October 13, 2025 • כ״א תשרי תשפ״ו

A MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

Chomer Lidrush

Manning the Media

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Moadim L’Simcha from Israel on a most historic day.


We hope you and your kehillah are enjoying an uplifting yom tov. For those in the Northeast, please take care through these Yom Tov storms.


If you already had a derasha in mind for the Second Days, chances are you’re revisiting it now with the developments in Israel.


Below are a few thoughts and sources — a derasha, a nugget, a spark — to help orient your words for the moment. These are the times when a rabbi’s voice helps his community find meaning, strength, and direction amid unfolding history.


May our words, tefillos, and tears join in the great cry of “v’shavu vanim ligvulam,” as we sing “Zeh hayom asah Hashem, nagilah v’nismecha vo.”


First, we offer reflections and thoughts from our RCA representative in Israel, R’ Reuven Tradburks, to give you a sense from the ground in Israel.


Next, four ideas for derasha content ...

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Chomer Lidrush for Shemini Atzeres / Simchas Torah 5786

1) Drasha Idea #1 - Crawling out of Crisis


(Note: This derasha outline employs a deliberate rhetorical structure—opening with what appears to be a reflection on the recent hostage crisis while simultaneously addressing the spiritual crisis of the High Holiday season. Unlike typical outlines that provide brief summaries, the opening paragraphs are written in full to illustrate this dual-layered oratory technique. The ending has been left open for rabbis to tailor to their specific communities.)


"It’s been a period of great upheaval..."


Our lives have been thrown into chaos. Ordinary routines haven't mattered. A few days of sanity - and then it seems everything gets turned on its head. When your life is at stake, you do what you must do. You spend what you have to spend. But it seems that we might be at the precipice of normal life. But have we changed?


Every year, as Elul arrives, we enter an alternative reality. It starts, unlike the situation in Israel, with a whimper (at least for Ashkenazim). But as Rosh Hashana nears, our normal routines are thrown into the wind. Every year we think we will handle the Yomim Tovim with more grace and order - and every year we just end up doing the best we can. There is too much at stake to worry about what we will do the day after or how the needs of the moment will affect our long-term futures. We give it our all on Yom Kippur through Ne'ilah and then, with the promise of forgiveness - and food - at the sound of the shofar, a weight is lifted. But then, and only then, are we uprooted again, leaving our homes in a self-imposed exile. Our lives are disrupted, this time with joy, but nonetheless disrupted, as we move outside our homes into the elements for a week. And Chazal tell us that what we thought was over isn't quite over. Hoshana Rabbah still looms, with its plethora of hakafos and rituals and a two-hour morning service.


And then, every year on Shemini Atzeres, things take their first steps back to normalcy. We leave our sukkahs, put down our dalet minim. Things finally get a little simpler and less complicated. There are no special mitzvos on Shemini Atzeres. We celebrate and enjoy ourselves in an uninhibited manner that contrasts with the long period that preceded it.


HaKadosh Baruch Hu - not Trump, not Netanyahu, not Tzahal, though we thank them and their dedicated teams for their efforts, HaKadosh Baruch Hu brought home our hostages just in time for Shemini Atzeres. It's not just the anniversary of their capture. That alone is clearly a sign from Hashem. But they are home; they leave their terrible, unimaginable exile in Gaza as we end our self-imposed, joyous exile from our sukkos back into our homes. And the national sense of upheaval, even if for just a moment, has eased. There is a sense that normalcy might just be here.


Of course, no one knows what will be. But no one ever knows after Shemini Atzeres what the year will bring. We celebrate the emergence from a time of crisis even though we cannot predict what will come in the coming months, weeks, or days.


How do we celebrate Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah this year? We struggled last year to balance the joy and sorrow, understanding that it was okay to feel competing emotions simultaneously. And there is a part of us that wants to simply let go this year. To celebrate Simchas Torah - the joy of Torah life and learning, without the cloud of the war in Israel over our heads. And this will be a different Simchas Torah than last year.


But every Simchas Torah is meant to be different than the one that preceded it. Because the crisis and upheaval created by the fall chagim are not meant to be left behind each year on Shemini Atzeres. They are supposed to be integrated into our psyches and our Jewish lives. The preponderance of drinking on Simchas Torah is not just dangerous for adults, teens, and children. It sends the message — to us and others — that the days leading up to Shemini Atzeres are meant to be forgotten. That the joy of the moment is meant to be celebrated fully as if nothing preceded it. But every year - and most especially this year - so much has. It would be a dishonor to all the strain and pain - and we are not comparing doing teshuva and making Yom Tov to the matzav in Israel - but in their own parallel ways, it would be a dishonor to everything we have been through together to simply put that past behind us.


