Weekly Newsletter

May 8, 2025

10 Iyyar 5785 | Parshat Acharei Mot-Kedoshim

orshalomsf.org

415-469-5542

333 Cortland Ave, SF, CA 94110

Coming Up Soon...


Fri 5/9 6 PM

Welcoming Shabbat on Zoom

RSVP


Sat 5/10

Shabbat Morning Service

333 Cortland Ave

RSVP


Wed 5/14

Reconstructing Israel with R' Faryn

333 Cortland Ave

RSVP


Thu 5/15

Nosh & Learn with the SJC

333 Cortland Ave

RSVP


Fri 5/16

Shabbat Service & Potluck

NVM, 1021 Sanchez St


Sun 5/18

Teen Program

331 Cortland Ave

RSVP

Recurring Events


Kvetch & Kvell Club

2nd & 4th Mondays, 4 pm

Zoom link + KVETCH


Torah Study Zoominyan

Thursdays, 10 am

Zoom Link + THURSDAY

Explore our Calendar

Become a member

We have an updated COVID Policy! Read Our COVID Policy

2025 Community Retreat

Friday, June 13 - Sunday, June 15

Walker Creek Ranch, Petaluma


Over 50 people are already signed up for Or Shalom’s 2025 Community Retreat — and registration closes this Sunday, May 11.


Whether you’re coming solo, with a partner, or with family, this is a weekend to reconnect, recharge, and celebrate together.


We’ll gather in the beauty of nature to rest, sing, hike, learn, and mark Shabbat under the trees. With cozy lodge rooms, peaceful campsites, delicious meals, and dedicated programming for kids and teens, this retreat is open to everyone, and we’d love for you to be there.


First time attending?

Thanks to a generous anonymous donor, we’re offering up to $250 off per person for first-time attendees. This can fully cover two nights of camping or significantly reduce the cost of a cabin. Just check the “first-time attendee” box when you register. But hurry! The scholarship is running out! Contact office@orshalomsf.org for your discount code.


We’re also deeply grateful to these community members who contributed to the Retreat Scholarship Fund:


  • Anonymous
  • Debbie Benrubi
  • Stephen Gerard
  • Tala & Chester Hartsough
  • Robin Roth
  • Pat Skala & Corey Weinstein


Their generosity helps make this experience accessible to more of our community.


Need support?

Financial assistance is available to Or Shalom members — you can request support on the form, and contact Debbie Benrubi to talk through options.


Need help with carpooling, accessibility, or lodging preferences? Let us know in the form. Want to offer a workshop? There’s space for that too.


For more information and to register, click here. Questions? Email office@orshalomsf.org.

Upcoming Events

Welcoming Shabbat on Zoom

May 9, 6 - 7 PM


Join us for a Welcoming Shabbat led by Rabbi Faryn – a warm gathering filled with songs, candle lighting, healing blessings, the Mourners’ Kaddish, and Shabbat poetry. Embrace the spirit of Shabbat together, from the comfort of your home.


Zoom Link

PW: Shabbat


For this special Welcoming Shabbat on Zoom, Rabbi Faryn will be leading from the Kol Haneshama prayerbook.


(Our usual Zoom Siddur, or prayerbook, can be found here for for your reference.)


For more information click here.

Shabbat Morning Service

Saturday, May 10, 10 AM - 12:30 PM

331 Cortland Ave


Join Rabbi Faryn for intimate Shabbat morning services, where we will sing, pray, read from the Torah and learn together. We will be reading from a part of the Torah known as The Holiness Code, a long list of ethical obligations as to what we owe to each other in community.


Bring a vegetarian dish and reusable dishware for our post-service vegetarian potluck 12:30 – 1:30 pm.


For more information and to register, click here.

Shabbat Service & Potluck

Friday, May 16, 6 - 8:30 PM

Noe Valley Ministry, 1021 Sanchez St


Join us for lively musical services with R' Faryn and the Music Ensemble! Before our Shabbat service, join us for a Happy Half-Hour sponsored by Julie Minoff & Glen Marr, in honor of their daughter Natasha's high school graduation. Then enjoy Shabbat dinner with your fellow Or Shalomers. Bring a vegetarian dish to share and reusable dishware for our post-service potluck.


