February 26, 2026 • ט' אדר תשפ״ו

From the Desk of the Executive Vice President

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

Likrat Shabbat

RCA Updates

Member Spotlight

In Our RCA Family

Chomer Lidrush

Manning the Media

Likrat Shabbat


A Few Things to Keep in Mind for Zachor 


The mitzvah requires both the reader and the listeners to have kavanah to fulfill the obligation. Can’t hurt to warmly remind your kehillah of this before reading.  


The widespread minhag is to listen quietly rather than read along with the baal koreh. One fulfills the obligation even without understanding every word, as long as one grasps the general point of the mitzvah to destroy Amalek.  


Tzidkascha


We do say Tzidkascha – and memorial prayers – at Mincha.


Reminder: Kiddush Levana 


For those who have not yet said Kiddush Levana this month — with last week's overcast skies making it difficult — please make every effort to do so as soon as possible. Motzei Shabbos will likely present a singular window for many of your mispallelim.

RCA Updates

1) Conference of Presidents


Etan Tokayer and Menachem Penner represented the RCA at the Israel Mission of Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations last week. This important gathering brings together a good portion of the leadership of American Jewry to meet with the President Herzog, Prime Minister Netanyahu and many of the MK and ministers of Knesset, along with Ambassadors, leaders of Israel’s military and economy and ordinary citizens making a substantial difference. This year’s mission had a different feel, with all hostages out of Gaza, and we marked that achievement with a soecial dinner with hostage families.

2) RCA Purim Guide 5786


Editable, white-labeled Purim letter for your communities - Click Here.

With thanks to Mordechai Torczyner, Maury Rosenfeld, and Yaakov Trump for their contributions to this letter.


3) See here for Updated Guidelines for the signing of Prenuptial Agreements – based on our winter webinar.


4) OU-RCA Pre-Pesach Webinar


This annual webinar will take place the week of March 9th. The exact date is TBD.

Partnered Content


ORA AGUNAH AWARENESS SHABAT

Countless individuals remain chained to dead marriages because their partner refuses to grant a get. This Shabbat is an opportunity to change that - one drasha, one conversation, one poster at a time. We have over 100 shuls participating already. We hope yours will be one of them! ORA provides a journal, poster, tehillim list, and whatever else your community needs to participate meaningfully.


Please visit https://www.getora.org/agunahshabbat for all the materials and to sign up!

This year's journal includes:

 

  • "Life Before & After the Get" by Osrah Samuel (former Agunah)
  • Preventing the “Classic Agunah” by Dr. Rachel Levmore, To'enet Rabbanit
  • "A Therapist’s Perspective" by Faye Wilbur, LCSWR
  • Information about the recently published ORA Get Guide
  • Messages from ORA staff
  • Contributions from Agunah organizations around the world
  • Shabbat Table Discussion Prompts and "Q&A for Kids"
  • Agunah Tehillim List

 

And more!


Contact us at info@getora.org to learn more about ORA and what you can do to help agunot and prevent Get-refusal!

RCA Member Spotlight: Rabbi Aaron Leibtag

Rabbi Aaron Leibtag has been a respected Rav and educator in Chicago for over 15 years. He served as Rabbi of Kehilath Jacob Beth Samuel (2009–2021) before becoming Associate Rabbi at Congregation K.I.N.S. in West Rogers Park. He is vice president of the Chicago Rabbinical Council and serves on its Geirus Commission and is now principal at Fasman Yeshiva High School. Last year, we asked him 12 questions about his career as a rabbi –– see his answers below. (Some answers were edited for length and clarity.)




1) If you weren't a Rabbi, what would you be?


Great question! Honestly, I have no idea. I’ve wanted to go into Chinuch since I was a kid – but whatever it would be, I can tell you that it wouldn’t be something with numbers.


2) What's the first thing you do when you sit down to write a Shabbos derasha?


Rabbi Penner had always told me, “Teach them something they don’t know already”. Baruch Hashem, I’ve had wonderful mentors and Rebbeim who are “present” when I’m writing a derasha.


3) Most memorable Rabbinic moment?


Performing the benediction at the Illinois State Capitol – that was pretty memorable.


Read the rest of our Q and A with Rabbi Leibtag here!

In Our RCA Family


  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Gavriel and Shayna Sragow on the birth and bris of their son, Menachem Chaim
  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Joshua and Julie Joseph on the engagement of their daughter Marsha to Sammy Struhl

Chomer Lidrush

Some ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha.

1) Zachor: Proactive Battle


Why do we read Parshas Zachor from Ki Teitzei and not from Beshalach? Both speak of Amalek, but Beshalach gives us the battle itself! Yehoshua's army, Moshe's raised hands, and the raw heroism of Jewish survival – shouldn't that be the story we talk about on the shabbos before Purim?


Rav Mordechai Greenberg (former Rosh Yeshiva of Kerem B'Yavneh) points to a decisive difference. Beshalach commands a reactive response: Amalek attacks, and we defend. But Ki Teitzei gives us something else entirely: "V'hayah b'haniach Hashem Elokecha l'chol oyvecha" — only when God has given you rest from your enemies do you fulfill timche es zecher Amalek. This is a proactive command. The idea is more akin to offensive action from a position of strength than one of survival under pressure


The two days of Purim show this duality. The 13th of Adar was the day of battle –– that is, pure self-defense. On the 14th, though, the Jews of Shushan asked for more time. The ideology had not yet been defeated. Defense secures the present, but being proactive secures the future.


