October 16, 2025 • כ״ד תשרי תשפ״ו

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

In Our RCA Family

RCA Updates

Chomer Lidrush

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In Our RCA Family


  • Our Dancing Has Turned to Grief — Nehepach l’eivel mecholeinu


The Rabbinical Council of America expresses its profound shock and sorrow at the sudden passing of our beloved member, Rabbi Moshe Hauer, zt”l, Executive Vice President of the Orthodox Union.


Rabbi Hauer, zt’l, was a rabbi to rabbis — guiding and inspiring countless colleagues during his decades as a congregational rabbi and later through his leadership at the Orthodox Union. He combined wisdom with sensitivity, conviction with gentleness. His warmth, humility, and authenticity touched all who knew him. As our Sages said of his namesake: Moshe emet, v’torato emet — “Moshe is true, and his Torah is true.”


To read the entire statement, click here.

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RCA Updates


1) Upcoming Executive Committee Meeting - Tuesday, Oct. 28, 1:30pm EST


2) Important Upcoming Zoom Programs:


  • Israel Update, with Ambassador Yechiel Leiter, Israel Ambassador to the US, and Rev. Johnnie Moore, Executive Chairman of the Gaza Humanitarian Foundation (GHF) - 
    Thursday, Oct. 23, 2:30pm EST
  • Sustainable leadership beyond the Yom Tov season: Rabbinic self-care and effective time management, with Rabbi Harvey Belovski - 
    Wednesday, Oct. 29, 2:00pm EST
  • What Every Rabbi Needs to Know about Domestic Abuse - with the Shalom Task Force - run by our chaver R. Aaron Cohen, LCSW of Passaic. See flyer below. - 
    Wednesday, Nov. 12, 1:45pm EST

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Chomer Lidrush

Some ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha - even after a long yuntif!

1) Man's Potential


Why is Man's creation the only one described as "tov me'od" rather than simply "tov"? R' Daniel Baron suggests, based on the Maharal, that this reveals a fundamental difference between humans and all other creations. Everything else is created b'foal, complete from the moment of creation. A lion cub will become a lion, nothing more or less. But humans uniquely exist b'koach, we are created along with potential waiting to be realized.

This is why Adam is called after adamah. Just as the ground appears to be, simply, dirt – but somehow yields fruit far greater than its original state, human beings enter the world incomplete, but with the capacity to transform into something extraordinary through Torah and mitzvos. Animals are called beheimah, which the Maharal reads as "bah mah" – what they are is already within them. But humans? Our "what" emerges only through our choices.

This works especially well for a Bar Mitzvah: "Tov me'od" means exceeding apparent limitations. At thirteen, you're not stepping into a predetermined role but embracing the uniquely human power to become more than what you appear to be today. Your potential remains gloriously undefined – in other words, you can be anything.


2) Planting in the Gan


What does it mean that the "gates of Gan Eden" were barred after Adam's exile? Rav Aryeh Feldman, in his adaption of Rav Moshe Shapiro z"l's shiurim on emunah, explains that the closed gates don't only prevent entry but also block our vision. When Adam was kicked out of the Gan, he lost the ability to see how every action in this world simultaneously plants seeds in the World to Come.

We might plant a seed and watch it grow into a tree bearing fruit. But we cannot see the parallel planting occurring in the spiritual realm, where our mitzvos blossom into eternal reward. The "barred gates" mean there's no visible interface between our planting here and its flowering there. This is the essence of living in galus, a reality of acting without seeing results. Chazal teach that answering "Amen" with full conviction can "open the gates of Gan Eden." This doesn't mean physical entry, but rather living with Emunah, the deep belief that every action here creates eternal reality there, even when we can't see it. Without this vision, we consume life rather than plant it, and risk seeking immediate gratification instead of investing in an invisible future.


3) When Success Breeds Sin: The Real Tragedy of Kayin and Hevel


We instinctively read the Kayin and Hevel story as one of divine rejection: Hashem spurned Kayin's korban and accepted Hevel's, triggering history's first murder. Rav Ezra Bick reveals a more unsettling dynamic: the Torah never tells us that God "rejected" Kayin's offering. Rather, "Hashem turned to Hevel and his offering, but He did not turn to Kayin and his offering" (4:4-5). Absence of attention is not the same thing as active rejection.


This distinction, Rav Bick points out, transforms our understanding of Kayin's rage. He wasn't responding to divine punishment, but to his brother's miraculous success! God's intervention on Hevel's behalf represented supernatural favor, but not natural consequence. Kayin brought his offering first, initiated the entire practice of sacrifice, yet watched his younger brother receive the divine response he expected. The Torah emphasizes Hevel as "his brother" repeatedly throughout the narrative, underscoring that this was fundamentally about fraternal competition, not theological failure.


Hashem’s response to Kayin's despair confirms this reading: "If you do well, will you not be lifted up?" (4:7). The path remains open; no door has closed. Kayin's potential for divine favor endures, he need only focus on his own spiritual work rather than his brother's success. But this proves impossible; the very first siblings demonstrate humanity's most persistent spiritual ailment: we measure our worth not by our own growth but by comparison to others. This competitive calculus, not divine rejection, spawned history's first murder and continues to poison human relationships today.


4) Man and Woman - Changed Forever


Rabbi Yehuda Henkin’s Equality Lost explores the creation of Chava, contrasting the creation of humans in the first perek (where Adam and Chava are created together) with the second (where Chava is created later, as a response to Adam’s loneliness). The chapter argues that Chava was created as an equal partner to man, to help him fulfill God's commandments. However, Adam’s lack of trust in Chava, led to the cheit. This misunderstanding of equality between the sexes had lasting consequences, both in the Torah and in human relationships.


While it may seem that Chava led to Adam’s sin, the Torah’s statement “Lo Tov Heyos Adam Lavado,” attests to the fact that without Chava, Adam had an even lesser chance of success. Rav Henkin (in Shut Bnei BAnim) notes the many mentions of “Tov” in the parsha, and asserts that “tov” speaks not to the quality of the thing it describes, but its likelihood of success.


Parperet


Here’s a nice and quick idea that can help transition from Simchas Torah: the pasuk (2:9) says, “And from the ground God caused to grow every tree that was pleasing to the sight and good for food, with the tree of life in the middle of the garden, and the tree of knowledge of good and bad.” Rashi and Onkelos both understand “in the middle of the garden (“b’toch hagan”) to be taken literally, i.e., in the actual center of the Garden. Why is this important to note?


Rabbi Elie Munk (Call of the Torah, p. 30) quotes the Chofetz Chaim as saying that a center is the middle of a circle, a point equidistant from all others around, “equally accessible from all sides…” The Tree of Life, the Torah, is reached not by one path alone – anyone can access it. “For the same reason,” continues Rabbi Munk, “the ohel moed … was situated at the center of the camp [in the midbar]. Likewise, the bimah is the central point of each synagogue.”


Both the Torah and its stage, the bima – two things that play a center role through Hoshanos to Hakafos, anad again now, as we begin a new Torah cycle, are in the “middle”, at appoint equidistant from all, equally accessible…

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