5:30 pm: Happy Half Hour

6:00 pm: Shabbat service

7:30 pm: Vegetarian potluck


Thank you to this week's Greeter Eala Gross and to our Closing Supporter Madeleine Levin! And a special shout out to Nathan Ladyzhensky for supplying a case of excellent wine for our kiddush!


 Accessibility Info: NVM is ADA accessible. 

Teen Program

Saturday, May 17, 6 PM - 8:30 PM

331 Cortland Ave


Join us for the final session of our Spring Teen Program pilot on Saturday, May 17, as we wrap up a season of learning, connection, and action. Together we’ll briefly reflect on what we’ve explored so far — from being Jewish in today’s world to showing up for justice — and spend the duration of the time designing what the future of the Teen Program will look like.


As always, we’ll mark the end of Shabbat with Havdalah, dig into meaningful conversation and planning, and enjoy plenty of time to just hang out, eat pizza, and be in community.


Whether you’ve been coming all along or this would be your first time, we’d love to see you there. This is your space to help shape what comes next.


For more information and to register, click here.

Adult Education

Reconstructing Israel with R' Faryn

Wednesdays, May 14 - May 21, 6:30 - 8:30 PM

331 Cortland Ave


Reconstructionism is not a set theology or doctrine, but rather a historical and analytical lens, an ongoing process, and an embodied practice. In this 8-week series, we’re applying that lens—what we call “Reconstructing”—to the concept of Israel. Is “Israel” a person? A people? A place? A nation-state? A state of mind?


Each week builds on the last, offering space to explore and wrestle with the evolving meaning of “Israel” through a Reconstructionist lens. Whether you're returning or joining for the first time, come ready to reflect, question, and engage in this dynamic process of reconstructing identity, history, and possibility.


For more information and to RSVP, click here.


❗Note: The final two classes, May 14 and May 21, will go for two hours, beginning at 6:30 PM instead of the usual 7 PM

Tikkun Olam Corner

Nosh & Learn & Lunch-Bag Making with the Southside Jewish Collaborative

May 15, 12:30 - 2 PM

331 Cortland Ave


Come to nosh, learn and make lunch bags for unhoused San Franciscans. Our teaching this month will be from our own R' Faryn at our home at 331 Cortland. The Southside Jewish Collaborative's Nosh & Program has been thriving for about ten years.


Accessibility Information: There are no stairs to enter this space.

National Day of Action for Health Care for All

Saturday, May 31, 11 AM - 1 PM

Harry Bridges Plaza, The Embarcadero


The Social Action Circle invites Or Shalomers to join us in a National Day of Action on May 31 to demand a not-for-profit, universal health care system to cover everyone in the United States. The rally starts at Harry Bridges Plaza at 11 AM. More information here.


Or Shalom, as a synagogue, has endorsed this concept for many years. See the

statement adopted by the board in 2018 here.


The day of action will bring people together locally and nationally from neighborhoods, unions, faith groups, businesses, and all types of civic organizations to join the demand to remove profit from health care, and make sure everyone has access to the care they need.


Contact Margo Freistadt or Betsy Strausberg for more information.

OS Chesed Circle

Click here to join.


Assist Or Shalom members with visits, rides and meals.

Questions? Email Madeleine at madelevin@gmail.com.

Community

JSSJ Summer Course: Disability and Jewish Social Justice

June 9-13 & June 22, 9 AM - 1 PM

Remote


Taught by Rabbi Julia Watts Belser, this course aims to help students deepen their capacity to create cultures of accessibility within Jewish social justice practice. We’ll bring classical Jewish texts into conversation with the lived experiences of contemporary disability activists to grapple with spiritual and political questions about access and equity, invisibility and shame, as well as practices for transforming social inequality.


We’ll hone skills for recognizing and resisting ableism, as well as for understanding the way ableism intersects with racism, antisemitism, misogyny, queer, trans, fat hatred, and more. We’ll also examine the contours of hegemonic norms around decorum and behavior, pace and time, and physical and sensory access—and consider ways to transform our religious communities and cultural spaces so that they more fully welcome the vivid, complex diversity of all our bodies and minds.


