Hello Todd,


This is way too long in coming, I know. I apologize for no updates since March, but God is so good, and he's growing my ministry of helping couples create "Til Death Do They Part" Marriages!


I am still as locked in as ever helping couples and men to become the best versions of themselves and getting them to where they want to be personally, relationally, and spiritually!


It is my hope and prayer that you will take a few minutes to read through this newsletter to find valuable tools and resources which will help you personally and relationally in your marriages.


Please watch my short video update below to hear a quick message from me.


Thank you, Todd

My Monthly Video Announcement!

Marriage Tip #1


As we seek to restore and build our relationship with our spouse, ultimately we must first build our relationship with the Lord. We must remember that He is God and only He transforms hearts. He is the only one who can ultimately transform our heart or our spouse's heart. We must keep in step with Him, walk with Him and listen; carefully obey His Word and ask Him to teach us how to love Him and love our spouse.


That is the goal of this plan. It is not something you can accomplish by sheer force of will in your own strength. You must be careful not to be results-oriented. Keep your eyes and your heart fixed on God and leave all of the results up to Him to accomplish in His own way and in His own time. He is sovereign and in complete control of every moment of every day. Trust Him. He knows what He is doing. Do you believe that God is all you need? Do you believe that He is the only one that can transform your marriage?


Give yourself and your marriage to the Lord. Walk forward by faith believing that the same power that raised Christ from the dead is at work in you. Say no to your sin and turn toward Christ. Step forward in obedience entrusting it all to Him: daily, intentionally, deliberately, obediently, sacrificially, faithfully, and humbly. DO the dos and DON'T do the don'ts.


DO:

1. Turn your eyes to Jesus.

2. Thank the Lord and praise Him.

3. Take ten to twenty minutes with the Lord in His Word.

4. Take every thought captive.

5. Treat your spouse as more important than yourself.


DON'T:

1. Don't correct your spouse.

2. Don't complain to them, around them, or about them.

3. Don't make comments.

4. Don't control.

5. Don't criticize.


"Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think." - Ephesians 3:20 NLT


Dos and Don'ts: A One-Week Plan to Help Your Marriage


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34 - 5 Star Reviews!


Premarital with Todd was everything that we hoped for. He is such a kind and pleasant man that is well grounded in the word of God. We thoroughly enjoyed listening to his real life experiences and relationship with his wife. I would recommend his services to anyone!

I'm excited to share that we've grown to 35 - "5 Star Reviews!" God is good!!

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Finding good resources to enrich and grow your marriage can be hard. You don't have the time, you don't know what you can trust, or you simply can't remember to do it and make it a priority.


Well, do I have the thing for you! Check out all of my Marriage Resources at my website by clicking on the button below. This list grows and is added to all the time, so be sure to bookmark it for future reference. When you are looking for something to study with your spouse, go no further than to this page. You will find books, podcasts, devotionals, web articles, and more.

Great Marriage Resources

Do you know someone getting married this year?


If so, please consider letting them know about my premarital counseling services. I take couples through an eight session process of teaching them everything they need to know to create a "til death do they part" marriage relationship. They can learn more at my website or you could forward them a copy of this link which is my electronic business card. See what other couples are saying that have worked with me.

Marriage Tip #2:

Dawn and Travis are good friends; I servce alongside them in our church. They also have a passion for marriages much like mine and I would love it if you would consider subscribing to their Marriage Podcast.


The Loving The Fight Marriage Podcast is a simple ongoing conversation between Travis and Dawn Rosinger as they share practical ways couples can strengthen their marriage for a lifetime of love. The Loving The Fight Marriage Podcast is an opportunity for couples to be encouraged in their marriage and be encouraged to fight for love. Hosts Travis and Dawn Rosinger spend time talking about marriage topics relevant to couples in the areas of growing intimacy, conflict resolution, spiritual growth, building relational equity, utilizing clear communication, financial stability, goal planning, and much more.


Here's the most recent one to listen to at this link and then be sure to subscribe to stay up to date.

Marriage Tip #3:

Join me, Todd LaVine, and my wife, Jodi LaVine, in our respective Men's and Women's only devotionals on the YouVersion Bible App.


I have been leading this men's group for 3-4 years. You can count on anywhere from 30-50 guys being in any one devotional at a time. What is great about these is you don't have to join every single one (although, why not?) and you can remain as anonymous as you want to be. Nobody will ever know you're there unless you leave a comment in the comments area.


Jodi started her about 4-5 months ago and the women are loving it! I get comments all the time from the wives of couples as to just how much they are enjoying it. Hers, like mine, runs around 25-30 women and you can remain as anonymous as you like.


Simply "FRIEND" us on YouVersion and we'll invite you into the devotional that we're currently in. Just search Todd LaVine or Jodi LaVine and look for the icons you see in the image above. Download the app from your app store if you don't already have it.

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