OA World Service's Website is a valuable resource of information for newcomers, members, family and friends, professionals, and others interested in OA. Here are a few samplings.
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The concept of abstinence is the basis of OA's program of recovery. By admitting inability to control compulsive eating in the past and abandoning the idea that all one needs is "a little willpower," it becomes possible to abstain from overeating-one day at a time. While a diet can help us lose weight, it often intensifies the compulsion to overeat. The solution offered by OA does not include diet tips. We don't furnish diets, counseling services, hospitalization or treatment; nor does OA participate in or conduct research and training in the field of eating disorders. For weight loss, any medically approved eating plan is acceptable. OA members interested in learning about nutrition or who seek professional advice are encouraged to consult qualified professionals. We may freely use such help, with the assurance that OA supports each of us in our efforts to recover.
Atheists / Agnostics: What if I don't believe in God?
The spiritual experiences and beliefs expressed by members of Overeaters Anonymous are as varied as those found in society at large. Some members have spiritual orientations; still others have come to OA with a history of religious conflict or do not accept the concept of God.
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Static in the attic.
Program is addition by subtraction.
The closest I can get to God is another human being.
Why did you pick up the snake when you knew it was going to bite you?
If you are not hearing the message, then you should speak the message.
Success only comes before work in the dictionary.
If God hasn't removed your character defects, then act as if He has removed them.
Recovery builds on itself.
Before I ask someone I ask some "Thing."
How do you find God? You look for Him!
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