July 16, 2025 • כ׳ תמוז תשפ״ה

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

RCA Updates

In Our RCA Family

Partnered Content

Chomer Lidrush

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RCA Updates


1) RCA Elections


Congratulations to our new president Etan Tokayer, our new slate of Officers and the newest members of our Executive Committee! I am excited to work together lehagdil Torah ulehadira!


Officers


President: Etan Tokayer

First Vice-President: Kalman Topp

Vice-President West/Southwest/Int'l: Jason Weiner

Vice-President East Coast: Donald Bixon

Vice-President Midwest: Wes Kalmar

Vice-President Greater New York: Yechezkel Freundlich

Financial Secretary: Brahm Weinberg

Recording Secretary: Seth Grauer

Treasurer: Benjamin Samuels


Executive Committee


Avi Anderson

Michael Berger

Sammy Bergman

Nasanayl Braun

Zolly Claman

Michael Davies

Jeremy Donath

Shmuel Felzenberg

David Fine

Noah Goldstein

Scott Hoberman

Ben Kean

E. Samuel Klibanoff

Beni Krohn

Ari Neuman

Asher Oser

2) Tisha b'Av & Kinnos


Iy”H, and if needed, we will distribute commentary to the Kinnos as we did last years. Look for our substantial packet of ideas in your email box. In the meantime, assist our efforts by submitting 1-2 of the most powerful pieces that you have used or will be using for kinnos elaboration. Send to me at mpenner@rabbis.org.


3) RCA-Ematai Advance Directive


An important reminder about the RCA’s version of the Ematai Advanced Care Directive.

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In Our RCA Family

  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Ari and Erin Galandauer on the engagement of their daughter Adina to Shmuel Ganchrow
  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Roy and Rachel Feldman on the birth of a baby boy
  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Avram and Leah Herzog on the marriage of their daughter Eliana to Yotam Dror

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Master Masechta Pesachim!

This Monday, July 21 / 25 Tamuz , Amud HaYomi begins Masechta Pesachim. It’s the perfect opportunity to join tens of thousands of lomdim already on the dedicated path toward completing all of Shas.

 

With just one amud a day, the pace is clear and attainable. You can complete Masechta Pesachim in time for next Pesach.

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Chomer Lidrush

Some ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha


1) Every Jew has something to contribute to our Mesorah


Rav Shimshon Pincus offers an empowering idea: every Jew has a personal chelek in Torah, a unique perspective or chidush that only they can reveal. Torah isn’t just a static text waiting to be learned; it is a dynamic, unfolding dialogue that we must struggle to understand, and each of us – and our engaging with the Torah – is part of that process.


Some bring out their chelek through providing a new answer to a Torah quandary or a new insight that adds to the richness of our mesorah. But others reveal theirs through a question asked as someone else is presenting. How many chiddushim started with a student’s question? But if we aren’t showing up at all, if we choose not to participate or engage in learning and searching, our part might never come to light. This, Rav Pincus explains, is the deeper meaning of bittul Torah: not just time wasted, but a whole part of Torah being lost, remaining hidden.


This idea echoes two remarkable moments in the Torah: The Bnos Tzelofchad, in our parshah, whose sincere inquiry brought about a new halachic revelation, and the petitioners of Pesach Sheini, whose yearning for connection changed the calendar of sacrifice. In both cases, Torah was expanded because someone dared to step forward, not just to listen but to participate. Put differently, they are two examples of Jews demanding an expression of their own chelek – and it works. Every Jew has something to contribute; the Torah needs your voice.

 

2) Individual Effort


“The consensus, it seems, is that one man by himself can do little, if anything, in the face of evil or injustice.” Pinchas, grandson of Aharon Hakohen, is celebrated for his individual effort that earned him a covenant of peace and eternal kehunah. Our former Executive Vice President, Rabbi Basil Herring, explores Pinchas’ example of acting as “one man, all alone … against a status quo that was led by a man of superior standing and authority.” We all wish for change in the world; Pinchas did something to enact it. Full piece from The Jewish Imagination here


(See a similar idea, with additional mareh mekomos from R. Ben Zion Firer’s Hegyonah shel Torah here.)


