Thursday, January 1, 2026


What’s New for You?


  • Making that quick update to our Constitution
  • Serving others in 2026
  • The AV Team needs you!
  • Mark your calendars! February 8 is also PLC’s “Souper Bowl.”
  • Many thanks and farewell!
  • Navigating the Pressure update
  • Heroes and Villains of the Bible
  • Parent Pro Tip
  • Super Quick Bible Study

Happy New Year, Pilgrims, and Joyous 8th Day of Christmas!


I’m celebrating this second half of the Christmas season at one of my happy places at the Disney Resort on Hilton Head Island, where my family has been vacationing since 1998. On New Year’s Eve, we’ll be joined by young friends from Pennsylvania. I hope you’re enjoying some holiday lollygagging as well!


But just so I don’t get churchwork withdrawal, I’ll be meeting with the Stewardship Team at my former interim church of Christ Lutheran here, which is right across the street from where I’m staying. I’ll be their Stewardship Speaker for their campaign kick-off on Sunday, January 18. 


While it is a big holiday today, I hope you’ll take good note of the announcements and information in this edition before Sunday. And before we depart from this Advent and Christmas season, I want to say another big thank you to Susan Cafferty, Ruthie Brannen, all our choirs, instrumentalists, and our Advent dancer, who worked together to provide us with an amazing season filled with rich worship. 


A continued Merry Christmas, everyone!

Pastor Mary

Enjoy these sweet moments from Tilman Schwabe’s Baptism this past Sunday

Council President’s Page

Mary Beth Hill


Making that quick update to our Constitution


As you remember, we held two information sessions for the congregation at the end of 2025 (November 30 and December 7), where we discussed our 2026 Ministry Plan (budget) and the need to revise our Constitution to proceed with our Church Council elections.


We also included information in several weeks of Pilgrim’s Progress, our weekly newsletter.


We will meet again.


We scheduled another congregation meeting for January 11, 2026, after Worship. Giving our congregation the same 30-day period to consider the Constitution change before voting. 


As you remember, the changes to the constitution recommended by your Council involve amending section (Chapter 12.01 and 12.02) dealing with council elections.


Since we’ve already had those information sessions about the budget and the constitution and included information in issues of Pilgrim’s Progress and in special issue emails, we will not hold more information sessions. However, let’s review this once more.


As you know, Pilgrim Lutheran Church’s Congregation (Church) Council currently consists of Pastor Mary Anderson, Treasurer Wade Miles, Congregational President/Council Chair Mary Beth Hill, Vice President Jimmy Smith, and Members Keith Galloway, Melissa Hendrix, Joe Kaminer, Jennifer Schwabe, Kathleen Shutt, and Wally Steinhauser (making not more than 13 members).


Joe Kaminer has two more years remaining on his term, while Wally Steinhauser has one more year remaining on his term. Keith, Melissa, Jennifer, Jimmy, and Mary Beth Hill were elected in 2022. Kathleen was elected in 2024 to finish out someone else’s term. According to our current constitution, we would ordinarily roll off and be ineligible to run again for two years.


However, because finding individuals who feel called to serve has not been successful, we are in a situation we do not believe is good for Pilgrim. We believe a council of four is too small to provide a fair representation of the members and, quite frankly, to finish the work we have begun (eliminating the mortgage; positioning the congregation to enter the call process with more stability, financial strength, and focused mission; renewing trust in our congregational leadership, developing new leaders in the congregation, developing a deeper culture of hospitality, finishing out our new constitution process, welcoming new members, and deepening our relationships with the Lexington community, Mission Lexington, the SC Synod, and our churchwide partners).


In the past, when this has happened, members of the council and even the president/council chair have been allowed to continue for another year of service or another term — even though our constitution currently requires that break in service.


After studying this in depth, Pastor Mary Anderson and Mary Beth Hill reached out to Pastor Ozzie Herlong in the SC Synod for advice. Pastor Herlong reached out to the ELCA. Then, they shared their collective wisdom and advice with us.


Your Council considered their advice, the changing church, and some things that seem to hold people back from serving on council, and we came to this. We believe that the three-year commitment holds some people back. Also, Pastor Mary notes that after COVID, many people returned to in-church attendance across many churches, but not to in-church leadership positions.