What have we learned and how do we, starting with Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah, make that a part of our never-again-to-be-normal lives?


2) Drasha Snippet#2: Rav Ben Zion Firer (1914-1988, Poland, Nir Galim Israel) on the Ushpizin


The Ushpizin is quite an impressive list. What do these greats of our people have in common? They each lived robust Jewish lives even though the hopes and promises in the air were not realized in their lifetimes (whether related to Eretz Yisroel in the hands of their descendants, entry into Israel or the building of the Beis Hamikdash). The Sukkah represents the journey of Jewish History and the Ushpizin come to encourage us and give us strength as we go through that history even if we can’t reach the end.


(Apologies: I am not home and do not have the original sefer in front of me to scan)


3) Drasha Idea #3: Shemini Atzeres as the return to our homes in Israel, also from Rabbi Ben Zion Firer


It is strange that there is no yom tov that marks the entry into Eretz Yisrael.


Think about it: We have Pesach (Yetzias Mitzrayim), Shavuos (Kabbalas HaTorah) and even Sukkos, marking the journey through the desert. How strange that there is no holiday marking the end of that journey and the entry into Israel.


Unless there is. What happens on Shemini Atzeres? We leave our sukkos - the symbol of our journey in the desert - and enter our homes! Of course, this doesn’t ring true in Europe or North America. It’s hard to feel that after Sukkos we have arrived in Eretz Yisrael. From the perspective of kedusha, we take a step down as we move from the holy sukkah to our ordinary homes. But in Israel, the experience of moving from the Sukkah to one’s home is truly an exercise in yishuv ha’aretz! It’s a recreation of the move from the sukkos and tents in the desert to their homes in the Land of Israel!


There is something else missing from the Galut experience of Shemini Atzeres - it is far from a clean break. We still sit - in one way or another - in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres. We don’t make a dramatic move - all at once - from sukkah to home. But in Israel- where Shemini Atzeres can truly be appreciated for what it is meant to be - the transition is stark. On Sukkos we dramatize the journey in the midbar and on Shemini Atzeres we recreate the settlement of Israel as the 40 years of wandering ended.


What a powerful time to welcome back our hostages from their time in a hellish wilderness to their homes in Israel. The transition won’t be as stark - as they will need to spend time in hospitals and rehab before returning to their homes, but the imagery is most powerful. In a sense they will truly walk in the footsteps of our ancestors who needed 14 years of battle before truly settling into their homes in Israel. Our brothers and sisters have a very long road ahead of them as they reintegrate into life. But we pray that Hashem will be with them as He was with our people so many millennia ago.


And just as Shemini Atzeres cannot be fully appreciated in the Diaspora, the experience of welcoming back the hostages and beginning to move past these difficult years, cannot truly be appreciated here. We in the Golah keep Shemini Atzeres, as we keep acheinu Bnei Yisrael in our hearts and minds. But the full effect and meaning of the transition from war to peace, from chaos to order - the full experience of integrating the painful losses with the relief of the return of the hostages - is something we can only approximate in the Diaspora. May we merit to soon join our brothers and sisters in Israel to truly experience Shemini Atzeres and what it means to live as a Nation in Our Land.  


4) Drasha Nugget / Idea for Pre-Hakafos


As we clutch the Sifrei Torah, we should remember that Chazal compare each person to a Sefer Torah. Just as a Torah scroll is precious, irreplaceable, and written with painstaking care, so too is every Jewish soul infinitely valuable and unique. Just as opening a Torah reveals just a small fraction of its contents, so too, our every interaction with our fellow Jews reveals but a glimpse of the beauty within them. See here from Rav Soloveitchik.


This Simchas Torah, as we hold the Torah close, dancing and celebrating, there is a profound irony we cannot ignore: while we embrace the Torah scrolls, some of our brothers and sisters remain torn from their families' embrace. If we wish to add deeper meaning to the Hakafos this year, we can imagine that each Sefer Torah in our arms represents one of our fellow Jews gone – still in Gaza awaiting proper burial or fallen in battle.


At the same time, the love with which we grasp the Torah echoes the embrace that our people give, and will continue to give, to the hostages who have returned. While no exchange – innocent hostages for convicted terrorists – can be celebrated fully, we can and must clutch what we love as tightly as we can and give thanks that, against all odds, we again embrace our brethren and continue to hold fast to the Torah from generation to generation.


When we refuse to let go of the Torah during Hakafos, when we hold it tighter, we can channel that same determination: we will not let go of our people. We will not forget. And just as we rejoice with the Torah and eventually return it lovingly to the Aron Kodesh where it belongs, so too we pray and work toward the day when every one of our brethren is returned safely home, back to their rightful place among their people.


