Dear Pep Talkers...
The house is quiet. Even the dog has given up barking, retreating to sleep in the bathroom on the cool tile. My 24-year-old son Colin moved out yesterday, with noise, bluster and a load of laundry left in the dryer. After two years of a pandemic boarding house vibe at our place, it’s my husband and me and the dog again. And quiet.
I was more emotional than I thought, seeing him haul the furniture from his childhood bedroom out my front door. And the bar cart we got him for Christmas 2021. It took longer than we planned (hence the late Pep Talk.) But he’s settled into an apartment with a school friend not too far from us, but a world away.
He could not be more excited to be launched (finally) after the thud that was Graduation 2020. How do I know? Because on our Target run yesterday to buy a new shower curtain, he must have said about twenty times, “I’m excited!” I honestly don’t think he’s been excited about anything since March 2020. I’m excited he’s excited. And a touch weepy.
From my Facebook feed, lots of parents were dropping off kids at college this week. I hope everyone has a smooth and healthy transition. It’s okay to be weepy, but once you stop crying, don’t forget to enjoy the quiet.
Cheers...
Lian Dolan
Pasadena, California