January 28, 2026 • י׳ שבט תשפ״ו

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

RCA Updates

In Our RCA Family
Chomer Lidrush

A Message to our Membership

Partnered Content

Manning the Media


RCA Updates


1) RCA and Israel

RCA President R. Etan Tokayer met with Minister of Aliyah, Ofer Sofer and the CEO of AFJS to address challenges and opportunities of North American Aliyah.

RCA President Etan Tokayer and First Vice-President Kalman Topp met with leadership of World Mizrachi to strengthen our long-standing partnership.

2) Rabbinic Mental Health

The RCA is keenly focused on the mental health of its hard-working membership. Please take advantage of the initiatives below. If you have contacts who may be interested in supporting further initiatives, please contact me as soon as possible.

  • The RCA's Mental Health Line, Click Here
  • Webinar: When the Rabbi is Struggling: Personal Stories of Mental Health

February 11th, 2:00pm EST

See the flyer below


3) RECORDING: Rav Yaakov Shapira on Inyanei Tu B'Shevat

This special shiur, commemorating the 23rd Yartzeit of Rabbi Steven Dworken, zt"l, is a part of the The Rabbi Steven M. Dworken Continuing Education Program and the inauguration of our Torat HaAretz Program

Rav Shapira presents terrific Chomer Lidrush for this Shabbos

Click Here to Watch


In Our RCA Family


  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Kenneth and Nancy Hain on the birth of a great-grandson, and to our chaver Shmuel and Shari Hain on the birth of a grandson, Adir David, born to their grandchildren and children Shira Wein and Eitan Hain
  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Moshe and Cheryl Abramowitz on the birth of a great granddaughter, born to Chaya and Mattanya Bar-lev
  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Aryeh and Meira Federgrun on the bris of their son, Ben Tzion David


Chomer Lidrush

Some ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha.

1) Why the Detour? Rav Soloveitchik on Jewish History's Roundabout Routes


Why does the Torah emphasize that Hashem led Bnei Yisrael “vayasev” — in a roundabout way — through the desert? The Midrash (Shemos Rabbah) makes a connection: from this word “vayasev” we derive the mitzvah of haseibah, reclining at the Seder. But what's the relationship between God's circuitous desert route and our obligation to recline on Pesach?


Rav Soloveitchik explains that reclining demonstrates genuine freedom — and, specifically, freedom despite difficulty. Even a poor person entirely dependent on others for his Seder meal must recline. It's obviously hard for someone in that position to perform this mitzvah, yet he must feel free despite his dependency. That very difficulty is the point: Real freedom isn't contingent on ideal circumstances.


This, says the Rav, mirrors the vayasev — God's roundabout route for His people. The seventh day of Pesach celebrates the splitting of the Yam Suf, yet forty years pass from this point before Bnei Yisrael entered Eretz Yisrael; complete geulah still hasn't arrived. Throughout our historical path, we demonstrate faith and trust while waiting for fulfillment of His promise: "and even though he may tarry, we still wait for [his] arrival." The Jews have suffered oppression and expulsion through many eras, yet we recline at the Seder night, reenacting our redemption even while experiencing the imperative of ongoing galus. Though we may experience poverty or hardship, though God still leads His people in a roundabout manner, we strengthen ourselves with trust that the promise will be realized.


Jewish history is characterized by "deviations from the straight course" — the correct route, not the shortest route, is our destiny. We approach it slowly but surely, then suddenly get deflected, thrust aside, forced in the opposite direction. Positions achieved are abandoned, accomplishments wiped away, entire settlements annihilated — and we start again. Just as surely, geulah beckons repeatedly, inspiring new hopes and movements. This zig-zagging pattern violates the geometric rule that "the shortest distance between two points is a straight line." Other nations move in a straight course from inception to eminence to decline. But our historical detours — the circuitous path itself — build the emunah necessary for ultimate redemption. (Moadei Harav, pp. 153-154; Reflections 1:109-110; you can see the quoted portion in Masores HaRav Chumash here.)


2) Taking Out Yosef's Bones


This week, as Beshalach opens with Moshe personally carrying Yosef's bones out of Egypt, we watched IDF soldiers painstakingly excavate a cemetery in Gaza to recover the remains of Ran Givili hy"d, the last hostage. The juxtaposition is striking – there really is no way to ignore it.


The Torah tells us explicitly: "U'moshe lakach es atzmot Yosef imo", Moshe takes the bones (or remains) of Yosef with him at the time of Yetzias Mitzrayim, literally. This fulfills Yosef's request of Bnei Yisrael, by which he had them swear: "please bring up my bones from here with you." Moshe is the one who takes upon himself the responsibility to fulfill this request.


Here’s the question: Why does the Torah emphasize that Moshe did this? And why is this pasuk positioned exactly where it is? The Torah tells us: "And Bnei Yisrael were chamushim when they went up from the land of Egypt. And Moshe took the bones of Yosef with him." Rashi interprets chamushim to mean "armed" – when Bnei Yisrael left Egypt, they were prepared with the weaponry necessary to confront the contingency of war.


What relationship was there between Moshe removing Yosef's bones and Bnei Yisrael arming themselves upon leaving Egypt?


