A short while ago, my primary care doctor, Tom, retired and closed his family practice that he took over from his dad many years ago. I never realized how good I had it with him as my doctor until I began looking for a new doctor at these large medical centers. My wife referred me to Tom, and I saw him for about 18 years. Along with Tom knowing my health history and a strong understanding of what works for me, he knew my professional and personal life and how that contributed to my health. As our relationship grew, Tom began feeling more like a family member than my doctor, and I knew I could trust him to have my best interest at heart. Now, I have to start over, and I feel like I have to manage my health care and tell them what I need.