We recommend that we change one paragraph in our constitution to a paragraph (C12.01) recommended by the ELCA in their 2025 (August) Model Constitution. This new change in Chapter 12 will allow members to remain on Council until their successors are elected, and allow us to shorten the term of council members to two years.


To clarify, C12.01 and C12.02 in our current constitution state this.


C12.01 The voting membership of the Congregation Council shall consist of the pastor(s) and not more than 13 members of the congregation. Any voting member of this congregation may be elected, subject only to the limitation on the length of continuous service permitted in that office. A member’s place on the Congregation Council shall be declared vacant if the member a)ceases to be a voting member of this congregation or b) is absent from four successive regular meetings of the Congregation Council without cause. Consistent with the laws of the state in which this congregation is incorporated, this congregation may adopt procedures for the removal of a member of the Congregation Council in other circumstances.


C12.02 The members of the Congregation Council, except the pastor, shall be elected by written ballot to serve for three (3) years. Members shall not be eligible for reelection to the council until a period of two (2) years has elapsed since their term of office ended. The term of office for a council member shall begin on January 1 and end on December 31 of the appropriate year. Newly elected Congregation Council members shall be installed at a worship service prior to assuming office.


C12.01 and C12.02 in the (08-2025) MODEL CONSTITUTION FOR CONGREGATIONS, with our revisions, would state this.


C12.01 The voting membership of the Congregation Council shall consist of the pastor(s), [the deacon(s),], [the officers of this congregation,] and [ _ members] [not more than _ nor fewer than_ members] of this congregation, at least one of whom shall be a youth and at least one of whom shall be a young adult. Any voting member of this congregation may be elected, subject only to the limitation on the length of continuous service permitted in that office. A member’s place on the Congregation Council shall be declared vacant if the member a) ceases to be a voting member of this congregation or b) is absent from four successive regular meetings of the Congregation Council without cause. Consistent with the laws of the state in which this congregation is incorporated, this congregation may adopt procedures for the removal of a member of the Congregation Council in other circumstances.


C12.02 The members of the Congregation Council, except the pastor(s) [and deacon(s)] shall be elected by written ballot to serve for 2 years or until their successors are elected. Such members shall be eligible to serve no more than two full terms consecutively. Their terms shall begin at the close of the annual meeting at which they are elected.


As you see, the change we recommend would also enable the members who agree to stay one more year (Melissa Hendrix, Jennifer Schwabe, Kathleen Shutt, and Mary Beth Hill) the ability to do so.


Wondering about Keith Galloway and Jimmy Smith? Keith still feels called to lead the Property Team but would like to do that outside of council, and Jimmy feels called to continue to lead other ministries but would also like to do that outside of council.


Your council believes that continuity is vital. This council has accomplished almost all its goals, including eliminating the mortgage, and we want to finish. We also do not want to leave Joe and Wally with only two new council members, as we’ve learned that staying organized and on track throughout the year takes all of us working closely together.


This council works very well together and has the experience to not only accomplish our goals but also to complete preparations to begin a full-time pastor search in 2026.


Finally, some people believe they will be ready to join the council next year but are not quite ready this year. We hope the change to a two-year term will give them the initiative to do that.


Once this process is completed, we will put together a ballot for council elections and another Constitution Committee in 2026 to make the other changes required in the (08-2025) MODEL CONSTITUTION FOR CONGREGATIONS and to incorporate some information from the current by-laws to the Constitution, if needed. We do not want to fall behind on our Constitution changes again.

Serving others in 2026


As we prepare for our worship services in 2026 by placing the names of our congregation members who volunteer to serve on our calendar, I am reminded of a quote from Martin Luther King Jr.: “Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others?”


So many people do for others each Sunday. Did you know that Linda Corley prepares communion and lines up the communion assistants each week, that Keith Galloway sets up all of the AV needed and leads the AV Team, that our many choirs (bells, choir, praise band) and our Music Director Susan Cafferty practice on Wednesday evenings each week, and that our musicians Ruthie Brannen, Carol Murray (cello), Wade Miles (bass), Art De Gennaro (drums) and Delores Steinhauser (flute) practice all the time?


If you’ve considered volunteering as they do or as a worship assistant, usher, communion assistant, or offering counter on Sundays, we can use you. Just let us know!

The AV Team needs you!


Keith Galloway, who leads the AV Team, is looking for volunteers to help on Sundays. They need folks willing to run the camera at the back of the church during the service, to change the slides on the screen during the service, to prepare the slides each week, etc. 


