Volunteer Cuddler
Those who know Charlie see that the informal help is random, yet consistent, and often done with his wife Lisa. But it’s his formal role as a volunteer cuddler in Maine Medical Center’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) that elicits the strongest reaction when others find out about it. In fact, he says, his own reaction was so strong when he found about the existence of such a program that he inquired and applied for the position as soon as he heard about it.
“We had just visited my wife’s college roommate who had been a NICU nurse at Children’s Hospital in Boston. We were talking about the importance of touch with small children and she said how they used to really value their volunteer cuddlers. The next day, I called Maine Med and they were just rebooting their program after COVID, so my timing was good,” said Clement.
Charlie has been volunteering at the hospital one evening a week ever since and says it’s been extremely fulfilling. “Some of the babies have challenging medical conditions, some unfortunately are withdrawing from the effects of in utero exposure to harmful substances, and others were born prematurely and just need time to learn to live outside the womb,” he said.
Favorite Part of the Week
Despite the formality of this particular volunteer role, Clement said there was still an element of randomness to how it came to be. “Before that trip, I never knew volunteer cuddling was an actual thing. Now, it’s my favorite part of the week. It’s hard for me to imagine a more fulfilling volunteer gig,” he said.
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