Pornography's Effects on Married Couples
79.  It is acceptable to use pornography in marriage. (No) 
130.  One or both of us use pornography.  (No)
“Pornography…offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other…It immerses all who are involved into a fantasy world. It is a grave offense.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 2354) 
Pornography can be a sensitive topic to approach, even in our hyper-sexed world. While it may be sensitive, it is vital that is openly discussed in forming couple's for the bonds of marriage as it devalues the dignity of human person. Pornography is a cancer that corrupts the sanctity of the Sacrament of Marriage and can never be good in a relationship. Challenging a couple to chastity includes eliminating the use of pornography.
From the Couple’s Workbook, page 20: “PORNOGRAPHY: Sexual intimacy and the pleasure that derives from it are gifts from God and should remain personal and private, enjoyed within the sacred bond of marriage alone. Such intimacy should not be put on display or be watched by any other person, even if that person is one’s own spouse. Nor should the human body be unveiled or treated in a way that objectifies it sexually and reduces it to an erotic stimulant. Jesus is clear in his teaching that sexual immorality is not only a matter of one’s actions but also a matter of one’s heart: ‘You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart’ (Mt 5:27-28) Regardless of the relationship between the parties, looking at another person with lust—as only a sexual object to enjoy, control, and use—is a sin. It is a disordered view of the person, because it is ordered toward use, as of a thing, rather than love, which pertains to persons. This is why pornography can never be justified, even within marriage.” Create in Me a Clean Heart, U.S. Bishops, November 2015
Excerpts from the USCCB "Clean Heat" series: Pornography's Effects on Marriage and Hope for Married Couples

Many Good People Struggle
One of the biggest lies that Satan has led many Catholic couples to believe is that they are alone in their struggles with pornography. People may be surprised to learn that many good Catholics and Christians are struggling with this issue. A Barna Survey on US porn use indicated that 37 percent of Christian men and 7 percent of Christian women used porn several times a week or more, and 64 percent of Christian men and 15 percent of Christian women used porn once a month or more.1 Indeed, as a couple, we have met many good men, women, teachers, clergy, youth ministers, and others who have struggled with pornography.
Brain Science of Pornography
It is important for people to understand that porn impairs the brain, whether it is used sporadically or multiple times per week. As the bishops state in Create in Me a Clean Heart, "Viewing pornography, usually combined with masturbation, directly affects the brain's reward pathways and has been noted to have a similar effect on the brain as cocaine does on a person with a drug addiction or as alcohol on a person with an alcohol addiction" (page 15). Pornography is never harmless.
"As pastors, we frequently see the pain that results from a pornography habit. Marriages that are injured or even broken by a spouse's pornography use, which some divorce lawyers report as a factor in over half of their cases, have a ripple effect on children." Letter from USCCB to Attorney General William Barr, April 30, 2020
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