5) Chomer from Rabbanan.org


We’re also attaching their chomer for Simchas Torah – which has been sent out in hopeful anticipation of the return of all the hostages – in full, below:


Special Chomer Lidrush for Imminent Hostage Release & Shemini Atzeres Recording Now Posted! Featuring R' Shalom Rosner, R' Dovid Gottlieb & R' Shay Schachter.


Listen now on Rabbanan here or on your podcast player: https://rabbanan.org/?podcast=special-chomer-lidrush-for-imminent-hostage-release-shemini-atzeres


In case it can be helpful, there is an AI summary of the ideas shared on the recording posted on Rabbanan. We have quickly reviewed them but there still might be slight errors so you may want to double check the citations.


Here is an executive summary of the ideas shared:


Rabbi Shalom Rosner reflects on the paradox of matzah as both the bread of affliction and redemption, using it as a lens to understand the complex emotions surrounding the hostages’ return — joy, gratitude, and sorrow interwoven. He emphasizes recognizing Hashem’s hidden orchestration of world events and celebrating the unparalleled faith, unity, and compassion of Am Yisrael even through pain, concluding that like Avraham Avinu, we must embrace our trials with gratitude and pride in our divine mission.


Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb explores the national yearning for normalcy as a holy and redemptive desire, citing Zechariah’s vision of elders and children peacefully filling Jerusalem’s streets as a divine miracle in itself. He contrasts the fragility of the sukkah with its ease of rebuilding, explaining via the Maharal that the Jewish people, though vulnerable, possess indestructible resilience — “noflin v’omdim.” Even amid tragedy, our capacity to rise and rebuild reflects the ongoing renewal of Sukat David HaNofelet and the unfolding of partial redemption.


Rabbi Shay Schachter focuses on the process of redemption and healing, drawing on the Sfat Emet’s teaching that true geulah must be internalized slowly rather than experienced in haste. Through the stories of former hostage Sasha Trupanov and Mosab, the “Son of Hamas,” he highlights that lasting transformation — personal or national — occurs through gradual growth and introspection. Linking this to Shemini Atzeret, he teaches that the quiet continuation after dramatic moments is where spiritual change truly takes root.


Next – Especially for this Yom Tov of transition (iy”H) ...


6) A Beautiful Yizkor Idea and Initiative from our chaver, R’ David Fine


R’ Fine has run this initiative since the first Yizkor post-10/7. In his words:


Here is a link to a comprehensive list of all those killed in this war including full name and father’s name, for reciting Yizkor in synagogues. The list - long and gut-wrenching - is divided into cards that can be distributed among those in attendance.


There are no words to thank the two who prepared this terrible and awesome document: Tehila Dramon Malka and Ada Gabel. The list includes IDF soldiers, murdered civilians, and hostages who were executed. The project is in memory of Staff Sergeant Yuval Shaham who fell in Gaza last Hanukkah.

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Manning the Media

Sort of. Two Things You Ought to Know


It’s difficult to give a comprehensive run-down of notable headlines, but here are two talking points you might want to use (or be aware of) over yuntif, during what happens to be a very happening news cycle:


1) Ceasefire Now?


Though the conflict hasn't completely concluded, we're significantly closer to resolution than we were just days ago. This means that anyone who characterized this conflict as genocide should logically recognize that what they view as a genocide is now coming to an end. In other words, if you were calling for a ceasefire, you’ve gotten what you wanted.


Yet something feels off. There's no jubilation, no victory celebrations reminiscent of wartime endings. The social media accounts that relentlessly demanded "Ceasefire Now" have fallen conspicuously silent now that an actual ceasefire has materialized. Maybe the news hasn't reached them yet – maybe internet access is spotty on a flotilla. Or maybe these self-proclaimed peace advocates were actually hoping for a catastrophic conflict resulting in Israel's destruction and isolation.


2) Be aware.


Borrowing from The Free Press’ excellent Friday newsletter:


In England, the BBC said we have no idea why a man named Jihad allegedly started stabbing Jews at a synagogue (thank you, Metropolitan Police, for clarifying that “the word jihad has a number of meanings”). Eventually the BBC admitted that he “may have been influenced by extreme Islamist ideology,” since the attacker is reported to have called 999 during the attack and said, “I have killed two Jews in the name of the Islamic State.” I wonder what his motivation could have been? Inscrutable. Unknown, like the wind and trees. Lastly, in the warm, inclusive land of academia, a Rutgers professor defended violence against random synagogues. She writes: “Firstly, synagogues have been found to not be some benign neutral places of worship. . . . I mean, if they want us to really believe in their ‘Jewish supremacy’ and that 2 million indigenous people must be killed and starved for European Jews to feel more comfortable while they bathe on beaches that don’t belong to them, then I’m sorry, but any hate towards said Jews would be valid.” It’s worth reading the whole thing.”

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