He promises that it is not complicated. I promise that the folks already volunteering are a great group and lots of fun.


If you are curious about these opportunities, please reach out to Keith. Thanks!

It’s been chilly! But, let’s talk CHILI.


A bright Golden Ladle hangs on the wall just inside the Narthex. Last year, the Golden Ladle honor went to Becky Wingard for her outstanding chili. 


Who will take that honor on Super Bowl Sunday, February 8? Will Becky repeat? Or, will another PLC member intercept that award with their stupendous chili moves?


Just bring a crockpot or other container of your homemade chili for the congregation to sample!


Mark your calendars! February 8 is also our PLC’s “Souper Bowl.” 


We will be gathering cans of soup and other substantial foods for our PLC Food Pantry in the weeks leading up to February 8.


Get your competitive spirit on!

Many Thanks and Farewell!


This Sunday, January 4, we will celebrate the Festival of the Epiphany and will bid godspeed and farewell to Ruthie Brannen, who has served us faithfully and fully as our accompanist for almost two years. We’ll have a celebratory cake during Hospitality time and hope you will be able to stay and give Ruthie your thanks.

Navigating the Pressure Update

Our Navigating Team has worked very hard on our mission prototype to “Help Kids Thrive in a Stressed-Out World” since this past Spring. We’ve held two nature-focused events for teenagers and two events for adults, making use of guest speakers from Seattle and Chicago.


The very nature of the prototype model is that it is an opportunity to try something new with the knowledge that it might not be successful, but that it is a great opportunity to learn quickly, pivot fast, and move on to another strategy.


The other prototype goal is to spend as little money from your investors as possible. Our financial investors are the ELCA, the SC Synod, and Jill Smith and Associates in Columbia and Lexington. They are all pleased with the work we have done and encourage us to continue. 


After evaluating where we’ve been and how much impact we’ve had on the growing issue of teen stress, depression, and anxiety, we’re shifting our strategy for the next event that was planned for January 25. 


Instead of an in-person event with a guest speaker and panelists, we listened to parents and the community and decided to communicate the issues before us and offer our expert advice in a different way. We will be inviting our current team of experts, whom we now have through our past work, to make short videos and allow us to share them through our communication tools, mainly through Instagram, which is the preferred way of quick learning among young parents and teens. So, on we go! Stay tuned!

Heroes and Villains of the Bible

A New Bible Study Adventure!

Hero and Villain characters are big with Disney these days and have always been big in the Bible. Join us for a Dutch Treat dinner at O’Hara's in a private space in this popular restaurant in Lexington. 


Pastor Mary will teach us about several significant Biblical heroes in January and several villains in March to expand our repertoire of scriptural characters. For fun, participants are encouraged (but hardly required) to wear a costume reflecting a favorite hero or villain from Disney, Marvel, Star Wars, history, literature, TV, movies, and more. Because seating is limited, this will be an event just for teens and adults.  


  • January 30 at 6:30 p.m. for Heroes of the Bible
  • March 27 at 6:30 p.m. for Villains of the Bible


O’Hara's Restaurant, 131 E. Main St., Lexington, SC 29072


Hero and Villain costumes encouraged!


Click here to RSVP. Seats are limited!

Here’s a tip for all households! As we like to naggingly remind folks, Christmas isn’t one day, but a full Twelve Days of Christmas from December 25 to January 5. Consider a 12th Night Celebration on January 5 with family and friends. 


January 6 is the ancient observance of the coming of the Magi or Wise Men to visit Baby Jesus. It’s called Epiphany. The story in Matthew 2 tells us that they had to travel “from the East” to get there, so they didn’t arrive on Jesus’ birthday. While no names of these visitors from the East are given in the Bible, church tradition has named them “Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar.”


A great old tradition, whether you have children in the house or not, is to do the Epiphany Blessing of Home. Use chalk on the door frame of your house or on the sidewalk to bless your home for the new year. The initials of the Magi and the numbers of the new year are written this way:


20 + C + M + B + 26


Pause and pray together: Bless our house, our family, and everyone around the world in this New Year. Amen!

Super Quick Bible Study

Pastor Mary Anderson has published her newest Super Quick Bible Study. These short, faith-filled reflections are perfect for carpool lines, lunch breaks, or quiet moments when you need a reminder of God’s love. Read it here.

