“People miss a … time when a [phone] call meant something,” a man recently told the New York Times, “When you planned it and you thought about it, and you took a deep breath and you put your quarter in.”
The comment was prompted by the removal of the last public pay phone in New York City. That event also prompted some
helpful reflections by Melissa Kirsch, a writer for the
Times. Kirsch notes how different our world is from the world (that many of us still remember) “when long-distance was a consideration and people on calls in public got their own private booths.”
Kirsch’s main point is to call us away from multi-tasking on our smart phones to focus, truly focus, on one thing at a time. So often, with our smart phones, she writes, “We may be physically present, but we’re never really there.”
Whatever the faith tradition, the heart of spiritual practice is simply being there, present in the moment: mindful of the light around us, the sound or the silence, the presence of others or our solitude. Paying attention to our own breathing, to the tension or minor pains in our muscles, helps us unclutter our minds and pay attention to our spirit and, yes, even The Spirit.
Yet how often are we fully present? Even as I write this, I have other windows open on the computer, while pop-up alerts vie for my attention. Maybe Jesus was right, those many years ago, when he said that when you pray you should go into your room (KJV: “closet”) and shut the door (Mt. 6:6).
A phone booth would do: close the door, take a deep breath, drop in the quarter, and pay attention.
-- Bill