Words Matter, Wounds Matter

By Melanie Pignotti, LCPC, CAC Chief Executive Officer


October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month, a time to reflect on the

impact bullying can have on children, adolescents and even adults. While bullying is sometimes dismissed as a normal part of growing up, the reality is that its effects can be significant, lasting and deeply harmful. CDC identifies bullying as a form of youth violence and an adverse childhood experience that can cause emotional, psychological, social and educational harm.


At its core, bullying sends a damaging message: you don't belong, you aren't valued or you aren't worthy. When children hear those messages repeatedly, they often begin to believe them. Over time, bullying can erode self-esteem, contribute to anxiety and depression, increase feelings of isolation and impact a child's sense of safety and belonging. The consequences can follow a child far beyond the classroom and into adulthood.


From the perspective of a Children's Advocacy Center, it is important to recognize that bullying and trauma are often interconnected. Children who have experienced abuse, neglect, sexual assault, domestic violence or other traumatic events may be more likely to experience...


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Honoring Domestic Violence Awareness Month

To mark Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Bilingual Trauma Therapists, Valerie and Bianca created a special window display for our community by sharing information about domestic violence.


Please visit the Arlington Heights Memorial Library window display, located near the Hendrickson Room, from October 1 through October 30, 2026. We invite you to stop by, learn more and help us raise awareness about domestic violence and the resources available to those impacted by it.

Meet Genesis

Genesis Malaver is CAC's new Bilingual Family Advocate. Originally from Venezuela, she holds a degree in Clinical Psychology and brings a passion for supporting children and families through challenging times.


She has worked with children and families for several years and transitioned into the field of social work in 2022. Since then, she has found her calling, sharing that she immediately felt it was "the right path" for her.


Genesis was drawn to the CAC for the opportunity to build meaningful connections with individuals from diverse backgrounds and cultures while helping families access services and resources that promote their well-being and safety. She says that her role at the CAC allows her to continue growing professionally in a field that she finds both rewarding and impactful.

A PAW-some Milestone for Dora

We are thrilled to share that Dora, our Therapy-Dog-in-Training, has officially earned her certification and is now a Certified Therapy Dog!


This incredible milestone reflects the dedication, hard work and countless hours of training that Dora and her handler, Yesenia have invested throughout this journey. As a Certified Therapy Dog, Dora will continue providing comfort, support and a calming presence to the children and families we serve.


A very special congratulations to her handler and Bilingual Trauma Therapist, Yesenia. Your patience, commitment and unwavering dedication have been truly inspiring. We are so proud of all you and Dora have accomplished together and look forward to the positive impact you'll continue to make as a team!

In October we celebrate the anniversary of:

  • Grace Ording, Family Advocate, 4 years
 

Donor-Advised Funds Power Up Giving

DAF Day was October 8. This nationally recognized day brings awareness to a newer mode of giving from Donor-Advised Funds or DAFs. 


DAFs are:

  • Easy to establish.
  • Provide a tax benefit when you add cash and non-cash assets to the fund.
  • A simple way to give to the charities you love by directing a gift - the fund manager handles the transaction. 
  • A giving option for CAC donors! Cachelps.org/tax-smart-giving


New to DAFs or want to learn how to create one? Read more in this Get a DAF Guide (link to attached PDF) from Chariot, CAC's DAF partner through Free Will or contact development@cachelps.org with questions.

Financial Wellness Check-Up

Just like an annual wellness visit, your estate plan deserves a regular check-up. National Estate Planning Awareness Week October 19-25 is the perfect opportunity to review your beneficiaries, update your wishes and create or refresh your will. Learn more at freewill.com.


Considering a bequest to CAC? Learn more about our legacy society, Guardians of Hope, at cachelps.org/guardians-of-hope or contact Taylor Kanara at 847.744.5214 or tkanara@cachelps.org.

Herb Horn Memorial Golf Tournament Recap

On behalf of CAC's Board of Directors, staff and the Herb Horn Memorial Golf Tournament Planning Committee, we'd like to thank each and every golfer, sponsor, donor and volunteer.


Together we raised over $55,000 to advance CAC's work!


Your financial support is immediately reinvested into CAC's daily programs that provide free, expert services for young survivors of abuse or violence. By golfing for good and playing with purpose, you help children reclaim their childhoods and find hope for the future. What a powerful gift!

Save-the-Date for our Self-Care Summit

The Rooted & Rising Self-Care Summit is returning on February 19, 2027, at the Wojcik Conference Center at Harper Community College!


We’re excited to welcome back fan favorites Michael Rangel and Grounded Wellness, along with Alison Stoll as our keynote speaker. We’re also thrilled to introduce Becky Carter as a new breakout speaker.


Registration opens in November! Stay tuned for more details.

 

October 24

Spooktacular

CAC, Hoffman Estates


February 19, 2027

Rooted & Rising Self-Care Summit

Wojcik Conference Center at Harper Community College

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Volume 48 | October 2026