And what is that proactive mission? The Torah calls Amalek "asher karcha baderech" — rooted in mikreh, randomness, moral relativism. Amalek is the worldview that denies cosmic accountability, that cannot distinguish murderer from victim. We are commanded to erase Amalek not just for our safety, but because a world where Amalek thrives is a world where civilization unravels.


Zachor is read on this Shabbos as a call to wipe out not just those who hate us, but the ideology that makes hatred possible.


2) One, On Behalf of All


Why is the fast called Ta'anis Esther? The three-day fast that Mordechai proclaimed in the actual Purim story took place on Pesach (Megillah 15a), and not before Purim. So what exactly is this fast commemorating? Why do we observe it Erev Purim?


The Lubavitcher Rebbe (Likutei Sichos, vol. VI, p. 372) offers a striking answer. Although Achashveirosh originally authorized Haman's decree to annihilate all the Jews on the 13th of Adar, he subsequently permitted the Jews to defend themselves against the Persian armies. Halachah is clear: those defending themselves against enemies may not fast, lest they weaken their strength (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 571:3). This meant that on the very day designated for their destruction, it was forbidden for any Jew to fast. Any Jew, except one. Esther, sheltered in the royal palace and unthreatened by the Persian armies, was the sole member of Klal Yisrael in a position to fast. And so she did! Alone.


When an entire nation is collectively unable to fulfill a mitzvah, even one as foundational as teshuvah and tefillah expressed through fasting (and in such a dire situation!), the responsibility falls on the one individual who can. Esther understood that her singular capacity carried with it singular obligation. Ta'anis Esther is a permanent reminder that when the klal cannot act, the individual who is able must — and that one person's avodah can carry the weight of an entire people. This is commemorated going into a Purim, when much of the day centers on caring for and giving to others.


The right way to enter Purim: asking ourselves what our “Esther mitzvah” is – my mitzvah, the thing that no one else can do.


3) A Day to Pray


Purim is a busy day – there’s much to do, including the mitzvos hayom. But Rabbi Baruch Rosenblum, in his sefer on Purim, reminds us that there is something else to do on Purim, something so important that we can’t afford to forget it, even if we’re busy. He brings a moving and effective story from the Baal Shem about the importance of tefillah. Ending with a drash on a pasuk in the Megillah, the story highlights how one of the most important days for tefillah in the entire year cannot be overlooked.


4) Parperet: "The Sound of the Atonement"


The parasha details the bigdei Kehunah, and the Midrash teaches that the robe, with its golden bells, atones for lashon hara. But how could clothing atone? And why specifically atone for lashon hara with the robe?


Rav Yakov Nagen notes a striking paradox at the heart of the Midrash: it first says that lashon hara has no way to atonement, but then immediately provides one. Rav Nagen argues that the Midrash is making a subtle but profound point. The sin of evil speech cannot be undone, just like feathers scattered to the wind in the classic mashal, the words cannot be retrieved. But, he says, they can be counterbalanced. The Kohen Gadol offsets the debasement wrought by lashon hara with an active campaign of positive speech "and a gracious eye, to the accompaniment of the tones produced by his vestments as he goes about his work in the Temple."


This can completely reframe what “atonement” means in this context. It’s much more about transformation that it is erasure. As Rav Nagen writes, "Speech is an expression of what makes us human, of the divine image within us." The capacity for speech is not only a danger to be managed but a bracha to be cultivated – there is an aseh tov aspect as well as a sur me’ra one!


The antidote to lashon hara is not silence. It is the deliberate, disciplined use of speech to build, heal, and bring people closer to one another and to the Ribbono Shel Olam. If we cared to do so, we could probably list the things we speak cynically about – and easily so. But what do we praise? What are the things we speak positively about? Are we ready to rectify negative speech, even when it means more than staying silent?


3) See Last Year’s Chomer Here.

Manning the Media

On “dressing up,” or how even when we’re so hidden, we can be found: Nicholas Lemann’s “A Childhood in Jewish New Orleans” in the New Yorker, PDF here.


It’s a beautifully written memoir about growing up in a world of radical Jewish assimilation, i.e., Christmas trees, roast suckling pig, and a family culture in which anything "too Jewish" was a source of anxiety and embarrassment. Lemann traces how German Jewish New Orleans constructed an elaborate identity around not being conspicuously Jewish, and the personal cost of that choice across generations.


And yet, at a bar mitzvah, hearing the Shema, he would "burst into helpless tears." He eventually comes to understand what he was weeping over: "the poignancy of my parents' doomed hope that other doors would open if they closed this one."


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While we’re talking about assimilated Jews and the New Yorker, see Adam Gopnik’s Purim piece from 2002, where he describes being shocked out of assimilation by the Megillah’s obscurity.

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UPCOMING EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE MEETING

March 4, 2026


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RECENTLY PUBLISHED

Beyond Randomness, by our chaver Rabbi Dr. Dovid Gottlieb and Rebbetzin Tziporah (Heller) Gottlieb, available from MosaicaPress.com


Gan Shoshanim V. 4, by our chaver Rabbi Menachem Genack, available from OUPress.org

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RECORDING: The Kosher Haircut


This webinar took place on February 23, 2026, and features Rabbi Avrohom Kaufman, a barber of over 15 years, and a member of Ohr l'Halacha in Israel who is overseeing the translation of the sefer A Kosher Haircut into English. Click here to access.

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