Harav Boruch Sorotzkin zt"l suggests that Bnei Yisrael and Moshe were actually both arming themselves. The feature which distinguished one from the other was their sense of priorities. Moshe was Divinely inspired to make sure that Bnei Yisrael would cross the Yam Suf in the merit of Yosef. The Midrash states, "the sea saw and fled" (Tehillim 114). What did the sea notice that caused it to flee? It saw the aron of Yosef. Moshe understood that triumph in battle is not contingent upon physical prowess or advanced weaponry. Success in every area of life's endeavor is a product of one's spiritual efforts or one's individual merit.


We gravitate toward easy mitzvos, the ones that fit conveniently into our lives. But Moshe actively sought out the difficult, spiritually significant task that everyone else was too busy to undertake. This week, the world watched soldiers digging through a cemetery with extraordinary effort to bring home a Jewish soul. That same imperative – the recognition that some mitzvos are worth the hardest work – animated Moshe Rabbeinu at Yetzias Mitzrayim. The wise heart doesn't wait for mitzvos to present themselves easily; it acquires them, pursues them, even when – especially when – they require everything we have to give.


Parperet: Snow! I Bet You Never Saw It This Way.


While much of the country is covered in snow (and, yes, ice as well), we're all reciting the same words in Shacharis: "Hanosen sheleg katzamer" – He gives snow like wool (Tehillim 147:16). We say this pasuk every single day in Pesukei D'Zimra, but have we ever stopped to wonder – what does "like wool" actually mean? Why compare snow to wool at all?


The Imrei Emes offers a terrific interpretation: Hashem gives snow only according to the wool we have. In other words, the snow falls in proportion to our ability to protect ourselves from it – our wool, our warm clothing, our shelter, our resources. The comparison is precise! Hashem calibrates the challenges He sends us to match exactly what we can handle. Never more than that.


Every hardship, every test, every "storm" in our lives arrives measured against our capacity to weather it. When we feel overwhelmed, this pasuk is a reassurance: the snow matches the wool. You have what you need—perhaps not what you want, but what you need—to endure this moment. The One who sends the snow is the same One who provided the wool. Thanks to chaver R’ Akiva Males for pointing this out!


See Last Year’s Chomer Here.


Partnered Content


Educational Resources for Teaching about STaM


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As part of this initiative, KosherKlaf is offering RCA rabbis a complimentary copy of The Mezuzah User Guide by Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz. The sefer is a practical halachic manual tracing the laws of mezuzah from Shas through the Rishonim and later poskim, with a strong emphasis on real-world application and modern housing scenarios. It includes expert technical commentary from Rabbi Moshe Gantz, based on the inspection of over 250,000 mezuzot, and Rabbi Yishai Sarig on STaM standards and kashrut.


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A Message to our Membership


Dear Chaverim,


As we prepare for Parshas Beshalach, I want to share something the Divrei Yosef, Rav Yosef Kovner, teaches that speaks directly to us – not to our congregants, but to us.


Why did Moshe Rabbeinu personally take upon himself the burden of carrying Yosef's bones? The Divrei Yosef explains that Moshe needed Yosef with him not only for the miracle at the Yam Suf, but for something even more immediate: the strength to lead the baalebatim.


Think about it. Moshe had just witnessed the Makkos. He had led Bnei Yisrael out of Egypt with Hashem’s outstretched arm. And yet – almost immediately – the complaints began. "Why did you bring us out here? Were there no graves in Mitzrayim?" How could he continue leading a people who remained unconvinced even after witnessing yad Hashem hachazakah?


Yosef understood something Moshe needed to internalize: this behavior – the complaints, the lack of faith, the second-guessing – isn't a permanent condition. It's a symptom of galus. And after galus comes geulah. The very fact that they're complaining means they're still in galus-mode, still carrying Mitzrayim within them. But redemption is coming. The process takes time.


Chaverim, we know this reality intimately. We give everything we have, we prepare carefully, we daven for our kehillos — and still face criticism, frustration, pushback. It's exhausting. But remember: even Moshe Rabbeinu needed chizuk for this. He had to literally carry Yosef's perspective with him — the long view, the patient view, the view that sees galus symptoms as temporary and geulah as inevitable.


The complaints aren't the final word. The geulah is.


May we be blessed to carry “Yosef’s bones” in our important work, even when the complaints get loud.


Good Shabbos.


Manning the Media

The hostages are back, but it’s far from over. Rachel Goldberg-Polin's essay "When the Last Hostage Came Home" in the Free Press deserves your attention.


She writes about the return of the last hostage from Gaza, Ran Gvili, marking the end of a mission but not of her grief – Her son Hersh was murdered after 328 days in captivity. She describes the bewildering reality of bereaved families: living simultaneously in two places, with the dead and among the living, carrying what she calls "knee-buckling suffering" through ordinary days.


Rachel doesn't offer comfort or resolution; she offers truth: "There is not a way to put down the void, so we are all figuring out how to shlep the ache more smoothly."


Beyond the hostages, for those of us who stand with mourners and struggle to find adequate words, her voice provides rare insight into what it actually means to be “aveilim in Tzion.” She closes with the traditional nichum aveilim formula, but transforms it into a prayer for "compassion, strength, hope, grace, and light as we figure out how to walk barefoot on broken glass."


Read it. It will change how you comfort. Link here, or PDF if need.

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