May 7, 2025 • ט׳ אייר תשפ״ה

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

RCA Convention 2025

RCA Updates

Chomer Lidrush

Manning the Media

In Our RCA Family

RCA CONVENTION 2025

May 19-20 כ״א - כ״ב אייר תשפ״ה


Click Here To Download the Tentative Schedule

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Spotlight on one of our many Convention Vendors

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Cuff & Co. is a leading men's and clothing store catering to the needs of the Orthodox Jewish community. They specialize in formal wear and casual essentials, combining sophisticated fashion with reasonable prices. They will have a table at the convention, offering a selection of their products including shirts and hats.

Some Highlights Include:


  • Beautiful new hotel with outdoor grounds
  • Rabbi Dratch Scholar in Residence: Rav Tamir Granot
  • Maros Workshop with Rav Gideon Weitzman
  • Shiurim by Rav Herschel Schachter, Rav Mordechai Willig and Rav Yona Reiss
  • Parenting and Chinuch Advice from Rav Daniel Kalish
  • Farbrengen with Rav YY Jacobson
  • Spa day, breathing expert and free massage treatments!
  • Quality time with Israeli Community Rabbanim (through Barkai)
  • Chaplain of the Year – R. Jason Wiener
  • Monday night BBQ, Ping Pong Tournament, and quality time for Chevraschaft
  • Comedian Eli Lebowicz



Shout Outs for Chaveirim at the RCA Convention

 

Please nominate your chaveirim who have done some special – or been through something difficult – during the past year. We will give a shout-out – and a small gift - to let them know we notice them and are proud of them! Please submit your responses on this link!


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RCA Updates


1) Upcoming Executive Committee Meeting


Monday, May 12, 2025

2:30pm Eastern

1:30pm Central

11:30am Pacific

9:30pm Israel


2) RCA Affinity Groups: Connection. Collaboration. Community.


We’re thrilled to announce another new initiative for members: RCA Affinity Groups—a new way to connect, collaborate, and grow with colleagues who get your rabbinic life.


Whether you’re seeking camaraderie, creativity, or clarity, our Affinity Groups are your regular opportunity to recharge, reimagine, and reconnect with your calling—together.


For more info or to sign-up, click here.


3) Rabbinic Resource Network


You Don’t Need To Go It Alone

 

Chaveirim with experience are happy to help with 100 different topics; Click Here to sign up. If you need assistance, contact mpenner@rabbis.org for a confidential referral.

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Chomer Lidrush

Ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha


1) Be Holy


Parshas Kedoshim invites us to consider what it truly means to become holy. Rabbi Zvi Dov Kanotopsky's analysis reveals that beyond rules and restrictions lies a transformative opportunity – we ourselves become the "cheftza shel mitzvah," the sacred object of the commandment.


While specific mitzvos require physical items like tefillin or lulav, the call of "kedoshim tihyu" demands something far more personal – that we transform who we are. As Ramban beautifully teaches, one may follow every letter of the law yet remain "naval birshus haTorah" – technically observant, but spiritually impoverished. The command to be holy skirts this spiritual loophole by directing us toward inner transformation.


In three essential domains – our physical desires, relationship with Hashem through Shabbos, and interactions with others – we are called not just to avoid transgression, but to become living embodiments of kedushah. When we internalize this perspective, even permitted indulgences become opportunities for spiritual elevation.


This week, consider: How might your observance shift from merely avoiding transgression to actively becoming a keli of kedushah? The path to holiness lies not in restriction alone, but in allowing ourselves to become the very instruments through which Ratzon Hashem is manifested in this world.


2) Transfers of Guilt: Understanding Yom Kippur


In Rabbi Yitzchak Twersky’s deep exploration of the parshah, he offers an analysis of the se'irim of Yom Kippur and its deep symbolic connections to pivotal moments in Jewish history. (May be relevant for your Yom Kippur chomer…)


His piece reveals how the ritual echoes the story of Yaakov and Esav — twins who struggled for birthright and blessing — and examines three significant instances where the concept of "transfer of guilt" appears in the Torah:


  1. The two se'irim of Yom Kippur, where one goat symbolically carries away the sins of the people.
  2. Rivkah's promise to Yaakov that she would accept any curse in his place when he disguised himself with gediyei izzim to secure the Brachos.
  3. Moshe offering himself as atonement after the Egel,  saying to Hashem, "If You will forgive their sin... but if not, erase me from Your book".

 

R. Twersky masterfully connects these parallel narratives to illuminate the essence of Yom Kippur as an affirmation of the unique bris between Hashem and Klal Yisrael, despite the threat of rejection.


3) Story: The Essence of Kiddush Hashem


A powerful story of Kiddush Hashem from Rabbi Paysach Krohn (may he have a continued refuah sheleimah).


In the chaos of September 11, 2001, Avreimel Zelmanowitz, a computer programmer working on the 27th floor of the North Tower, made a decision that would define the highest ideals of kiddush Hashem. When everyone else fled, Avreimel chose to remain behind with his colleague Ed Beyea, who was wheelchair bound and unable to escape. Avreimel refused to leave his helpless friend despite the imminent danger.


Three days before the tragedy, during a Shabbos chaburah focused on the Baal HaTanya's teachings, Avreimel had unexpectedly spoken up about self-sacrifice, challenging the notion that only great tzaddikim could truly perform kiddush Hashem. Less than 72 hours later, he would demonstrate this principle through his own heroic actions.


President George W. Bush later recognized Avreimel's sacrifice in a national address, noting that "inside the World Trade Center, one man who could have saved himself stayed until the end at the side of his quadriplegic friend."

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Manning the Media


1) Finding Beauty in Brokenness: What Our Damaged Possessions Reveal About Us, The New Yorker (PDF)


In his latest essay for The New Yorker, Joshua Rothman invites us to reconsider our relationship with the broken objects in our lives. Beginning with his own fortuitously damaged camera — which he discovers he actually prefers in its simplified, broken state — Rothman explores how different forms of brokenness affect us emotionally and philosophically.


Through engaging personal anecdotes and cultural references, Rothman suggests that our broken possessions can teach us about what we know to be a profound pillar of Judaism and teshuva: For anyone who's ever felt strangely attached to a chipped mug or wondered why some broken things provoke anxiety while others inspire nostalgia, this contemplative essay offers a fresh perspective on how "sometimes broken things are actually better that way."


2) My Visit with My Dead Father's Brain, Nautilus (PDF)


In Rachel Lehmann-Haupt's moving Nautilus essay, a daughter's journey to the Mayo Clinic brain bank becomes an unexpected meditation on the literal meaning of "Acharei Mos-Kedoshim" — after death, holiness. Her encounter with her father's preserved brain, stored in "a drawer in a plastic bag with his name written on it in black Sharpie pen," provokes both fear and revelation.


Through this clinical setting, Lehmann-Haupt discovers how her father's donation transcends mere science, becoming "one of a kind" as a healthy control in dementia research. Her intimate narrative offers a window into the understanding that what follows loss can be its own form of sanctification.

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Read something that made you think? We’d love to read it, too – and then feature it! Drop us a line and let us know how we’re doing. 

 

Did our chomer help you over Shabbos? Want to see more of less of an idea? Let us know!

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In Our RCA Family


  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Gideon and Bonnie Shloush on the Bar Mitzvah of their son Shmuel. Mazel Tov to them as well on the engagement of their son Michael, to Kayla Amster!


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