Open to All—No USF Enrollment Required. Registration closes May 23. For more information about the course, including links to register, click here.

Or Shalom Bulletin

Join the Kvetch and Kvell Club

Every Second & Fourth Monday, 4 PM

via Zoom


Every second and fourth Monday of the month, at 4 PM there is a gathering for Or Shalomers who want to hang out and chat while doing some kind of handwork. Men and women are welcome, and any kind of project is encouraged, including no project. Current members do costume design, quilting, embroidery, and knitting, but, in this day and age, addressing or writing postcards would be an ideal addition, along with painting, sketching, crosswords and sudoku. Any woodcarvers out there?


4 PM on a weekday is not an ideal time for anyone who works, but the meeting time could be revised to an evening if enough people would prefer that.


Interested in joining? Send a request to join our new Google Group for reminders from our moderator Beth Mills, or simply drop in the Zoom at the designated time, always listed in the purple sidebar in the newsletter. For any other questions, feel free to email Beth.

Shabbat Day of Unplugging

May 30


Join Or Shalom for the Shabbat Day of Unplugging on May 30 - 31!

In today's constantly connected world, when was the last time your family truly unplugged? Join us and other Jewish organizations from around the Bay Area to experience the transformative power of setting aside your devices for one Shabbat.


What you'll gain:

• Precious downtime away from work pressures

• Screen-free quality time with your kids

• Opportunities to create meaningful rituals and to connect with other families

• A free Shabbat kit for your family and a “sleeping bag” for your phone!


All we ask is your pledge to intentionally unplug and turn Shabbat time into family time. This one Shabbat could spark lifelong rituals!


👉Visit jfcs.org/unplugging-2025 to join the challenge.

Or Shalom Mobile App Relaunch! Stay Connected on the Go

We’re excited to announce the relaunch of the Or Shalom Mobile App! Now, staying connected with our community is easier than ever. With the app, you can access the member directory, stay up to date with events and prayer times, and find helpful links to our WhatsApp, Facebook, and Instagram


How to get started:

  1. Search for ShulCloud Mobile Member App in the iOS App Store or Google Play Store.
  2. Download and install the app.
  3. Log in with your Or Shalom credentials—our logo will appear automatically!


Experience Or Shalom at your fingertips! Download the app today and stay connected wherever you are.

Schedule a one-on-one with R' Faryn by clicking here

Tzedakah

We gratefully acknowledge these contributions from our community:

When making a donation online, please be sure to specify where to allocate.


Tala & Chester Hartsough, dedicated to the healing of Carl Magruder

Hilton Obenzinger, in memory of Paul Auster

Jurate Raulinaitis & Kirk Schneider, in honor of Irena Raulinaitis

Robin Roth, in memory of Gertrude Roth

Wendy Thurm & David Greene, in memory of Milton Thurm

Allan Pleaner, in memory of Elec Klein

Rachelle Resnick, in memory of Jerome Muchin

Leslie Roffman & Bob Goodwin, in memory of Leonard Roffman

Gail & Ron Gurewitz, in honor of Or Shalom

Chad & Kathy Balch, in memory of Frank Pagano 

Yahrzeits

On the anniversary of their deaths, we remember:

Bruce Balch, Samuel S Bisnovich, Hill Boss, Elizabeth Krauss Banning, Ethan Fox, Beverly Halm, Joe Hammel, Daniel Jacoff, Allen Johnson, Mort Levy, Alice LeWitter, Pinchas Olech, Alex Reisman, Chris White.

Or Shalom Jewish Community

(415) 469-5542

Lisa Garbus, Board President

Rabbi Faryn Borella, Rabbi

Lillian Markind,Executive Director

Zachary Libow, Membership Coordinator

Sarah Moss Yanuck, Youth & Family Education

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* Events marked with an asterisk are held at 333 Cortland Ave which requires climbing 21 steps to access. If this poses a barrier to entry for you, please email rabbifaryn@orshalomsf.org with at least 5 days notice. Read our full accessibility notice here.