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Helping Our Children Transition
from Summer to School
Going back to school requires a shift for us of involved, children, teens, parents, and teachers.
I taught parenting skills decades ago when I was an elementary school guidance counselor. Some of the key points are helping children make decisions and understanding the consequences of their actions.
Here are some steps that helped me as a parent when I was raising my daughter.
•We talked about feelings and I would listen.
• We discussed why decisions were made when they were in question
•I followed “say yes to the person, no to the situation.” Meaning respect the child and let them know they are valued while saying no to whatever the situation or behavior
With the leisure time of summer ending as we go into the fall months, our children can begin to feel anxious about the schedules and pressure of going back to school.
When we approach learning with curiosity, we are motivated to get the information. It enriches our life and expands our horizons. As the school year begins, we can talk to our children and teens about what excites them, what subjects they really enjoy and how they can hone their skills in that area. As for the subjects they don’t like or excel at, that is also a learning experience that can instill confidence when they can accept the challenge and grow from it.
An example in my own life is mastering computer skills and technology which is essential in my media and training work. This is one of my greatest accomplishments because it doesn’t come naturally and I have stayed with it and now try to figure things out on my own before asking for help. This has given me confidence.
It is all a learning and growth experience and if we can help our children understand that, we can help them to enjoy more as they learn.
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