Stay updated with Lutheran publications

Click here to read the latest edition of the ELCA Seeds Monthly emailed newsletter.

If you’re looking for inspiring stories and updates about the ELCA and happenings around the world, be sure to check out the Living Lutheran magazine. Just click here.

If you’d like to stay connected with what’s going on in South Carolina, don’t miss the weekly newsletter from the South Carolina Synod, the Lutheran Living in South Carolina eNews. Just click here to read it. Enjoy!

How Can I Give to Pilgrim?

We offer multiple ways to give that make supporting us easy and convenient. You can give in person, visit us online at www.wearepilgrim.com, send your donation by mail to Pilgrim Lutheran Church, 1430 N. Lake Drive, Lexington, SC 29072, or set up recurring giving with Simply Giving, our electronic automatic giving.


As you think about your contributions, please consider electronic giving. It’s simple, reliable, and helps us plan better for the future. With Simply Giving, your donation is ready to go for our ministry needs right away, and it also involves fewer fees than online credit card donations.

Worship Service Volunteers, please read!


You can view the 2026 list of Worship Volunteers in the schedule here. It is currently a work in progress. If the column is colored, it is finished. If you notice an error or suspect a conflict, please notify us. We need your help keeping up with them.


Remember, if you can’t cover your assigned job, please find someone to take your place. If you ask, other volunteers will swap weeks with you. Then, once you’ve found someone to take your place, call Courtney Coker in the office, and she can make those needed changes online, in Pilgrim’s Progress, and in the Sunday Bulletin.


January 4, 2026, 10 a.m.

Worship Assistant — Jamy Claire Archer

Ushers — Jimmy Smith and David Marshall

Communion Assistants — Ricky and Becky Wingard

Counters — Jamie Kosanka and Scott Grosse

Hospitality Table — Volunteer Needed

Children’s Time — Jackie Kaminer and Sheila McCullough


January 11, 2026, 10 a.m.

Worship Assistant — Kathy Boivin

Ushers — Don and Jamie Kosanka

Communion Assistants — Todd Hendrix and Mary Beth Hill

Counters — Melissa Hendrix and Wally Steinhauser

Hospitality Table — Angie and Jimmy Smith

Children’s Time — Allison Hallman and Volunteer Needed


January 18, 2026, 10 a.m.

Worship Assistant — Kristin Dashiell

Ushers — Scott Grosse and Brenda Sommer

Communion Assistants — Carl and Debra Richardson

Counters — Todd Hendrix and Don Kosanka

Hospitality Table — Linda Corley

Children’s Time — Ryan Mears and Lou Galloway


January 25, 2026, 10 a.m.

Worship Assistant — Lou Galloway

Ushers — Joe Kaminer and Ted Wingard

Communion Assistants — David and Jane Park

Counters — Don Kosanka and Delores Steinhauser

Hospitality Table — Debra Richardson

Children’s Time — Volunteer Needed

Pilgrim’s Prayer List


Anne Addy

Myra Boyd

Linda Corley

Mary Ann Crawshaw

Tonya Creamer’s mother, Linda Townsend

Marty Dashiell

Norma Drafts

Claudine Hope

Jimmy Metts

Bill Sanders

Wally Steinhauser

Joan Trawick


Friends of Pilgrim


Bishop Ginny Aebischer

Friend of Mary Beth Hill, Geena Beerman

Greg Sommer’s brother-in-law, Ben Green

Friend of Karl and Carolyn Horner, Nadine Greene

Brenda Sommer’s Nephew, Lars

David Marshall and Susan Cafferty’s Aunt Nancy

Wally and Delores Steinhauser’s cousin-in-law, Jill Sanders

Friend of Wally and Delores Steinhauser, Trey Soud

Worship is at 10 a.m. each Sunday.

Scriptures for this Sunday


The First Reading: Isaiah 60:1-6


Second Reading: Ephesians 3:1-12


Gospel Reading: Matthew 2:1-12

Worship Service replay from Sunday, December 28, 2025

CONTACT

Office Hours

Monday–Thursday, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Telephone: (803) 359-9421


Staff



Rev. Mary Williams Anderson

Interim Pastor

mwanderson140@gmail.com


Courtney Coker

Office Administrator

plc@wearepilgrim.com


Susan Cafferty

Music Director

susan@wearepilgrim.com


Ruthie Brannen

Organist/Pianist

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