JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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April 11, 2023

20 Nisan 5783



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Kol Hamoed - The inbetween days of Passover

A PASSOVER MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

In the Traditional Haggadah, right after the Four Questions, we begin telling the story of our departure from the Land of Egypt.


Avadeem Hayeenu L’Pharaoh B’Mitzrayim:

We were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt….And if the Holy One, blessed be He, had not taken our ancestors out of Egypt, we, our children, and our children’s children would be subjugated to Pharaoh.


Thus we begin the Seder as slaves and recognize that, but for Gods beneficence, we would still be slaves. To highlight that we are acting in a real-life play, later we are told: “B’Chol Dor Vahdor”: “In every generation one is required to see oneself as if he/she had gone out of Egypt.” 


The fact that we are told to act as if we are slaves, leads to a frequent question. What are our “Mitzrayims”, what are the things that we are slaves to? This can lead to important reflection, conversation, introspection, and perhaps, a deeper understanding of the world in which we live.


Importantly, by the end of the Seder, we are redeemed from slavery and we sing out in joy: “L’Shana Haba’ah B’Yerushalayim!” (Next year in Jerusalem!”) We are free and we are hopeful about what is to come.


So, if in the beginning we talk about our “Mitzrayims”, those things to which we are slaves and that bring us sorrow, it is only fitting that at the end we should talk about our “Yerushalyims”, those things for which we are joyful. We should thus pose the question: “Now that I am free, what will I do with my freedom?” And of course we should dance and sing.


I would love to know about your Yerushalayims; what makes you feel free? what makes you feel joy? What makes you smile and feel contentment? Email and let me know.


Don’t forget to join us for services the last two days of Passover! Services will be in person and on Zoom on Wednesday and Thursday mornings, April 12 and 13, 2023 at 10:00 AM. Thursday’s services will include a Yizkor service which should start at around 11:30. Check the Shabbat Reminder and the JCC website for additional service times.


I look forward to hearing from you and seeing you!


Chag Sameach and Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

PASSOVER OFFICE HOURS

OFFICE CLOSED


Wednesday and Thursday, April 12 & 13  Passover Day 7 and 8


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YOM HASHOAH

Tuesday, April 18th

PASSOVER

Candle Lighting time


6th Night of Pesach Tuesday

April 11 7:12 PM

7th Night of Pesach

Wednesday

April 12 8:22 PM

(So. Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

PASSOVER SERVICES


Wednesday, April 12

10:00 AM

Priestly Blessing

Join our congregant, Stu Lehrer, as he explains the custom and how to perform the mitzvah


Thursday, April 13

10:00 AM

.Yizkor

at 11:30 AM


ALL SERVICES ARE IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM



Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

PASSOVER


Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

April 14, 2023

7:15 pm

(So. Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


Friday night

April 14. 2023

7:30 PM

IN PERSON & ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday Morning

April 15, 2023

9:00 AM

IN PERSON & ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Shmini

Leviticus 9:1-11:47

Here is the Reading

PARSHAH



HAFTORAH

II Samuel 6:1-7:17

Here is the Haftorah

HAFTORAH

HAVDALLAH

Saturday evening

8:00 PM

Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

HAVDALLAH


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

4/13 HAVDALLAH

8:00 pm

Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

NO SERVICE 4/12 & 4/13

Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

April 16

Virtual Tour of Yad Vashem


April 19

WAX Book Review


April 22

Bat Mitzvah of Eliana (Ellie) Braun


April 27

PJP Jewish History Series

Final Program


April 28/39

Aufruf of Samantha Jay & Reid Title

May 6

Adult Bat Mitzvah of Irene Babst, Deb Levy and Ina Morgenthal


May 17

WAX Book Review

May 26 and 27

PICKLEBALL

SUNDAY & THURSDAY

AT 10:00 AM

NO PICKLEBALL

THURSDAY 4/13

 THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


MAH JONGG & CLASSES CANCELLED FOR THIS WEEK

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AERIAL VIEW OF YAD VASHEM

CLICK HERE FOR VIRTUAL TOUR OF YAD VASHEM

NEXT and last JEWISH HISTORY PROGRAM APRIL 27 , 2023

AT 8:30 PM

"Awake My People: Anti-Semitism and the Jewish Encounter with Modernity."