You can also connect a fascinating piece from Rav Hirsch zt”l on the connection between Pinchas and Eliyahu and always fighting for what’s right. Particularly now, it is our task, first and foremost, to do battle for our most sacred values, to muster the courage to make our convictions known, to isolate ourselves and, if need be, to remain isolated in our beliefs. We must nurture, at least within the small circles of our homes and families, a secure future for that righteousness and valor which we regard as everlasting and inalienable.


Full text, from Collected Writingshere


3) Standing Down – and the Power of Apologies (even if you did nothing wrong!)


The chatas of Rosh Chodesh is offered La-Hashem – seemingly on His behalf!

 

 

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אמר ר"ל: מה נשתנה שעיר של ראש חודש שנאמר בו לה'? אמר הקב"ה: שעיר זה יהא כפרה על שמיעטתי את הירח

 

Hakadosh Baruch Hu’s “admission” of sinning against the moon models proper extraction of oneself from machlokes

 

Oftentimes, a disagreement can only be resolved by one side stepping back. After all, it takes two to sustain a conflict. God asks the moon to do just that – to minimize itself and withdraw from a situation that can have no true winner. Remarkably, Hashem then models this very trait by apologizing to the moon. Had God done anything wrong? It is impossible to say so. So why apologize? To make the moon feel "whole" again. The divine apology mirrors the moon’s gesture to the sun, serving as a paradigm for interpersonal behavior. Yes, sometimes we must stand down to end an uncomfortable situation. And yes, sometimes an apology, even if one believes they have done nothing wrong, can be the perfect solution to a seemingly insoluble problem.

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Read something that made you think? We’d love to read it, too – and then feature it! Drop us a line and let us know how we’re doing. 

 

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IJCIC CONDEMNS WORLD COUNCIL OF CHURCHES STATEMENT AS "PROFOUNDLY BIASED" AND THREAT TO INTERFAITH RELATIONS

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Jewish interfaith organization warns WCC statement on Israeli-Palestinian conflict endangers Jewish communities and undermines interfaith dialogue


The International Jewish Committee for Interreligious Consultations (IJCIC), representing world Jewry in interfaith dialogue with world religions, today issued a strong condemnation of the World Council of Churches’ June 24, 2025 statement on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. IJCIC characterized the statement as a “profoundly biased distortion” that threatens to fracture its interfaith partnership.


The unprecedented rebuke comes as tensions escalate over the conflict, with IJCIC warning that the WCC’s position effectively provides “stamp of approval” for antisemitic rhetoric while ignoring critical facts about Hamas terrorism and Israeli civilian casualties. 


“The statement’s one-sided narrative and inflammatory rhetoric not only misrepresent the complexities of the situation,” said Rabbi Mark Dratch, IJCIC Chair, “but also threatens to undermine the trust essential to meaningful interfaith engagement. By omitting Hamas’s October 7 attack and ongoing terrorism while employing inflammatory language like ‘genocide’ and ‘apartheid,’ the WCC has abandoned its moral obligation to promote understanding.”


IJCIC stated that it “can no longer continue as if such fundamental disagreements are mere differences of opinion.” Rabbi Dratch added that, “IJCIC remains committed to interfaith dialogue and the pursuit of peace, but we cannot remain silent when such dialogue is compromised by bias and distortion.”

RCA-OU KALLAH TEACHER COURSE WITH

REBBETZIN PESHI NEUBURGER


Spaces are limited

Kevod Harabanim,


The RCA and OU are co-sponsoring the annual Kallah teacher training course given by Rebbetzin Peshi Neuburger.


Thank you in advance for sharing this information with your wife if she is interested in taking the course or if she knows someone who would be an excellent Kallah Teacher who may be interested in taking this course.


Rebbetzin Peshi Neuburger, renowned rebbetzin, kallah teacher, and educator, will return to the OU this year during the Nine Days to provide an intensive training course for kallah teachers. Rebbetzin Neuburger will describe and demonstrate how she teaches a kallah, adding explanations and perspectives to the kallah-teacher experience. She will share her insights from her own experiences.


WHEN:  Monday-Wednesday, July 28-30, 2025

9:15 AM- 5:15 PM


WHEREOU Headquarters


40 Rector Street

New York, NY 10006

212 613-8228


FEE: $400


Virtual participation is not an option. 


Snacks and drinks will be provided. 


No babysitting or meals will be provided.


Space is limited


For more information, contact amorris@rabbis.org

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