HERE IS THE LINK TO JOIN THE PROGRAM


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
Wednesday, April 19th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: TBA
Defending Britta Stein By Ronald Balson

Chicago, 2018: Ole Henryks, a popular restauranteur, is set to be honored by the Danish/American Association for his many civic and charitable contributions. Frequently appearing on local TV, he is well known for his actions in Nazi-occupied Denmark during World War II—most consider him a hero. Britta Stein, however, does not. The ninety-year-old Chicago woman levels public accusations against Henryks by spray-painting “Coward,” “Traitor,” “Collaborator,” and “War Criminal” on the walls of his restaurant. Mrs. Stein is ultimately taken into custody and charged with criminal defacement of property. She also becomes the target of a bitter lawsuit filed by Henryks and his son, accusing her of defamation and intentional infliction of emotional distress. Attorney Catherine Lockhart, though hesitant at first, agrees to take up Mrs. Stein's defense. With the help of her investigator husband, Liam Taggart, Lockhart must reach back into wartime Denmark and locate evidence that proves Mrs. Stein's innocence.

ORDER YOUR BOOK FROM AMAZON AND START READING TODAY
Click here to order Defending Brita Stein. 

Click here to borrow the book from the Ocean County Library. 
RSVP to Debby Schweighardt, Book Group Coordinator at: dschweig19@gmail.com

FUTURE BOOKS
Shanda: A Memoir of Shame and Secrecy
By Letty Cottin Pogrebin

My Mother’s Secret: A Novel of the Jewish Autonomous Region
By Alina Adams

Wednesday, July 19th
Signal Fires
By Dani Shapiro

Wednesday, August 16th
Rebel Daughter
By Lori Banov Kaufmann

A Zoom link will be sent shortly before the event.
CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening

Geraldine Isanuk

Barbara Sher*

Marian Selsky*

Sydell Sussman

Ben Weisberger

Raleigh Liebenberg

Bill Sisenwine

Kurt Albu

Dora Haber

Raphael Haber

Anna Schwartz

David Weinstein

Mae Hirschorn Cohen*

Morris Ross

Calvert I. Waranch*

Ruth Brasch

George Foosaner

Alfred David Frumkin

Ruth Goldman*

Matilda Tubis

Izzy Ungar

Marvin Einhorn

Larry Holt

Audrey Konwiser

Evelyn Miller*

Jennie Shapiro

 *Memorial plaque will be lit this week.


In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

EVENING SERVICE
MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Arthur Abramowitz

April 15

Gail Meltzer

April 15

Donald Pripstein

April 15

Viki Pashman

April 16

Sandy Slotnick

April 16

Hedda Chairnoff

April 17

Suzanne Geier

April 17

Allan “Jake” Weinberg

April 17

Martin Weinberg

April 18

Michael Babst

April 20

Naomi Koller Fishman

April 20

Alison Friedman

April 20

Ellen Oxfeld

April 21

 


DON IS GOING TO BE 90 YEARS YOUNG APRIL 15TH

Join us for a special salute to Don Pripstein on his 90th birthday on Friday morning 4/14 following morning serivces.

Services: 8:15 am

Salute to Don: 9:00 am

HERE IS THE LINK TO JOIN

A STANDING O to Ryan & Connor Donovan, sons of Judy Nelson & Jim Donovan, grandsons of Marsha & Mort Nelson z"l, who were inducted into the JCC of Philadelphia Maccabi Hall of Fame.

HAZZAN SARA & LEON GELLER

on the birth of their grandson

Abraham “Avi” Ailun Geller-FU

to Ruth Geller & Jack Fu


CLICK ON THIS TO READ MORE ABOUT BABY AVI 

HERE IS THE LINK TO JOIN

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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

COMMUNITY HAPPENINGS

SHOWING OF THE NEW DOCUMENTARY DEPICTING
THE FIRST SUCCESSFUL FARMING COLONY IN AMERICA

The Alliance Colony was a social experiment. Forty-three Jewish families fleeing Russian persecution arrived in the desolate fields of the southern Pine Barrens in 1882. They formed an agricultural collective. Twenty-five years later, a bustling population of 1,000 Jews had harnessed the land and built a bountiful legacy that lives on today.

Stockton University
Sunday, April 16 at 12:30 PM
Showing of the Film Free of Charge

This is a three day event including dinner and tour.

SEE DETAILS BELOW
TICKET INFORMATION AND RESERVATIONS
ALLIANCE PRESS RELEASE
YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst
Contributing Columnist
Sheila Weisel